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 Posted: Sun Apr 22, 2007 10:39 pm
Ne, I was wondering if someone could help me out~~
All around me, my friends are starting to get boyfriends, going on dates, and doing normal teenage girl things. But I'm the only one who's never experienced any of that before. I have a huge crush on a boy I met here, and I told him I like him.... but he hasn't replied. It's been months since the confession, and he still acts like I never said a thing. It's been driving me crazy, as I'm head-over-heels for him.
So I'm wondering.... should I keep waiting for him to come up with an answer, or should I try to move on and look for someone a little more within reach?
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Posted: Mon Apr 23, 2007 8:29 pm
well...........heh.....to say the least......wolfy girl.....I'd do both....and if you find some one in reach go for them....but if not....try your best to let the guy on here know that you like him....and continue to tell him if he doesn't respond until he finally gets it.....guys can be thick sometimes.....you just have to keep repeating yourself to get through to them.....
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Posted: Tue Apr 24, 2007 3:46 pm
Thank you, Sarine-chan. I'll try that. ^-^
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Posted: Tue Apr 24, 2007 7:06 pm
yep ^-^ no problem ^-^ anytime kay?
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Posted: Fri May 04, 2007 7:20 pm
I need help...
Recentaly my boyfriend cheated on me for the second time since we've been going out. He says he's sorry he cheated on me and that he won't do it again. A part of me doesn't want to forgive him... but another part tell me to give him another chance. I know I should break up with him but for some reason I just... can't. Can someone please help me please?
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Posted: Tue May 08, 2007 1:25 pm
well......I firmly believe in the 3 strikes law.....give him one last chance and if he does it again.....dump his sorry @$$ xd
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Posted: Thu May 10, 2007 3:13 pm
I agree with Sarine-chan. If he breaks his promise and feels the need to cheat on you again, there's no need to be with him. ^-^
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Posted: Wed May 16, 2007 7:28 am
Well said guys....although if I must admit....for myself once is enough, you do it once don't ever talk to me again....
I have went through that myself, I did some heavy paybacks too before I broke it off with him twisted we won't mention here what they were..... I'll just say I was NASTY!! and he deserved it! twisted
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cosmeticsbyjenni Vice Captain
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Posted: Thu May 17, 2007 10:09 pm
i need help... my boyfriend is moving away at the end of the school year... (military family). he said he may be moving anyday now, and that any day at school may be his last... so i wanted to talk to him about something important.
i think that when he moves away that we should just be friends. hes probably never coming back, and i have a hard time keeping in contact with friends who live far away. besides, how can we date if we can't even see each other for the rest of our lives? (probably).
i explained this to him and tried to put it in the nicest way possible... but he just said "youre breaking up with me? i'm so mad at you. you hate me dont you?" i tried to explain that i DO NOT hate him, but this is the only way i can think of to handle the situation. i told him repeatedly that i do love him and i want to be his friend but he does not believe me and refuses to be my friend unless he is my boyfriend too.
this is the first relationship i'm in, and ive been in it for almost 5 months, so i'm really not sure if this stuff happens a lot.
the questions i have are:
who's right here?
was i too harsh?
should we break up now or when he moves? should we even break up or just stay together forever like he says?
should i still be with him now if he acts this way?
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Posted: Tue May 22, 2007 7:17 pm
Your boyfriend, in my opinion, is being a little immature. I approve of the way you handled the situation, and he should realize that. It'll be hard for the both of you, but I think being friends is the best choice. If you do stay together, you'll most likely grow farther apart and it'll hurt a lot more, because you can't see each other on a regular basis.
And you're young. As much as I love the idea that your first love will be your only one, you'll both probably find someone new.
Would you rather have a tough, long-distance relationship only to find you've been cheated on, or would you like to have a good friendship.
And you don't know that you won't see him again. You'll meet up again, most likely. And when you do, do it as friends. If you still have feelings for each other, then you can get back together. ^-^
I hope I helped...
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Posted: Tue May 22, 2007 8:55 pm
you said that well....I also find that he seemed to act immaturely. Mia, a guy that moves away ends up cheating on you....don't stay together. Try to make it clear that you do wish to stay friends. It is up to you whether or not you break it off with him now or when he moves. By the way he's acting I really don't think you should stay with him. Guys like that only cause you grief. Hope I helped some.
~+~Sarine~+~
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Posted: Sat May 26, 2007 11:56 am
what you guys said about him cheating on me... i thought about that... but thing thing is that hes just TOO nice (most of the time)
i think if we stay together when he moves awaay and he meets another girl he likes, hes going to tell himself he cant be with her because hes with me and it will tear him up inside.
also, in addition to him moving, im going to a college prep school for highschool. its about and hour longer than normal school, plus the drive back in traffic is about and hour or two, then i have some homework when i get home, so i will be very busy. i might not have time to e-mail or talk on the phone or whatever, so this would make it harder.
i explained this situation to all of my friends, and they think i should dump him, and a few of them even volunteered to tell him for me, but i told them that i think i shoul tell him myself face to face. the only problem is...
... he FORGOT that i told him -.- im just getting sooooo frustrated right now because of it.
but im sort of worried to... what if he gets depressed or something? then it will be my fault. plus, he told me once the worst thing i could ever do is break up with him, so even since then ive felt even worse about it!!!
SOMEONE HELP ME I CANT TAKE THIS ANYMORE BUT I DONT WANT HIM TO DO ANYTHING BAD TO HIMSELF OR GO EMO OR SOMETHING HEELP!
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Posted: Sun May 27, 2007 10:50 pm
just let him know what you let us know. from what you say he seems to be an understanding guy. if I'm mistaken I'm sorry for assuming but if not just tell him exactly what you told us. it may help the situation along some.
~+~Sarine~+~
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Posted: Mon Jun 11, 2007 1:08 pm
my boyfriend moved.... sad
i didnt break up yet sweatdrop i asked my mom for advice and she said since hes going through a hard time to wait until he has moved into his new house and is settled.
but hes staying at a hotel now.... until october!!!!!! gonk I CANT TAKE THIS I HAVE TO START GETTING READY FOR MY NEW SCHOOL!!!! *slams textbook against head*
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Posted: Mon Jun 11, 2007 8:44 pm
calm down Mia.....deep breaths now....in...........out.........in..........out.....
look....I know mothers always seem right, but they aren't. they don't know everything about relationships. I think, personally I would break it off with him and explain that a long distance relationship won't work out. do take my advice about this one. guys aren't worth stressing over. just break it off with him. long distance is a bad way to go. believe me, I know. Trevor was an a** and told his girl that he didn't remember anything about me. yet he was overly worried that I might kill myself now that I found out about that girl. so either he lied to her or he's just a two timing a**. so don't try for a long distance relationship with your bf it won't work.
sorry if I seem bitter but I think I have a right....
hope I helped,
~+~Sarine~+~
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