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UPDATE: After taking into account your responses and talking with Noraboo, I no longer support this idea, as it contradicts the purpose of Gaia. Um... nothing much more to say. Let this thread die peacefully.

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Da_Ish
I propose that my idea will solve three problems:

(1) Cleaning up the forums
(2) Deciding what belongs in ED
(3) Making the right people happy

Wikipedia
Social control refers to social mechanisms that regulate individual and group behaviour, in terms of greater sanctions and rewards. It may also designate the processes of informal social control such as custom and formal social control such as law of deviant behavior which falls beyond the bounds set by social norms. Social control is present in all societies, if only in the control mechanisms used to prevent its establishment in anarchic situations.

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Traditional society uses mostly informal social control embedded in its customary culture relying on socialization of its members to establish social order.


Cleaning up the forums

Flaming is a powerful form of social control, and individuals who are flamed seem to learn the hard way what is socially appropriate/inappropriate within a specific online community. It even appears that being flamed has a powerful emotional effect on the person who misbehaves.

I believe that "Get the ******** out" is an appropriate response to "Should i purchase wings or no?" in ED. If somebody is incapable of understanding the meaning of
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Extended Discussion. This is where users can discuss serious subjects and carry on extended debates.
then there is something seriously wrong with respect to literacy and following basic instructions. If someone is unable to follow written instructions or understand written words, then they should not be allowed to use the internet. Obviously, they have not read the TOS and we can assume they are incapable of doing so.

A alternative explanation to this may be that the majority of ED is filled with threads that do not belong in ED, and new users that see this think it is okay to post similar off-topic chatter. I read one thread where the user said something along the lines of,
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every1 is making threads so i will to
Unfortunately, because of the no-flaming rule enforced long ago, ED regulars are forced to answer politely with something like
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This thread does not belong in ED, it belongs in Chatterbox. please stop bumping it up and let this thread die. thanks. wink

I do not think this type of response would have the same effect as "Get the ******** out" or "Reported, a*****e." Not only does a harsh response ensure that the new user does not make the same mistake, but it sets an example for lurking new users. A new user who has yet to post will see that what type of behavior is inappropriate, and would not want to be flamed. Hence, they will move to a friendlier place like the Chatterbox.

Deciding what belongs in ED

Deciding what kind of threads are appropriate in ED is an ill-defined problem and escapes formalization. Some topics are intrinsically interesting and would generate extended discussion, such as homosexuality and abortion (if they were not an endlessly repeated topics), while other normally-uninteresting topics are made interesting by their form of presentation and good argumentation. However, what makes something intellectually interesting and what constitutes good argumentation cannot be formalized in hard rules or universal equations. We cannot write a computer program that generates interesting topics or that can provide good argumentation for the possibility or impossibility of God.

The understanding of what is ED-appropriate is implicit cultural knowledge. ED topics share some similarities�family resemblances�with each other, but there is no "essence" of what makes something ED-worthy. Hence, there may be some disagreements in what counts as an ED topic due to differing backgrounds and educational experiences.

Despite this, a possible way to decide what is appropriate for ED is to let the people decide. Inappropriate topics would lead to social rejection. If somebody creates a non-mainstream topic that has merit, but that the general public does not recognize, then flaming will force the thread-creator to provide good argumentation for his views. If s/he belongs in ED, then s/he will survive this initial onslaught.

Making the right people happy

Gaians who post in the appropriate forums and are able to follow rules should be made happy, while Gaians who cause trouble and are incapable of being responsible internet users should be chastised. Allowing "flaming" will let e.g. ED regulars fulfill their urge to rebuke the n00bs, while performing a useful social function.


In conclusion, forum rules should be relaxed to allow users to post things like "Get the ******** out of my ED," and even creative pictures to correct inappropriate behavior. I would rather be entertained by a Voltron of Scathing Intellectual Wit than be stupefied by an army of idiots.
While Gaia has mods, they're constantly busy while they're online, so just let the thread die and be patient for a helper/mod to move it 3nodding

edited for illiterateness x_X

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The whole message of Gaia is that it is meant to be a community. Reports are taken care of with the message of "we encourage a friendly atmosphere here at gaiaonline." Allowing flaming is going against what gaia hopes to accomplish. A nice community of people.

You dont even NEED to say anything in threads that are in the wrong forum. Report them, they will be moved, simple as that.

I do think that Deciding what belongs in ED is important though.
Well some people emotionaly scar very easily, as you said in your own post, so saying "Get the hell into the Chatterbox moron!" does no good to the user, they will just respond with another flame and then you flame them back and it just continues. Why do that when you can just report the thread and have a mod or helper move it?

