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Is it possible to commit a self-less act?

Premise:

People are predisposed to develop a concept of self. While the development/existence of mental incapacity via malfunction of the human brain may or may not rid one of a concept of self is not being discussed here, because it can not be proven or disproven currently.

At what age a concept of self is developed is not being discussed here because all attempts to classify such an answer are too theoritical to be responsibly argued at this date.

So, for this discussion, we will assume that all human beings have a concept of self.


Problem: If all people inherently operate on a plain of self, can one ever be self-less?

All people operate on a plain of conciousness. This is, as is traditionally philisophically and psychologically agreed upon, the "stage" upon which the human perception and digestion of the world occur, as well as the premise upon which all desicions are made.

But what constitutes conciousness? I am of the opinion that the conciousness is a tool of the self. Conciousness is a function of the self as it is recognized within the thought process of all people. Our conciousness is derived from a conciousness of the self. At least, on a developed human level, this can be seen to be the case. There is no way to prove or disprove this, and this assumption is yet another premise of my argument, but one that is more than welcomed to be debated; please, help me understand where I am wrong!

Under this assumption, we can see that the most integral element for human thought is the self. All of human thought is based on the premise of "self," and, thus, all human decisions/perceptions/actions are based on the concept of self. SELF MUST AT ALL TIMES, WITHIN THE HUMAN PSYCHE, BE ACCOUNTED FOR.



Now, if you have gotten to this part of my thesis without any disagreement, this should seem the most logical question: If human thought can never "release" the self, even temporarily, how is it possible to commit a selfless act? All acts of charity, even those which genuinely have no benefit to the benefactor, are still done with the knowledge of the performer that the self is doing the act!

If person "a" helps person "b," even without benefiting from the exchange, person "a" is fully aware, on some level, that person "a" did a nice thing. Person "a" did this, I did this.

Anytime that someone does anything under the guise of charity, the above shows us that it is completely logical to assume that, since the self can never be removed from the equation of the performer, that the action must, in order to be judged by the performer as desirable to perform, somehow help alleviate either an external, or internal issue.

If doing this "good deed" will not bring me the money I need, maybe it will help me feel better about my relationship with my father, or help me feel worse about my relationship with my father which will in turn help me feel better about my relationship with my lover or will help me pity my economic situation more and lower my expectation of comfort as an act of preperation et cetera, et cetera, et cetera.

Conciousness of such a thought process is irrelevant, as all the sub-levels of conciousness are still, obviously operating on the premise of self.




Discuss.
I have no other way to explain what I'm thinking besides this: The development of our minds is more or less completely determined by our environment, agree? Therefore, if we were brought up to do such and such and even if we didn't like doing it, we're doing it. So, if someone grew up like that and did a so-called self-less act just because they were told to do it, wouldn't that mean they were doing it selflessly?

I think I said that right...I think. rolleyes
It's a deep, if not rather cynical, thought...

Suppose you say that most people, having being put in a desperate split second decision between themselves and someone else, would lose all sense of self when faced with the concept of losing someone close to them? I suppose at some point it would become apparent what a 'good deed' was done, but if you were a moment away from losing someone that meant the world to you...

Well, I think the expression is, "lost in the moment".


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A Lost Dreamer
I have no other way to explain what I'm thinking besides this: The development of our minds is more or less completely determined by our environment, agree? Therefore, if we were brought up to do such and such and even if we didn't like doing it, we're doing it. So, if someone grew up like that and did a so-called self-less act just because they were told to do it, wouldn't that mean they were doing it selflessly?

I think I said that right...I think. rolleyes


I think that's less selfless than mind control 3nodding

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People commit selfless acts all the time w/out realising it. Isn't it instinct to open a door instead of slaming it. The fact is people do selfless things all the time out of instinct rather than thought. It may be a small act but it is selfless.
A Lost Dreamer
I have no other way to explain what I'm thinking besides this: The development of our minds is more or less completely determined by our environment, agree? Therefore, if we were brought up to do such and such and even if we didn't like doing it, we're doing it. So, if someone grew up like that and did a so-called self-less act just because they were told to do it, wouldn't that mean they were doing it selflessly?

I think I said that right...I think. rolleyes


So you're saying because someone doesn't want to do something, but they do it anyway, that the act is self-less?

I ask you, can one ever do anything that one does not WANT to do? If you put a gun to my head and tell me to suck your d**k (which, I'm sure you won't), and I suck it, I do so because I WANT to suck it.

All decisions are done out of want. I could say, "but I didn't want to suck the d**k!" The truth is, though, that I knew that if I didn't suck your d**k, I would die, and since I would rather suck it than I would die, I WANTED to suck it.

