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Report | 05/21/2019 8:11 pm

LOL I CANT WITH YALL
just read all the comments
yall talk so much
wow

yall can text me or add me on insta likeee i dont get on here anymore just when i get bored with life
but i miss yall
please stay intouch before gaia implodes and i lose yall forever

Report | 03/30/2019 2:17 am

Tadundra

Gaia's a post-apocalyptic society now, it's every man for himself and you gotta think ahead. Show gaia who's boss next time they try and erase your comment, prove you're the top of the food chain now.

Oh god imagine though, like you go from being just your average joe to this world-wide phenomena, only to be forgotten about after a few months and going back to being a somewhat normal person and occasionally hear yourself referenced in a passing conversation between two strangers, that's one wild ride right there

Yeah Annie ain't gonna do s**t in a situation like this, but Ana, now that's a girl who can knock some heads together. Last time I talked to her was like 2 months ago maybe, so idk, maybe in one more month we'll have to declare her MIA or dead

I FORGOT THEY SWITCHED! I hadn't had them in YEARS, so I didn't even notice! I like things that are flavored green apple, but the lemon-lime was a classic and it's not something they can just switch on a whim! The best ones have, and always will be, the red and purple ones though imo. I don't know, like there are some things that could easily be explained away as just a coincidence, and there are things that could go either way, but then there are other things that just coincide too well to be just a coincidence. Sometimes stuff like tarot or astrology is comforting whenever you feel lost or like you don't know what to do because it can at least give you some sort of direction, or at the very least make you look at various situations from different viewpoints you otherwise wouldn't have considered. You're right that this kind of stuff is definitely not something to base life-altering decisions on, but when you're feeling directionless it can help give you direction, and even if it isn't the best direction it at least gives you a place to start.

And I'm sure you learned more about what you want, and don't want, in future relationships too, maybe even about things like warning signs or red flags that might point to the relationship going in a direction you don't like. It really sounds like an overall messed up situation for everyone involved, but he is the one who said he needed space so all you really can do is move on the best you can until he makes the decision to contact you or not, otherwise you will end up as one of those people who get super caught up in a past relationship even though the other person made the decision to completely part ways. Learning not to base all your happiness on someone else is probably one of the best life lessons but it sucks when you have to learn it the hard way. It also really sucks 'cause you want someone to blame but when the person who hurt you seems to have been hurt just as much as you were you just can't, regardless of how much you want to. You've got you're whole life ahead of you to find you a man who knows you deserve the world, and there ain't no room for any little d**k energy in it, no sir talk2hand

I think it's about time to pull the plug and euthanize this poor site, it's almost inhumane now. I'd loooove to text you as soon as I get it and all but I'm not sure how much you'd appreciate a 2am text and all that lol.
Dear Gaia, pls don't mess up the formatting this time. Thnx, a currently very sleep-deprived user

Report | 03/22/2019 3:02 pm

Tadundra

sorry for spamming your comments, but dear god gaia has gone off the deep end now lol, I take back every kind word I ever spoke about this place because gaia is doing me DIRTY and after it already did you like that, it is time for the cancel crowd to come cleans gaia lol

Report | 03/22/2019 3:00 pm

Tadundra

lets try this again without any emojis.....

THAT'S HAPPENED SOOO MANY TIMES TO ME!! I'LL JUST BE MINDIN MY OWN BUSINESS AND BOOM GAIA PULLS A NETFLIX AND INTERRUPTS EVERYTHING. AT LEAST NETFLIX IS POLITE AND ASKS BEFORE KICKING YOU THO

It's my dream to become inhumanly famous and be asked in an interview where I got my start and say "WorldStar" lol

s**t dude I'm a 4'9, 95lbs redhead you think I'm gonna do much better? Maybe we gotta rethink this whole thing

Wowow life really seems to be going your way now. Wish I could say the same but I'm eating skittles right now as I write this and I keep getting orange and yellow ones, I think its a sign. Seriously though like since I'm getting a minor in psychology and whatnot I learn about all this false attributions your mind makes and stuff but I'm the same way. I don't really put too much stock into astrology and tarot and stuff but at the same time it's super enjoyable and sometimes it really does feel like there are too many coincidences. I have a friend who put it in terms I really liked, she said something like she's not really an astrology person but she feels like it can help bring up interpersonal things she can work on or even help point out things in her life to think about that she otherwise never would have. So even if tarot or astrology really has any scientific backing it can really help people work on themselves or even with tarot give people some comfort in what their future might hold. Idk if that made sense since I was trying to remember what my friend said exactly but w/e

