fire_wolf_13
Sarine-chan:

I agree with Shimizu-san. 16 is a little too young to fall into long-lasting, soul-mate, till-death-do-us-part sort of love. A crush is understandable, but it is not intense enough to be love-love.

My English teacher says that when you're a teenager, everything is new and exciting, and so you think it's more intense than it really is. Hormones also help. You develop feelings for someone and it's suddenly 'OMG I'm in looooove!' When you have your heart broken or have a fight with a close friend, it's suddenly 'I'm going to kill myself'.

I understand what you mean when you say you 'crave love'. I do too. My lifelong dream is to get married, because it means that along the way, I will be part of a whirlwind romance.

But high school is too early to be looking for a soulmate, or to lose one and become the bitter old woman with the dozen or so cats forty years in the future. College is when you'll have better luck. And that is because high school boys are complete idiots, who only have one thing on their mind, and have no interest in settling down.

So be patient. Love will come to you soon, in its own good time, and when you are fully ready.

I hope I helped!


Thanks Fire Wolf....I've gotten some one....but I'm not sure if it's such a bright idea....but I haven't quite given up yet....