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cosmeticsbyjenni Vice Captain
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 Posted: Wed Jun 13, 2007 8:13 am
Neko is right, you guys are both young, you should be able to experience what teen years offer you and NOT in a long distance way......it seldom works out and I wouldn't want to see you hurting more than you are.......right now, it is not his choice to move but he will be like every other guy and rebound quickly unfortunately it would most likely be with out telling you......and you guys won't even be able to see each other......so you will hurt in that way also... sighs........it's never easy, but you do what is in your heart babe it's a hard decision, but only you can do it........
*huggles*
I hope it helped you some........ heart heart
~Jen~
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Posted: Mon Jun 18, 2007 7:36 pm
eek i just got a call from him the other night.
his family is in the miltary, and he's staying in california until his dad passes this class in order to get reassigned to a new job...
...but its not going too well for his dad, so they will probably move back now...
I CANT TAKE THIS ANYMORE!!!! IM TIRED OF PRETENDING TO BE NICE ALL THE TIME!!!!!
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Posted: Mon Jun 18, 2007 7:41 pm
then make it easy on yourself Mia....just tell him it's not going to work with him moving all the time....
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Posted: Tue Jun 19, 2007 9:30 pm
I agree with Neko. The sooner the better.
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Posted: Wed Jun 20, 2007 3:18 pm
but he'll get so depressed that he'll commit suicide or something gonk
he even said once that if something happened to me or if something bad ever happened he'd kill himself eek something to that effect...
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Posted: Wed Jun 20, 2007 4:24 pm
none of them ever go through with it....look at me....I'm still here after what Trevor did to me....and I said I'd kill myself if I was hurt like that again....and I haven't done it.....you're young.....he's young.....he'll get over you
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Posted: Mon Jun 25, 2007 1:53 pm
Girls, work your magic on this one. I'm about to give up on love. Every time I fall in love there's either a really good friend that loves me and doesn't tell me until it's too late surfaces or I get brutally stabbed in the back. I'm tired of it. I want to give up on it, but I know it's not right. I need love. I crave it. I just end up looking for it in the wrong places. I don't know what to do. I've fallen in love with a guy and then one of my good friends (also a VC in here) ends up telling me too late, aka: after I mentioned the guy I fell in love with. It never fails. I'm starting to lose faith that there's some one out there for me. I don't want to quit loving, but I can't find some one that will treat me right. I'm so mad about my thoughts that I feel like crying. I don't want to quit loving. Please, help me out, I need to find a way to get them all away. To start over fresh. I don't want to hurt like this anymore.
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Posted: Wed Jun 27, 2007 6:55 am
We were given 2 hands to hold,
2 legs to walk,
2 eyes to see,
2 ears to listen...
But why only 1 heart?
Because the other 1 was given for us to find heart
((That probably doesn't help you much but I thought it was kinda sweet.)) 3nodding
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Posted: Sun Jul 01, 2007 9:06 pm
Neko`Sarine Girls, work your magic on this one. I'm about to give up on love. Every time I fall in love there's either a really good friend that loves me and doesn't tell me until it's too late surfaces or I get brutally stabbed in the back. I'm tired of it. I want to give up on it, but I know it's not right. I need love. I crave it. I just end up looking for it in the wrong places. I don't know what to do. I've fallen in love with a guy and then one of my good friends (also a VC in here) ends up telling me too late, aka: after I mentioned the guy I fell in love with. It never fails. I'm starting to lose faith that there's some one out there for me. I don't want to quit loving, but I can't find some one that will treat me right. I'm so mad about my thoughts that I feel like crying. I don't want to quit loving. Please, help me out, I need to find a way to get them all away. To start over fresh. I don't want to hurt like this anymore.
You're too young to give up on love. I don't know how old you are, but teenagers (IMO only) don't experience TRUE, LONG-LASTING love. I know you might've been hurt, but you have a whole life ahead of you to find your love. There's bilions and billions of people out there, and only less than 10 are the ones you've fallen in love with. There's alot more ahead and alot more people you'll meet throughout your life, so don't think that because you don't think there's anyone for you, there won't be for the rest of your life. And the rest of your life = ALOT.