So, if one doesn't want to do something, but does it because society says it's right, why are they doing it? We are all creatures of society. You said yourself, all of our conciousness (and thus, will) can be derived from society. As such, we inherently have an almost insatiable desire to adhere to society. So, it is not suprising that one of the most common responses of society's glorification of charity is: To perform acts that society declares charitable!

But, it is vital to note: That in performing one of these acts that one is making the CHOICE to perform these acts because they WANT to perform these acts. They find the compulsion to adhere to societal glorification of charity (traditionally defined) to surpass their opposition to doing the actual act, and so they act in "charity" because doing so BENEFITS THEM, even if only on a psychologically satisfying level.

Rebuttal?
hatsuharuluvsyuki
People commit selfless acts all the time, we just don't think about it. Isn't it instinct to hold open a door instead of slaming it?
Most selfless acts happen when the person is completely unaware of what they're doing. The acts may be small but they are selfless nonetheless.


I disagree.

One would commit one of the "small" self-less acts you are referring to not because they with for it to be done, but because they have compulsion to do it.

It satisfies their need, and that is all that matter. Whether it benefits someone else is irrelevant.

A person could hold open a door because society tells them it is proper. We are all COMPELLED to adhere to society (don't pretend you aren't, all people are, and attempt at non-comformity is simply a varied response to society: http://www.gaiaonline.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=27417827& ) and since performing a simple act such as opening a door can be generally traced back to an instillment of a societal manner system in someone, then it is obvious that doing such an act fufills a persons compulsion to adhere to the world around them.

Rebuttal?
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hatsuharuluvsyuki
People commit selfless acts all the time, we just don't think about it. Isn't it instinct to hold open a door instead of slaming it?
Most selfless acts happen when the person is completely unaware of what they're doing. The acts may be small but they are selfless nonetheless.


I disagree.

One would commit one of the "small" self-less acts you are referring to not because they with for it to be done, but because they have compulsion to do it.

It satisfies their need, and that is all that matter. Whether it benefits someone else is irrelevant.

A person could hold open a door because society tells them it is proper. We are all COMPELLED to adhere to society (don't pretend you aren't, all people are, and attempt at non-comformity is simply a varied response to society: http://www.gaiaonline.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=27417827& ) and since performing a simple act such as opening a door can be generally traced back to an instillment of a societal manner system in someone, then it is obvious that doing such an act fufills a persons compulsion to adhere to the world around them.

Rebuttal?
simple. I wasn't focusing on the act of holding open a door I was focusing on instinct. When one acts on pure instict there is no thought process. it's an instinatious reaction to stimuli. A person acting on instinct can commit a selfless act because based on what you're saying a selfless act is only selfless if you don't think about doing it.
Jaikai Star Fire
It's a deep, if not rather cynical, thought...

Suppose you say that most people, having being put in a desperate split second decision between themselves and someone else, would lose all sense of self when faced with the concept of losing someone close to them? I suppose at some point it would become apparent what a 'good deed' was done, but if you were a moment away from losing someone that meant the world to you...

Well, I think the expression is, "lost in the moment".


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Romantic, yes, but not logically thought through.

One can never, EVER lose their concept of self. So, to say that one does so simply because of "the mysterious power of lurve" does not bode will with my logic. If someone risks their lives to save someone else, I point to hope: Hope that they will survive.

If someone, within reason, essentially sacrifices their life for the life of another, it is because they have a compulsion to do so. They are fufilling THEIR NEED. Perhaps they could not live with themselves, with how they would view their SELF, if they did not do this.

The self is collectively analyzed by every human being. We all define our own self. If one were to contradict one's own definition of themselves in such a fundamental method that they could not rationally explain it, than it is logical to see that sacrifice may seem preferable.

Rebuttal?
hatsuharuluvsyuki
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hatsuharuluvsyuki
People commit selfless acts all the time, we just don't think about it. Isn't it instinct to hold open a door instead of slaming it?
Most selfless acts happen when the person is completely unaware of what they're doing. The acts may be small but they are selfless nonetheless.


I disagree.

One would commit one of the "small" self-less acts you are referring to not because they with for it to be done, but because they have compulsion to do it.

It satisfies their need, and that is all that matter. Whether it benefits someone else is irrelevant.

A person could hold open a door because society tells them it is proper. We are all COMPELLED to adhere to society (don't pretend you aren't, all people are, and attempt at non-comformity is simply a varied response to society: http://www.gaiaonline.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=27417827& ) and since performing a simple act such as opening a door can be generally traced back to an instillment of a societal manner system in someone, then it is obvious that doing such an act fufills a persons compulsion to adhere to the world around them.

