Time to talk about another important Topic that is being taken for granted, it’s called Friendship, and drama can suck just as bad with this than True Love.
Of course we all have our childhood friends, but of course as the years pass, people can change just like that, and therefore, some people break off friendships with their childhood friends for various reasons. Along the way in Life through school and other places in the town you live in, you encounter more chances of making friends, the only problem however is the fact that which ones are Good and which ones are Bad? It’s always good to make lots of new friends, but you must take their personalities into account. Friendship is of course mainly having fun like hanging out and going places, but Friendship is also about the bond of people who come from different families.
When it comes to choosing friends, you should never judge them by their clothing, get to know them first, see what kind personality they have, and only then can you make a decision, but consider the outcome. Some people tend to jump the gun & act too trusting, then you could have yourself a Fake friend, and in my book, that’s the last thing you want. Honestly you should ask yourself, would you rather have a True Friend who you can talk to about anything, hang out with them & have fun, someone who actually cares about you, someone you can trust, and who will take you seriously? Or would you rather have a Fake Friend who will ignore you at times, be an a*****e/b***h for no reason, talk about you behind your back, and even take advantage of you?
Everyone changes of course when they mature, some people mature quick, and some will mature a little slow. You must also take this into account, because some of your current friends can either change for the better, or for worst. This comes to show you also that some friendships are meant to be, while other friendships are meant to end. I have had my share of friendship losses over the years, but I also have gained more friends over time as well. Of course the friendships that have ended for you, sooner or later they will come back and try to talk to you, and at this point you should know how to handle it. If they have changed for the better, you start the friendship over again fresh, but if they are still the same, drop them like a hot rock.
Honestly, that is the main thing that pisses me off; old friends who are still the same come back, and ask for my forgiveness. They only want to apologize to me because they can’t live with the guilt of someone hating them because they ******** up, so, they come to me, asking for forgiveness, just so they can have a clean soul as we still go separate ways. No, that is not how it ******** works, if you really did care about how you hurt our friendship, you wouldn’t have done it in the first place. I only forgive and forget if someone wants to actually be my friend again and make the friendship work. Otherwise they might as well not even try to contact me at all, we all have to deal with guilt, it’s a part of Life, so what if someone hates you and thinks you’re a bad person, get over yourself and deal with it. If you ruined a Relationship or Friendship because of your selfish acts, you deserve being hated by others and you need to accept the guilt instead of denying it. I cherish and try to make the relationships I have had in my life work, same with friendships, I have no regrets or guilt what so ever, but some of my old friends would say otherwise. In my personal opinion, I believe punishment is a good way teach someone a lesson, especially if they deserve it. I think if you just forgive easily or don't fight back, they will walk all over you.
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