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Shinys
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PostPosted: Thu Jan 11, 2007 6:05 pm


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I hope so... its hard when your scared that your own mother hates you.......
I'm sure... I'm sorry about that. *hugs* maybe she just needs a lot of time to come to grips with it, it takes some people longer than others.
I know it's hard, but try to stay positive, it can't hurt... maybe one day she will be ok with your decision, or at least agree to disagree.
PostPosted: Thu Jan 11, 2007 7:34 pm


Victorie Rose
I hope so... its hard when your scared that your own mother hates you.......
aww... hun... it'll be allright in the long run.even if she never accepts it, she's your mother and as long as you love her and she loves you that's enough i think... at least you have someone else who can help you. Like us, and your friend.

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Victorie Rose

PostPosted: Fri Jan 12, 2007 8:09 pm


Its sad though that she just an't execpt me for what i am... i have a half-brother and he's been wiccan for YEARS and she never accepted him for it.... i don't even get to see him often..... iknow mom loves him but she never talks to him and im scared that when i leave she'll d othat to me to and ii won't get invite to family events or even called........
Thanks for the hug Shinys!!! *hugs back* heart
PostPosted: Sun Jan 21, 2007 12:19 am


*hugs victorie rose* i hope things get better in your house!!! it is sad to know that even thought your parents always say they love you for who you are....when you really need them they forget about everything they told you.....
i'm so nervous!! the trip is going to be in april, i'm going for 18 days....my mother is sooooo happy because i'm going to that trip.....i wonder if she will still be happy after the letter...well...i hope she can at least accept that...

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Victorie Rose

PostPosted: Sun Jan 21, 2007 2:52 pm


Thanks..... I hope it gets better too... have fun on your trip.... try not to think abut your mom too much.... heart
PostPosted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 5:58 pm


thnks victorie rose!! 4laugh


ok..the letter is ready...and now another friend knows i'm a pagan and she and her mother said i could stay at their house if my parents kicked me out 4laugh hurray!! at leat i dont have to worry of not having somewhere to live!

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madwitch501

PostPosted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 10:04 pm


yeah when I told my parents I had to stay with my friend for a while. I look back now and see how bad it was at first compared to now... Im still not accepted by my father but my mom is starting to warm up a bit
PostPosted: Sun Mar 18, 2007 12:47 pm


current mood: Panic--Fear--Despair

o gods o gods o gods o gods!!!
i'm so afraid!!!!
>_< next saturday i'm going to europe and now i'm not so sure if give the letter to my mother or not!! >_<
i'm so afraid!!!!!
god gods gods gods..... crying crying crying crying crying crying crying crying

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OceanGypsy

PostPosted: Sun Mar 18, 2007 7:46 pm


calm down Rose... i know easier said than done but... deep breaths. it's a VERY good letter. you gave her the facts and she will know that you love her, no matter what.
PostPosted: Mon Mar 19, 2007 10:44 am


Oh, hun, it's OK. *hugs* take deep breath in, deep breath out... exhale all the negitive feelings... repeat until you feel better... In the long run, you will feel better because you were honest with her. If she can't accept you for who you are, then it's better she be upset with who you really are than love you for a lie right? I'm sure everything will be fine, and we are here for you, as are your friends IRL. Don't worry, it's better not to stress, stressing does NOT help anything when it's something you can't control.

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PostPosted: Wed Mar 21, 2007 1:37 pm


current mood: nervous- exited-happy

ok...everything set!!

  • my luggage is ready
  • i handed in aaaaaaaaaal my school work this morning
  • one of my friends is hiding my stuff(books, candels, herbs,bla bla bla)
  • the letter is ready
  • on saturday...i'm gone!!!


o gods..i hope this can turn out ok...
PostPosted: Mon Apr 09, 2007 4:09 pm


Much good wishes and energy coming your way to try and help your mom with the shock!! I'll be on my toes until I hear how it turns out sweatdrop (Sorry I couldn't be here for support before you left; I had my own problems to work out stressed But I'm here now!)

o0 Mystic Mama 0o
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Shinys
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PostPosted: Mon Apr 09, 2007 10:18 pm


*nods* we are all crossing our fingers for her *nods*
PostPosted: Sat Apr 14, 2007 2:53 pm


well...everything turned out ok... my mother is acting normal, but she hasn't talked about it... so.. i think shess just ok with me beeing a witchy... n_n that's good!!

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Shinys
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PostPosted: Sun Apr 15, 2007 12:59 am


YAY!!! *dances with* Thats' good! ^_^
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