So don't worry; there'll be someone for you. As you said, you were looking in all the wrong places, but maybe, you could JUST happen to stumble into somewhere where you meet your love. :3
Wow, I know that sounded corny (I'm not usually a lovey-dovey girl-kind...>///<), but I hoped it helped you. Good luck! <3
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Posted: Fri Jul 06, 2007 1:16 am
i decided to break up with my boyfriend. confused
He's really just getting on my nerves now. he asks me why i stopped calling him my boyfriend after he moved away, and everytime he calls now he gets angry over the smallest thing and then the next time he calls me back he apoligizes first thing, then at the end of the call the cycle repeats all over again.
he's starting to act sort of emo. and crazy-ish (in a not good way)
example: when i metioned i was going to the mainland to visit my aunt for 1 week, he got sorta excited and said he'd ask his mom to drive him over to see me.
1) my mom made it clear we're going there to visit family.
2) i'm going to be at least 4 states away from him -.-
when i told him it sounded ridiculous (which it did, if you think about it) he got all angry and upset and hung up the phone. then today when he called he apoligized, but then he got mad over the whole 'why dont you treat me like your boyfriend anymore?' thing and hung up again. how do i treat him like a boyfriend if he's an ocean away and will probably never move back?
he's just driven me so crazy i just don't care anymore. i'm going to break up with him next time he calls, and say maybe we could be friends if he wants
but i was wondering...
i started a guild and put him on the guild crew, if i break up and he hates me should i take him off the guild crew? or even kick him out of the guild altogether? and should i remove him from my friends list?
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Posted: Fri Jul 06, 2007 4:21 pm
well Mia....don't take any action until things play out...
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Posted: Fri Jul 06, 2007 6:38 pm
Sarine-chan:
I agree with Shimizu-san. 16 is a little too young to fall into long-lasting, soul-mate, till-death-do-us-part sort of love. A crush is understandable, but it is not intense enough to be love-love.
My English teacher says that when you're a teenager, everything is new and exciting, and so you think it's more intense than it really is. Hormones also help. You develop feelings for someone and it's suddenly 'OMG I'm in looooove!' When you have your heart broken or have a fight with a close friend, it's suddenly 'I'm going to kill myself'.
I understand what you mean when you say you 'crave love'. I do too. My lifelong dream is to get married, because it means that along the way, I will be part of a whirlwind romance.
But high school is too early to be looking for a soulmate, or to lose one and become the bitter old woman with the dozen or so cats forty years in the future. College is when you'll have better luck. And that is because high school boys are complete idiots, who only have one thing on their mind, and have no interest in settling down.
So be patient. Love will come to you soon, in its own good time, and when you are fully ready.
I hope I helped!
And now Mia-san:
You really should break it off soon. The longer it lasts, the harder it will be on him. And you can tell it's deeply affecting him, you get more and more distant. Once you break it off, he'll be able to move on, and possibly even adjust better.
And if he becomes depressed, you shouldn't blame yourself. He's the one who controls how he copes. I had a friend who became depressed and suicidal when I went to a different high school and left her behind at a new school without any friends, but she was the one who allowed herself to get that way. She could have used some extra strength and put up with it.
And if he ends up hating you, you shouldn't take him off crew. Let him do it himself. If he really wants to avoid you, let him distance himself. Don't do it for him.
And like Sarine-san says. Don't do anything just yet.
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Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2007 12:50 pm
Neko`Sarine well Mia....don't take any action until things play out... i know. its just guild crew can ban users if they want to, and i dont want him to take revenge or something by banning all my friends...
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Posted: Fri Jul 13, 2007 3:44 pm
MiaIkumis#1Fan Neko`Sarine well Mia....don't take any action until things play out... i know. its just guild crew can ban users if they want to, and i dont want him to take revenge or something by banning all my friends... I don't think he'd be the kind of guy that would do that...really....
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Posted: Fri Jul 13, 2007 7:41 pm
Neko`Sarine MiaIkumis#1Fan Neko`Sarine well Mia....don't take any action until things play out... i know. its just guild crew can ban users if they want to, and i dont want him to take revenge or something by banning all my friends... I don't think he'd be the kind of guy that would do that...really.... i guess not. i told him over the phone (since he moved far) that a long distance relationship wouldnt work and we should be friends. now hes actullay acting depressed-ish which makes me think that i made the right choice, because now hes showing his true self, and i dont want to be with and over-emotional problematic person.
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