Yeah, It's really hard to try and analyze the relationship and look at things objectively in an attempt to get answers if there wasn't ever really a solid conclusion of why he did what he did. And like relationships are a two way streak and whatnot so I'm sure you made some mistakes along the way too, but that doesn't mean he has the right to betray your trust. If he does come running back you almost certainly will be more guarded around him, even if you feel like you've made amends with the situation and all that it doesn't necessarily mean you'll forget what happened, even if you really want to. It's like the whole forgive but never forget thing, you can forgive him for what happened but that doesn't mean you'll forget it, or even that you should forget it. Of course I don't know the entirety of the situation but it really does sound like you've been doing better, but I think, at least for you in this situation, the last step to "healing" or whatever you want to call it would be to confront/discuss everything with him. He left you on such an open-ended note that you'll probably have to talk to him about it to get some form of closure. Since it does seem like a situation where a good person just royally screwed up, I think he'd probably be open to the idea, maybe not right now, but at some point I think you'd both be able to have a civil discussion. The hardest part honestly might be to not get your hopes up, regardless of whether it's concerning getting back together or just being friends, it could very well end up being a situation where any grudges or whatever are dispelled but it's affected either one or both of you to the point where you don't think it'd be healthy to keep in close contact with one another. Until then though all you can really do is continue trying to move on and better yourself/your situation and it sounds like you're doing a pretty good job with that so far. You really are going through the five stages of grief though with the loss of this relationship, you've just gotta take your time processing everything and try to get to the point where you can accept what's happened.

I know, it's engine's been sputtering but somehow it keeps chugging along lol. Even with all the rust it did provide a lot of good (and sometimes real bad lol) memories. I mean I don't think it's [i]illegal[/i] per se, but as we say in the criminal justice field, it's only illegal if you

Report | 03/22/2019 2:58 pm

Tadundra

HOLLY HELL WHAT HAPPENED TO MY COMMENT LOL, THE FORMATTING IS ABSOLUTELY ATROCIOUS, NOW YOU DON'T GET TO SEE MY PERFECTLY TIMED EMOJI PLACEMENT

Gaia, you really ******** up this time talk2hand

Report | 03/22/2019 2:56 pm

Tadundra

THAT'S HAPPENED SOOO MANY TIMES TO ME!! I'LL JUST BE MINDIN MY OWN BUSINESS AND BOOM GAIA PULLS A NETFLIX AND INTERRUPTS EVERYTHING. AT LEAST NETFLIX IS POLITE AND ASKS BEFORE KICKING YOU THO

It's my dream to become inhumanly famous and be asked in an interview where I got my start and say "WorldStar" lol

s**t dude I'm a 4'9, 95lbs redhead you think I'm gonna do much better? Maybe we gotta rethink this whole thing [img]https://gaiatools.com/emote/doom.png[/img]

Wowow life really seems to be going your way now. Wish I could say the same but I'm eating skittles right now as I write this and I keep getting orange and yellow ones, I think its a sign. Seriously though like since I'm getting a minor in psychology and whatnot I learn about all this false attributions your mind makes and stuff but I'm the same way. I don't really put too much stock into astrology and tarot and stuff but at the same time it's super enjoyable and sometimes it really does feel like there are too many coincidences. I have a friend who put it in terms I really liked, she said something like she's not really an astrology person but she feels like it can help bring up interpersonal things she can work on or even help point out things in her life to think about that she otherwise never would have. So even if tarot or astrology really has any scientific backing it can really help people work on themselves or even with tarot give people some comfort in what their future might hold. Idk if that made sense since I was trying to remember what my friend said exactly but [img]https://gaiatools.com/emote/shrug.gif[/img]