Rebuttal?
simple. I wasn't focusing on the act of holding open a door I was focusing on instinct. When one acts on pure instict there is no thought process. it's an instinatious reaction to stimuli. A person acting on instinct can commit a selfless act because based on what you're saying a selfless act is only selfless if you don't think about doing it.


You assume that "instinct" means no thought at all is implied.

EVERY action commited by humans has some level of thought behind it, be it only at the electrical level.

I personally think to believe otherwise is, well, ill-logical. I will give you that instinct does imply LESSER thought, and perhaps even no awareness of thought at all, but that does not mean that there is no thought behind it.

I submit that the concept of instinct as I have logically defined above does nothing except prove my thesis.
I guess someone could. Ive been in my backyard and its like point blank for a split second when i forget who i am,where i am,and what im doing.(im not mental sweatdrop xp lol)
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hatsuharuluvsyuki
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hatsuharuluvsyuki
People commit selfless acts all the time, we just don't think about it. Isn't it instinct to hold open a door instead of slaming it?
Most selfless acts happen when the person is completely unaware of what they're doing. The acts may be small but they are selfless nonetheless.


I disagree.

One would commit one of the "small" self-less acts you are referring to not because they with for it to be done, but because they have compulsion to do it.

It satisfies their need, and that is all that matter. Whether it benefits someone else is irrelevant.

A person could hold open a door because society tells them it is proper. We are all COMPELLED to adhere to society (don't pretend you aren't, all people are, and attempt at non-comformity is simply a varied response to society: http://www.gaiaonline.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=27417827& ) and since performing a simple act such as opening a door can be generally traced back to an instillment of a societal manner system in someone, then it is obvious that doing such an act fufills a persons compulsion to adhere to the world around them.

Rebuttal?
simple. I wasn't focusing on the act of holding open a door I was focusing on instinct. When one acts on pure instict there is no thought process. it's an instinatious reaction to stimuli. A person acting on instinct can commit a selfless act because based on what you're saying a selfless act is only selfless if you don't think about doing it.


You assume that "instinct" means no thought at all is implied.

EVERY action commited by humans has some level of thought behind it, be it only at the electrical level.

I personally think to believe otherwise is, well, ill-logical. I will give you that instinct does imply LESSER thought, and perhaps even no awareness of thought at all, but that does not mean that there is no thought behind it.

I submit that the concept of instinct as I have logically defined above does nothing except prove my thesis.

You're thinking about this too logicaly. When a person commits a 'selfless' act with the intention of being selfless it's on a concious level and isn't really selfless. If a person acts on impulse it's on a sunconcious level and your mind isn't registering 'this will make me look good' or something like that.
Let's see...

An act can be an act of instinct. It may have been manipulated by society to occur, but it was done out of instinct without thought of anyone's approval/disapproval or how it would affect someone. Basically like what hatsuharuluvsyuki said, its an act without a thought process. Its merely completed.

Example: Breathing. We do breathe for out own well-being but we never think about it on a self-coniscious (now I know I spelled that wrong..). If we stopped breathing it would affect those around us since we would more likely then not be dead. Human beings don't think about breathing we simply breathe and don't (usually) think twice about it.

Thinking, by the way, I define as having a thought go through your mind while you are aware of its presence. Seeing a color but not thinking that's that color, is not thinking.

Once again, I'm not sure If I explained that correctly. xp
NoThoughtFox
I guess someone could. Ive been in my backyard and its like point blank for a split second when i forget who i am,where i am,and what im doing.(im not mental sweatdrop xp lol)


If this were as you described, is shows only that you lost your personalization of your self, your history as a self, but not your state as a self.
A Lost Dreamer
Let's see...

An act can be an act of instinct. It may have been manipulated by society to occur, but it was done out of instinct without thought of anyone's approval/disapproval or how it would affect someone. Basically like what hatsuharuluvsyuki said, its an act without a thought process. Its merely completed.

Example: Breathing. We do breathe for out own well-being but we never think about it on a self-coniscious (now I know I spelled that wrong..). If we stopped breathing it would affect those around us since we would more likely then not be dead. Human beings don't think about breathing we simply breathe and don't (usually) think twice about it.

Thinking, by the way, I define as having a thought go through your mind while you are aware of its presence. Seeing a color but not thinking that's that color, is not thinking.

Once again, I'm not sure If I explained that correctly. xp
I get what you're saying and you gave a better example than I did ><

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