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 Posted: Mon Sep 12, 2011 7:15 pm
OF COURSE! it happend to me!!
But after i really explored what it ment i stoped feeling ashamed. I found out i felt that way because i fell in love with that person, and that is nothing to feel embaressed about heart
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Posted: Thu Sep 15, 2011 10:00 pm
I was raised in a pretty open-minded household in a liberal state, so I don't feel guilty about being bi, but I feel like my confusion ******** things up in the same way.
I'm still wondering just how bi I actually am, so it prevents me from taking any kind of action on my sexuality. I'm afraid to get crushes on girls, because omigod what if I'm just bicurious/barsexual (have to admit, my first encounter with a girl was when I was drunk)?!1! I don't want to date or hook up with a girl who knows she's bi or lesbian, only to find out that I'm not really interested like that. It's just a weird position.
And even though my friends are open-minded, they always say, "Well, of course you like girls. Girls' bodies are more aesthetically pleasing. Lots of straight girls think other girls are pretty." Like they think being bi isn't really valid. And every time, I have to say "But um, how many straight girls desperately want to sleep with other girls?"
The whole thing is super confusing and kind of frustrating. And sorry to pour out my heart and soul on a tangent.
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Posted: Tue Jan 17, 2012 8:31 am
VVhip Finding out I was pan rather than bisexual was a bit hard to take at first. And it's only been a recent discovery... dunno whether I fit into a Bisexual guild anymore, but I guess... this kind of labeling is what shits me about it all to begin with. It's easy explaining bisexuality to people, even family. They get binary gender. They get that I can love women too. I have my whole life and have expressed attraction to males and females my whole life. They don't want to get pansexuality because it's something they have never heard of and when asked about my sexuality I really don't want a half an hour long conversation. I'm not a walking advertisement for pansexuality, nor am I a sexualities lecturer. I don't have all the answers to why I'm this sexuality, and I really don't wanna become an expert in the entire rainbow of possible sexualities just to help others understand me. But my sexuality being the opposite side of center is the least of my worries at present. We are of the same accord on this. I've tried explaining my pansexuality to my friends and it goes right over their heads. It took me quite some time to come to terms with my sexuality and being a part of the Black community makes it just that much worse. My family was very adamant about trying to scare the "weird" out of me especially when it came to the subject of sexuality. Naturally, I began to try to suppress any ideas of sexual intimacy and the feelings I had for others began to eat away at me.
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Posted: Thu Feb 09, 2012 11:07 am
That happened to me when I first started being bi.
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Posted: Thu Feb 09, 2012 10:59 pm
I pretty go through this all the time. For some reason, I just can't accept that I like other girls.
It could be because of my parents and their extreme homophobia or just because I haven't really been with a girl to confirm that I feel this way.
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