Yeah, It's really hard to try and analyze the relationship and look at things objectively in an attempt to get answers if there wasn't ever really a solid conclusion of why he did what he did. And like relationships are a two way streak and whatnot so I'm sure you made some mistakes along the way too, but that doesn't mean he has the right to betray your trust. If he does come running back you almost certainly will be more guarded around him, even if you feel like you've made amends with the situation and all that it doesn't necessarily mean you'll forget what happened, even if you really want to. It's like the whole forgive but never forget thing, you can forgive him for what happened but that doesn't mean you'll forget it, or even that you should forget it. Of course I don't know the entirety of the situation but it really does sound like you've been doing better, but I think, at least for you in this situation, the last step to "healing" or whatever you want to call it would be to confront/discuss everything with him. He left you on such an open-ended note that you'll probably have to talk to him about it to get some form of closure. Since it does seem like a situation where a good person just royally screwed up, I think he'd probably be open to the idea, maybe not right now, but at some point I think you'd both be able to have a civil discussion. The hardest part honestly might be to not get your hopes up, regardless of whether it's concerning getting back together or just being friends, it could very well end up being a situation where any grudges or whatever are dispelled but it's affected either one or both of you to the point where you don't think it'd be healthy to keep in close contact with one another. Until then though all you can really do is continue trying to move on and better yourself/your situation and it sounds like you're doing a pretty good job with that so far. You really are going through the five stages of grief though with the loss of this relationship, you've just gotta take your time processing everything and try to get to the point where you can accept what's happened.

I know, it's engine's been sputtering but somehow it keeps chugging along lol. Even with all the rust it did provide a lot of good (and sometimes real bad lol) memories. I mean I don't think it's [i]illegal[/i] per se, but as we say in the crim

Report | 03/16/2019 11:11 pm

Tadundra

But feel free to do your death walk in my general vicinity 'cause we know this b***h is looking for some entertainment lol

Just point 'em out and I'll deal with 'em. One of us can be a distraction and the other can sneak up from behind or something.

She shoulda checked herself before she wrecked herself but its too late for her now, just gotta drop the baggage and leave.

One that I forgot about was r/choosingbeggars, it's similar to r/entitledparents but instead of parents thinking their kids are owed things it's just random strangers who think they're owed. When I listen to the stories from youtube my go-to channels are rSlash and fresh in case you need some recommendations lol.

He totally betrayed you and your trust and there's really no coming back from that. Regardless of whether or not years down the road you two could make some sort of amends you'll most likely always have those lingering feelings of betrayal that'll make it, at the very least, extremely difficult to achieve any sense of true trust with him. You literally poured your heart out to him while you two were together and he went and poured it right down the sink. One thing that really sucks in this kind of situation is people are going to keep saying stuff like you need to look for what you've learned from the relationship but you literally have no answers so there's literally nothing to learn from it except you can't trust people and that's not a good lesson. Honestly I can't even begin to imagine the kind of pain you have/are dealing with so I can't really give all that good advice but maybe just focusing on yourself and trying to avoid thinking about it too much until you're in a better frame of mind might help slightly? It really sucks that you might never have the answers you want or need and it's something you're being forced to accept.

And they keep putting money into it even thought it'd cost less to just start over. I was so surprised when I was bored one day and found out it was still alive lol, it was such a weird feeling because I was so sure it would have died by then but there's still a decent amount of people who are active. It's literally a train wreck that we can't look away from. Lol if you still have that group chat on your phone you should try and revive it and see what happens. Your past experience with failed group chats will surely help keep one with the three of us alive and thriving! Learning from history and all that!

Report | 03/13/2019 1:46 pm

Tadundra

The more they keep talking the more they end up digging their own grave, but hey, maybe that's what they want? An early death? I can respect that

Once you start a fight with me you won't need anyone to remind you not to do it again lol

Ann? Anabel? Annie? Never heard of her, maybe try someone else talk2hand

I personally recommend ones talking about r/entitledparents to hear about some crazy people who thinks everyone owes them/their kids things or r/prorevenge if you want a 3 course meal of a** whoopin

Ohh no now I won't ever get the image of a gasping, sobbing pikachu outta my head, it's such an awful image. That really sucks though, like I feel bad for your ex in the sense that he seemed like he had a lot on his plate, but that doesn't give him the right to hurt you like that. Just 'cause you're in a sucky situation doesn't mean you get to create a sucky situation for someone else. I don't know the whole situation obv but I don't think you should worry about being more hurt than you should, like if you were in love with him as much as it seemed you were and he just dropped you like that and betrayed your trust somehow then I think you have every right to feel hurt by him and the situation. Like you two were in a relationship and he should have treated you with respect, even when trying to break up with you or w/e. Like you said, you and him made an agreement to communicate from day 1, and communication is super important in a relationship, he should have talked to you about how he was feeling 'cause it probably would have made the situation soooo much better if you just knew what was going on instead of being left in the dark. Like you still don't know what really happened and I can only imagine what thoughts have crossed your mind, I know I'd be thinking a bunch of stuff like did I do something wrong? Did they ever really like me? What's wrong with me to make them want to leave? etc., like any reason is better than being left in the dark and thinking of all the possibilities, you deserved enough respect from him to at least have him give you something besides "space"

