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 Posted: Mon Jan 01, 2007 4:43 pm
ok, so how do you know when you are ready?
you'll know you're ready when you don't have any doubts; nerves are common to have though remember.
if nobody is pushing you to have sex saying things like:
*if you loved me you would
*everybody else is doing it
*it's the next step of our relationship
*i'll break up with you if you don't
and you have discussed it with your partner, you know each other's bodies and trust them with yours. then you might be ready.
Only you can decide when you're ready!
I advise that you take the time (im talking months here) to get to know each others bodies. get used to being naked around each other, find out where each others sensitive areas are; find out how your partner likes to be touched, and how hard.
kiss each other in different places
give each other massages
handjobs, and fingering are good ways to give each other sexual experiences without intercourse. as well as oral sex.
try dry humping, you can get breathtaking orgasms if it's done properly! it's just like having sex, but with your clothes on. your bodies rub together and there is no risk of pregnancy this way.
*here i must stress though that sperm can travel through thin fabrics like underwear and pyjamas! so be careful!
i forgot lol baths and showers together are very sensual and again you can get used to seeing each other naked. plus it makes the shower more enjoyable when you having somebody helping wink
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Posted: Mon Jan 01, 2007 4:48 pm
I think that is good advice! biggrin
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Posted: Mon Jan 01, 2007 4:50 pm
True. Keep yourself pure for the right person. Wait untill something in your mind clicks that you truely are in love with this person.
****OHHHHH AND ANOTHER THING!! make sure your ready for the consequenes of having sex!!! Think about perhaps getting a STD test before having sex, and be sure your partner will stick by you if you get pregnant.
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Posted: Mon Jan 01, 2007 5:10 pm
.x.shatterd_innocence.x. ok, so how do you know when you are ready? you'll know you're ready when you don't have any doubts; nerves are common to have though remember. if nobody is pushing you to have sex saying things like: *if you loved me you would *everybody else is doing it *it's the next step of our relationship *i'll break up with you if you don't and you have discussed it with your partner, you know each other's bodies and trust them with yours. then you might be ready. Only you can decide when you're ready! I advise that you take the time (im talking months here) to get to know each others bodies. get used to being naked around each other, find out where each others sensitive areas are; find out how your partner likes to be touched, and how hard. kiss each other in different places give each other massages handjobs, and fingering are good ways to give each other sexual experiences without intercourse. as well as oral sex. try dry humping, you can get breathtaking orgasms if it's done properly! it's just like having sex, but with your clothes on. your bodies rub together and there is no risk of pregnancy this way. *here i must stress though that sperm can travel through thin fabrics like underwear and pyjamas! so be careful!I second this notion 110%. Me and my first girlfriend dated for almost 2 years. About a year and a half into the relationship, we started intimately touching and experimenting and all that. After a while, all one of us had to do was ask the other to do something, and they could consider it done. Experimenting is perfectly fine. She and I almost had sex for that matter, but had to stop or else the both of us would have gotten in trouble. And what she says about dry humping, she's right. I did that with my first GF, and she told me she had her hardest orgasm on that day. Not to mention the same went for me too.
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 12:11 pm
Rachael might also add, first time, is better if you wait for it smile
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 12:52 pm
kemkitten72 Rachael might also add, first time, is better if you wait for it smile yeah.....so much sexual energy will build up if u wait untill u find the right one...that the night (or day lol) when u have sex it will rock your world!!
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 1:13 pm
.x.shatterd_innocence.x. ok, so how do you know when you are ready? you'll know you're ready when you don't have any doubts; nerves are common to have though remember. if nobody is pushing you to have sex saying things like: *if you loved me you would *everybody else is doing it *it's the next step of our relationship *i'll break up with you if you don't and you have discussed it with your partner, you know each other's bodies and trust them with yours. then you might be ready. Only you can decide when you're ready! I advise that you take the time (im talking months here) to get to know each others bodies. get used to being naked around each other, find out where each others sensitive areas are; find out how your partner likes to be touched, and how hard. kiss each other in different places give each other massages handjobs, and fingering are good ways to give each other sexual experiences without intercourse. as well as oral sex. try dry humping, you can get breathtaking orgasms if it's done properly! it's just like having sex, but with your clothes on. your bodies rub together and there is no risk of pregnancy this way. *here i must stress though that sperm can travel through thin fabrics like underwear and pyjamas! so be careful!i forgot lol baths and showers together are very sensual and again you can get used to seeing each other naked. plus it makes the shower more enjoyable when you having somebody helping wink all of the above is usfully advise and i 100% agree with it also i might add that you will know the right person don't be worried if you are nervouse for the first couple of times but do think this is the person you are about to sleep with is the right person they are not about to leave you if they don't like it
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 2:52 pm
Top 3 places to loose your virginity 1) In a bubble bath with music2) In a sauna3) Candlelit room on a sheep rug on the floor butt naked smile
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Posted: Wed Jan 03, 2007 5:18 pm
Yah Showers and baths together are great, unless you're like me and you like showering ALONE because SOME people are so big that they don't let you get any damn WATER scream
Apart from that, it's all good... Generally you don't notice that you aren't getting any water wink
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Posted: Thu Jan 04, 2007 11:44 am
actually my doctor said its been tested and proved that sperm CANT go through fabric. And sperm also only lives for a couple seconds out in the open air. sweatdrop
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Posted: Thu Jan 04, 2007 9:17 pm
Don't let your water meat dangle in the dirt... pirate
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Posted: Sun Jan 07, 2007 8:36 pm
Very nice advice. I have been toying with the notion of having sex with my boyfriend for a while now, and I just can't decide. I'm conflicted about the idea, but at the same time, want it. Meh, oh well. Those things are definetly good ideas to do. I must say showers are awesome together, even though some people like to run out of hot water in like 20 mins... grrness!
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Posted: Sat Aug 29, 2009 5:26 pm
This is really good advice. It's good to start with humping. If your still unsure. I've been getting comfortable around my boyfriend when we're both naked. We take showers and change clothes together. Humping is our first step so far.
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Posted: Sat Aug 29, 2009 5:30 pm
.x.shatterd_innocence.x. ok, so how do you know when you are ready? you'll know you're ready when you don't have any doubts; nerves are common to have though remember. if nobody is pushing you to have sex saying things like: *if you loved me you would *everybody else is doing it *it's the next step of our relationship *i'll break up with you if you don't and you have discussed it with your partner, you know each other's bodies and trust them with yours. then you might be ready. Only you can decide when you're ready! I advise that you take the time (im talking months here) to get to know each others bodies. get used to being naked around each other, find out where each others sensitive areas are; find out how your partner likes to be touched, and how hard. kiss each other in different places give each other massages handjobs, and fingering are good ways to give each other sexual experiences without intercourse. as well as oral sex. try dry humping, you can get breathtaking orgasms if it's done properly! it's just like having sex, but with your clothes on. your bodies rub together and there is no risk of pregnancy this way. *here i must stress though that sperm can travel through thin fabrics like underwear and pyjamas! so be careful!i forgot lol baths and showers together are very sensual and again you can get used to seeing each other naked. plus it makes the shower more enjoyable when you having somebody helping wink So far, I'm comfortable with my boyfriend kissing me everywhere, and him touching me lightly, and taking showers and kissing him in the shower.
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