addictED865
HEEEEEEELP MEEEE!!!!
Well i recently discovered that i was bisexual. My friend whom ive known for quite a while told me back in fifth grade that she thought she was lesbian. She came out to me and a few other people. She told me that she liked me, back then i was totally straight but i wasnt really freaked out. Then she went through a totally straight phase and then she was just bi now she says men ar pricks im totally lesbian (no offense guys) anyway to the point
My boyfriend just dumped me and so she asked me out. And i said yes. Weve been best freiends for so long and i just dont know if i want to do this and mess up a really good friendship but at the same time she says shes been wanting to ask me out for a while and that now that were finally going out shes really excited. But what if we break up? Will our friendship still be the same? And how do i tell my highly catholic grandparents that i live with? Or even my mom who would probably accept me but im to scared to ask? How will my friends treat me differently the people at my school? This is all so scary. Im not even sure if i want to come out yet but its on myspace so i guess everyone knows. Im so freaked out. What do i do?
I know exsactly how feel because I'm in the same situation. I have a girlfriend who has been my friend for awhile but I don't really want to date her becasue I'm afraid I'll screw up, and the whole parent thing. I mean how do you deal with that? But my advice to you is just tell them and if they don't except you, then that's their problem. And if they really love you then they'll accept that. And as for the girlfriend, just tell her how you feel about the situation. Talking is the best thing you can do right now. So just give it a try and hope for the best. That's what I had to do. As for school, I'd keep quiet for a little while. Unless everyone knows anyway. Then that's just fine. I hope you have the best of luck!
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