Love
I think it's amazing how some people perceive 'love'. Several people that I know of have different boyfriends all the time and they claim that they're in love. The fact that people can go on to love someone else after being 'in love' remains even more of a mystery to me. If it was so easy to let go, if it was so easy to find 'someone new', where then, was the real love? I've had plenty of girlfriends come up to me and tell me that they love this person and they couldn't be happier right now. Yet I can't help but think, 'Sure, that's what you'll be saying 2 months from now with another guy.'
Personally, I want love that will last a lifetime. Meaning to say that I'm willing to wait for the right person, instead of anyone who confesses they like me. Because what would the point of that be?
I know it sounds far fetched and somewhat crazy, but that's all I want. I know how people say you have to find the right person and by that they mean you have to get out there and meet more people. I don't mind meeting new people, but I don't want to date them to 'get to know them.' I don't want to 'confess my love' to someone who won't appreciate it forever.
The kind of love I want is eternal. It's something that should be real and should be true, not just a spur of the moment thing. I don't mind saying "I love you" to someone, but I do mind if I'm not sure if you'll truly love me back. But I'm sick of seeing people throw their love out to others and just have it given back a month later.
I don't know, I've always been sort of a hopeless romantic. Watching people run around giving their love so freely and taking it without cherishing it...it seems so sad. As if love isn't what it's supposed to be anymore. As if love isn't really love.