I mean literally everyone keeps talking about how Gaia is in the ditch but somehow keeps on truckin lol. The social media I use most is def. twitter, even though I mainly lurk and only post like once in a blue moon I'm on there a lot lol, but I'm not opposed to getting a discord account or something, I can give you my phone number too if you want, that'd probably be the best way to get in contact with me tbh since it's basically attached to me 24/7

Report | 03/09/2019 1:54 pm

Tadundra

Lol I know right? Like detectives know how to get in your head, it's literally part of their jobs during interrogations. If you think you're gonna easily win an argument with a detective you're fighting an uphill battle especially when it's concerning stuff they do every day

If you wanna beat me in an argument you're gonna have to work for it talk2hand

Annie is basically a lost cause, we gotta figure out if it's time to just cut our losses and run

Omg like if you ever have some free time you should look up some youtube videos of people narrating some of those reddit stories, 'cause some of them are just crazy, the best ones are the ones where the people end up doing something illegal and get the cops called on 'em 'cause then you get some feeling of justice instead of all your faith in humanity tossed out the window directly into a dumpster fire lol

I need to hear this story, it sounds so wild! Such juicy tea would surely put Gaia on life support! Really though, I wish more people would just be honest about why they want out of a relationship, like idk maybe it's just me but I'd rather have them tell me something like they're just not attracted to me anymore, or they met someone they clicked with more, or they simply don't want to date anymore, etc. and be honest about it than try and "let me down easy" and say they "need space" 'cause then it makes me wonder what I did wrong, ya know? Just be straightforward about it and I'll be good tbh, I'd rather know exactly why a relationship failed (even if I don't agree w/ the reason) than have to wonder why.

We do need to figure out a better way to stay in touch rather than through Gaia lol, it ain't gonna last forever. Gaia isn't exactly the best place to stay in touch and talk about life either.

Report | 03/01/2019 6:31 pm

Tadundra

The detective is pretty chill and stuff n he's really good about being nice when correcting people when they misunderstand something but when someone's acting all high and mighty about stuff he know's is nothing but bullshit you best BELIEVE there's a storm heading their way.

I H A T E when I say something that I KNOW is right 'cause it was literally in the text book or something n someone starts trying to say it's wrong with some bullshit statistics the pulled out of a hat, but at the same time I loooove when I'm able to throw their arguments back ate em so it's a lose win situation I guess lol

All she's gotta do is give us a signal, preferably one a bit more obvious than swearing an average of every 5 words

There's so many crazy people tbh, like do you ever read/watch videos about stories people post on reddit? Like r/choosingbeggars or r/entitledparents? There's so many people who think the world owes them something because they were born into it and I just can't with some people

I've never understood the whole "I need space" thing, like ok but what do you need space from? Like if you just don't wanna be in a relationship anymore that's a perfectly valid reason but just be honest and say it instead of the "I need space" spiel

Report | 02/24/2019 2:10 am

Tadundra

Yeah, lol, one class of mine has a homicide detective whose coming back to get his degree and when someone starts spouting bs about police work/detective work/murders you can see him shifting in his seat waiting for a chance to respond

Just like those ransom letters you see in shows with the cut out letters/words lol

I KNOW!! Like FIRST you wanna CHEAT, but THEN you decide whyyyyyyyyy would I plagiarize from some OTHER source, when there's a perfectly good P R O F E S S O R sitting over there, ripe for the taking?? Idk man sometimes I just don't get people lol

Report | 02/22/2019 3:15 pm

Tadundra

lol it's really fun when it's in class and you can look around the room and see people turning red, I remember one time someone made a stupid comment and the professor tried to respectfully call em out on their bs and got super passive aggressive

And then you gotta look at their choice of swear words like if they just say a** or damn a lot then it's not an extreme cry for help but then when annie comes and starts drop an f bomb every 5 words you know shes got a backstory lol

