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Akumanokibe
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about romance
why do people think romance its an antique?... really... i dont get it
i mean sure im an ol fashioned guy but whats so bad about making a girl feel special?..more than a physical level but in a more deep level...now dont get me wrong i love to see a girl with a great body and a lovely face...im detest to admit that im vane at that level...but yet i do admit that i like physical beuty as well.. but that doesnt mean thats everything....i like to see beyond that...physical beuty diminish with age ... spiritual beuty grows with time.... most of the time at least...
i like physical shows of affection ....who doesnt like that?.... sex? SURE!.... but i need more than an empty shell... the way you can connect to someone else... the way you could just go to sleep in your gf/bf 's arms.... the way you can make them feel unique with just a word... to touch them deeper than anyone else could just because you are there....sex has its pleasure i wont try or even want to try to deny that...yes... sex its one of the best things on this life especially if you have done it without any reason of regret... where you were sure you wanted to do it and you dont get hurt afterwards....but feeling a deeper conection its also enjoyable...and more importantly its NOT excludent... more so when the two colide its heavenly bliss





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kagome_102
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comment Commented on: Fri Jan 06, 2006 @ 10:01pm
*claps* bravo.. at list theres a guy in the wolrd that thinks right!! *hugs u* ur alwasy so right.. so smart.. 4laugh sex yeah its good.. like my mom says.. "sex is so beutiful even birds do it" so.. yeah but love is way better then sex.. i knwo u didnt write it.. but.. theres a big different between makign love and making sex..


comment Commented on: Fri Jan 06, 2006 @ 10:20pm
sweatdrop nah i dont think im like that at all... but thats exactly what i meant with my last words... having sex its a beutyfull thing.. but touching the one you love...making love to the one you love...its beyond comparison.



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comment Commented on: Wed Jan 11, 2006 @ 03:25am
I don't see how it's beautiful, then again I'm not the kind of person who gets involved with that stuff >_> To me sex is the reason the population is growing so rapidly, also because teenagers in highschool can't control theirselves, and that makes them stupid. I may do it one day, but after I'v got a house and enough money to raise a family, though I'm still unsure about having kids....But this is just my opinion. Whether or not two people want to..yeah...is their choice. And with all the pornogrophy and hentai I'v unfortunately seen around, I find sex to be a bit gross.....And I am often confused if most people do it because they love each other and want a baby or if they just do it for fun....also it's associated with rape, but I'm not going into that. @_@;; And I agree with Tango, love is much more important. You have to consider how your partner feels about it.


comment Commented on: Wed Jan 25, 2006 @ 08:59pm
it seems im getting misunderstood here sweatdrop ...
what i mean by nah...its that i dont thing im smart or right at all specially not always...
sex is beutyfull when is done right and without any reason of regret...
that means when you are both convinced you want to do it and are ready for whatever the consecuenses are...
i know well about lust... about being with someone just because we both wanted to have sex...but even in that case i was sure to not hurting her...or me... i am no saint after all ...and saying i didnt like it because was only physical it wouldnt be honest of me to say ...but i do understand what you say mokemono....
im a bit liberal when it comes to talking... i trully believe one shouldnt deny what their real wishes and thoughts are...

but sex not longer being an act of intimacy how it was supoused to be...porn,hentai,girls and boys that think having sex without responsabilities is cool,rapists.....those are decadence....those who do not take responsabilitie over their acts or dont care about the person they are having relations with are just empty shells....
i totally agree with you in that the most important thing its to take at count the feelings of the person you are with...i would never do anything that a girl doesnt allow me to...thats beyond of being human..thats just being a beast...
and i would never hurt a girl by decieve her just so i can have sex with her... i believe in honesty....and i believe that even if i could fool a girl to have sex with me it wouldnt be without a reason of regret...she would regret it...and deep inside i would as well...i dont lie to people...how grotesque or cinic that may be at least i can say with a proud head that they cant say anything to me... because i was never decievefull



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AngelAssassin
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comment Commented on: Tue Jan 31, 2006 @ 06:40am
*gasps* You are the second person who I know you finally gets it! That is exactly how I feel around my boyfriend. It isn't just the sex and the physical attraction. It is also the spiritual attraction and if you two can connect on a deeper level. Like, just being around him makes my day even brighter. I love to sit down and talk with him about music, video games, and even watch the stupidest things on the internet. Though me and him do have different interests (He is an art major while I am a Japanese major), that what pulls me towards him. I want to learn more about him everyday (like I don't know enough already..... sweatdrop ). Yes, sex is great. Amazing, even. However, it is better to actually sit down and listen to one another.


comment Commented on: Fri Feb 03, 2006 @ 06:39pm
3nodding ... really... i mean... sure sure i like sex... who doesnt it?.... but... just cuddling while watching a movie... or the way you can just stare at her sleep ... the long chats... even by the phone! i mean...just hearing you beloved's voice...
that is just what can make a lame day a great day.... but that is just love itself...
romance... the manifestation of love in a detail... as sex is a manifestation of passion and desire ... romance its kinda more complicated than that because people seem to think it is not longer required... they use romance just as a hook to get laid or get to marry someone and then go like "i own you i dont have to make you fall in love with me no more"... that is a sad mistake...
"make love to me everyday of my life even if you cant touch me"



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a bunch of roses
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comment Commented on: Fri Mar 24, 2006 @ 07:24am
wow! i would just love it if all the guys in this world were like u! u have good points and dont worry, i do understand what ur trying to say! biggrin and i would totally date u! wink lol! just kiddin, ur too old for me. lol again! yea...so...anyways, i know u posted this a long time ago but i read it today...so um yea...bueno pues, hasta luego! blaugh luv ya! 4laugh


comment Commented on: Sat Apr 01, 2006 @ 08:41am
crying i feel old and decrepit now crying .... o well.... sweatdrop cry .....but hope you think that with age comes wisdom sad



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comment Commented on: Mon Dec 04, 2006 @ 04:17pm
heart You're not old at all sweetie. You've aged perfectly. And what's more, I still claim you as mine... so none of this selfdepreciating behavior... don't make me go off on another rant, nyah~~
I swear I will nyah~~
Don't make me!! ::curls up with you and cuddles your arm::
Mine, nyah~~~~
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comment Commented on: Wed Feb 14, 2007 @ 06:59am
Wow. That is so deep and wise. I don't think anybody can put it into better words. Surely I couldn't. Doesn't mean I wouldn't try mine you! sweatdrop
But that's something I think should be taken to heart and hearing someone say that and people agreeing to that makes me have more faith in the people today. I hope that when people read this that it'll give them a brighter path to follow and one day be able to experiance this romance and love you described so.... expressively.
And I hope all, if not most, can experiance that today on Valentine's Day.

Happy Valentine's Day or to the one's alone today, Happy Chocolate Munchy DAY! mrgreen



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