Hi there. Caleb Ohio . I remember my first account on Gaia that got banned back in 2004. So I've been here a long time. I hate all the new s**t. We can hate it together.
Well, that and I think that a lot of the other posters misunderstood what you were saying. I can see how they interpreted it as rape, or forceful. That biases a person on how they respond to you. I'm just glad that experience actually adds up to something. Plus, it's a good thing this is your first time in a situation like this. xD It's not one you'd want to find yourself in again, I'm sure!
Every time! Google's got a lot of good uses, but nothing beats a real person to talk it out with. If you need advice again, you know where to find me. xP
I think so. You said you guys talked, and that she told you that it wasn't as if you wouldn't have sex again. She just needs some time to process what exactly she wants. However, I wouldn't necessarily stop her from initiating sex. I think it's important for her to be able to take the initiative. It's part of the moving on process. If you stop her this first time, she'll feel as if you aren't interested anymore. (Complicated, I know...)
The best thing you can do is keep at what you're doing. She clearly cares a lot about you, and you her. It seems like you have a perfectly healthy relationship, and I'm sure things will move back in the right direction if you keep at it. Relationships are all about detours and compromises, after all. ;D
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