OMG I just remembered that like a semester or 2 ago someone literally plagiarized their response directly from the professor's power point and there was so much D R A M A in the discussion that week, it was pretty darn entertaining, but yeah cheating is really not worth it lol

Report | 02/21/2019 12:17 am

Tadundra

tell me about it lol, credit where credit's due though, there are a decent amount of people who do call them out on their bs and who restore some hope

And then if give off like a super shy and un-intimidating feeling it's even more concerning like did something happen to you?? Do you need to talk about it?? Annie pls blink twice if you're in distress

Exactly! Either you gotta be clever with how you cheat or just don't do it, at least if you're clever with it then I can somewhat respect the effort you put in to your cheating lol

Report | 02/20/2019 2:01 am

Tadundra

I've done it too lol. Like my criminal justice classes are probably the ones that get the most divisive and sometimes you just want to strangle someone for how idiotic their "logic" is, and then the idea that a lot of these people are going into law enforcement creeps in my head and I just can't User Image - Blocked by "Display Image" Settings. Click to show.

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Its such a shock when you talk to those people in person for the first time like whoooa there sailor when'd you get back from sea lol

The worst is when it's suuuuper blatant copying, like they change it slightly to either make it sound slightly more formal or slightly more casual and you're just sittin there like how'd you think you'd get away with that User Image - Blocked by "Display Image" Settings. Click to show.

Report | 02/19/2019 5:30 pm

Tadundra

lol yeah, sometimes you can tell someone just wants flip out on the person but instead they get passive aggressive and still lead off with the "respectfully disagree" line

lmao just thinking about it is makin my wig prepare for takeoff
Never thought of it like that but you're sooo right! You kinda get to see how people want to be perceived too based on the way they word their responses

I think that happened like once and so my professor just gave us all full points 'cause he couldn't tell who actually did the assignment and who didn't

Report | 02/19/2019 12:20 am

Tadundra

Whoever posts first sets the standards and it's usually the formal people who get there first

I know!! Sometimes its so hard to read his responses because of how extra they are!! Plus the thought of him one day deciding to reply to me causes me to wait until the last second to post everything lol

But then there are some people who only post like 1 or 2 sentences. I have one class that is in person but also has online discussions sometimes and its interesting to see how different people are irl vs online, like theres one girl who'll talk a lot in class but only write 2 sentences online even though its like a 200 word requirement

Most of my professors set it so that you can't see anyone else's responses until you post your 1st one, but sometimes you'll see someone who edited their post after the fact and I wonder if they ever get docked points for doing that?

Report | 02/18/2019 11:29 pm

Tadundra

I wonder how many people do it just to go along with the crowd lol
Like I barely even use people's names when talking to them irl, even friends
Omg and then, in that one class that's kickin my butt, there's a kid who I went to high school with and not only is he one of the "dear" people, but for whatever reason he has to go and write an entire NOVEL for his og post about how the book chapter changed him, and how his eyes have been opened thanks to a single paragraph, n the entire language he uses is as if he had an epiphany regarding meaning of life if that makes sense
you learn a lot about people from online discussions I guess lol

Report | 02/18/2019 9:56 pm

Tadundra

Gahh I KNOW, they GOT ME!! You know what's the worst about online discussions imo though? People who always start their reply with "dear, "first name". NO. I'm here for POINTS, we are NOT on a first name basis, this is a CASUAL discussion, I do NOT need to be DEAR'D lol

Report | 02/18/2019 8:29 pm

Tadundra

Well a lot of professors I've had in the past were fairly good at being flexible but boy do I know what you mean lol
I hadn't heard of it either, that's why I thought I'd be safe with taking another online class!! I was bamboozled!!
yeah, I'm fairly good at making it sound like I know a whole lot more than what I say so I rely on that skill usually lol

Report | 02/18/2019 5:47 pm

Tadundra

yeah idk what that would translate to either
lol usually the reason why it's so long is 'cause he wants us to comment on a chapter from the book and then 2 30-90 minute videos, I swear he doesn't understand the concept of "taking more than one class a semester" and "life outside of school"
When I write the responses I usually stare at the word count and as soon as I get the limit I'm done, but once again this man does not like to go by the "write ___ words" system, but instead he says stuff like "Write a 20 sentence response to this question". So I have to keep track of my sentences instead

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