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I think beofre a certian amount of posts a pop-up window should come up exsplaining the board your about to post in, you agreee to the terms or disagree. Those who don't read it and just post stupid stuff anyway will be banned.
KAZZ of Herogoth
Well some people emotionaly scar very easily, as you said in your own post, so saying "Get the hell into the Chatterbox moron!" does no good to the user, they will just respond with another flame and then you flame them back and it just continues. Why do that when you can just report the thread and have a mod or helper move it?

Because there are a lot of borderline cases of threads which suck, but it's hard to give a reason why it would not belong in ED.

Such threads do not deserve to be *reported*, but deserve to be criticized harshly.
CatsGame
The whole message of Gaia is that it is meant to be a community. Reports are taken care of with the message of "we encourage a friendly atmosphere here at gaiaonline." Allowing flaming is going against what gaia hopes to accomplish. A nice community of people.

You dont even NEED to say anything in threads that are in the wrong forum. Report them, they will be moved, simple as that.

I do think that Deciding what belongs in ED is important though.

What about redefining flaming, then?

"******** you" = flaming
"Get the ******** out" = not flaming

I think we need higher standards. What is missing that we had before was "elitism", where elitism = demand for proper spelling and grammar, and good argumentation.

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"Get the ******** out" still doesnt Spell Nice to me.
Its a public forum. If you only want those who can spell well and can argue well then make a guild and have your own regulated discussion there.
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Flaming was put in the ToS...
*cough*flamingISNOTintheToS*cough* ;;9_9

Only thing I don't agree with is the kind of blunt/imidating harsh response used in the example. If someone was to post in ED asking about purchasing wings, the response should be something related. Since they've already established that they lack basic reading comprehension or a desire to look into things before the bust out with the submit button, I highly doubt they'll be able to comprehend that the response had anything to do with something they had done. They would be more likely to think you're attacking them for no reason, entertainment value.. okay, so a good mix of both. As much as I enjoy making people cry, it's only satisfying when they're crying about something they screwed up on. If they're merely frightened or upset because of one or two rude actions, it's not going to stop them forever. And even worse, they're not going to figure out that duh, wrong forum! So a couple flames down the line there they are in some big ole long 'pity me everyone on Gaia hates me' angsty b***h post.. which of course they'll make in at least three different forums. Then they threaten to leave, pretend to leave.. but they never do. So instead of having a population of illiterate morons, we have a population of attention whoring angsty bitches. Not a good trade off and yes I do need to use the enter key more often.
McKenzie
If someone was to post in ED asking about purchasing wings, the response should be something related. Since they've already established that they lack basic reading comphrehension or a desire to look into things before the bust out with the submit button, I highly doubt they've be able to comprehend the response had anything to do with something they had done. They would be more likely to think you're attacking them for no reason, entertainment value.. okay, so a good mix of both.

No, what usually happens in this case is that they say something like
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wut did i do? crying
and ED people are reasonable enough to explain to them in a calm way. I think this method is effective. 3nodding
-Chuckles- Maybe ED draws the upper intellects of the spamming population?
I think I've only ever seen one or two users actually respond asking what they did.
Da_Ish
I believe that "Get the ******** out" is an appropriate response to "Should i purchase wings or no?" in ED.


No. No, it's not.
McKenzie
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Flaming was put in the ToS...
*cough*flamingISNOTintheToS*cough* ;;9_9
oops... was thinking of trolling sweatdrop ... but they aren't breaking the ToS for saying that O_o

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looks like it's perfectly fine to say "Get the ******** out" neutral

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McKenzie
Quote:
Flaming was put in the ToS...
*cough*flamingISNOTintheToS*cough* ;;9_9
oops... was thinking of trolling sweatdrop ... but they aren't breaking the ToS for saying that O_o

Reporting System
Please do not submit post reports for swearing, attitude, or issues not covered in the Gaia Online ToS.


looks like it's perfectly fine to say "Get the ******** out" neutral
upload, post, email, graphically portray, or otherwise make available any Content that is unlawful, harmful, threatening, abusive, harassing, defamatory, vulgar, obscene, libelous, invasive of another's privacy, hateful, racist or otherwise objectionable.

You can get in trouble for flaming. Its up to the mod wether or not what you are saying is considered flaming.
CatsGame
Jjmvideogamer
McKenzie
Quote:
Flaming was put in the ToS...
*cough*flamingISNOTintheToS*cough* ;;9_9
oops... was thinking of trolling sweatdrop ... but they aren't breaking the ToS for saying that O_o

Reporting System
Please do not submit post reports for swearing, attitude, or issues not covered in the Gaia Online ToS.


looks like it's perfectly fine to say "Get the ******** out" neutral
upload, post, email, graphically portray, or otherwise make available any Content that is unlawful, harmful, threatening, abusive, harassing, defamatory, vulgar, obscene, libelous, invasive of another's privacy, hateful, racist or otherwise objectionable.

You can get in trouble for flaming. Its up to the mod wether or not what you are saying is considered flaming.
so flaming is inderectly in the ToS as I thought? neutral Interesting.

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