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 Posted: Thu May 05, 2005 10:24 pm
hey... i stopped cuttin a while ago.. but ive stred again.. and i really want to stop.. but i cant.. and i dont have anyone to talk to about it that can help.. i just told someone today.. and she was like its gross and i dont want you to hang out with me no more sad
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Posted: Fri May 06, 2005 11:03 am
man, people suck like that...
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Posted: Fri May 06, 2005 10:05 pm
x_Snoops_Suga_Mamii_x hey... i stopped cuttin a while ago.. but ive stred again.. and i really want to stop.. but i cant.. and i dont have anyone to talk to about it that can help.. i just told someone today.. and she was like its gross and i dont want you to hang out with me no more sad People fear what they don't understand. That person obviously isn't worth talking to. Don't give up on finding a caring person!
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Posted: Sun May 08, 2005 4:08 am
Smart Alex x_Snoops_Suga_Mamii_x hey... i stopped cuttin a while ago.. but ive stred again.. and i really want to stop.. but i cant.. and i dont have anyone to talk to about it that can help.. i just told someone today.. and she was like its gross and i dont want you to hang out with me no more sad People fear what they don't understand. That person obviously isn't worth talking to. Don't give up on finding a caring person! people like that dont deserve your time
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Posted: Mon May 09, 2005 2:02 am
Quote: People fear what they don't understand. That person obviously isn't worth talking to. Don't give up on finding a caring person! thah was tha last person i had left...
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Posted: Tue May 10, 2005 1:33 pm
It's a vicious cycle and it takes a lot of self control to stop. I used to, i never cut though. Instead I inflicted bruises on myself. It wasn't very pretty. I stopped a few weeks later because the fear of my mom finding out was much greater.
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Posted: Tue May 10, 2005 1:34 pm
x_Snoops_Suga_Mamii_x Quote: People fear what they don't understand. That person obviously isn't worth talking to. Don't give up on finding a caring person! thah was tha last person i had left... I don't mean to sound harsh, but we here because we are care. I care. heart
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Posted: Tue May 10, 2005 1:51 pm
x_Snoops_Suga_Mamii_x Quote: People fear what they don't understand. That person obviously isn't worth talking to. Don't give up on finding a caring person! thah was tha last person i had left... There's lots more caring people in this world, trust me on that one. Maybe you just haven't met them yet!
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Posted: Tue May 10, 2005 10:39 pm
its pretty hard to bleive anyone cares when al your friends have just ditched you for basiclly no reason, and everyday tha thing your most scared of is that tha one person that feels sorry for you and lets you hang out with them isnt at school, leaving you to find someone to hang out with that doesnt like you, and thats likey to ditch you as well.
i have exactly 2 friends that actually go to my school ,and im not allowed to change schools to go to a school with my friends, cause my moms dont want to pay for tha bus for me, and the reason i dont have many peopel to hang out with at my own school si casue i got into one fight, that i didnt even start, and tha princiable said im not allowed ot hang out with them anymore sad
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Posted: Tue May 10, 2005 11:04 pm
x_Snoops_Suga_Mamii_x its pretty hard to bleive anyone cares when al your friends have just ditched you for basiclly no reason, and everyday tha thing your most scared of is that tha one person that feels sorry for you and lets you hang out with them isnt at school, leaving you to find someone to hang out with that doesnt like you, and thats likey to ditch you as well. i have exactly 2 friends that actually go to my school ,and im not allowed to change schools to go to a school with my friends, cause my moms dont want to pay for tha bus for me, and the reason i dont have many peopel to hang out with at my own school si casue i got into one fight, that i didnt even start, and tha princiable said im not allowed ot hang out with them anymore sad Wow, that's really rough. I know it's hard to believe that there are people out there ready to care about you. Believe me, I know it's hard. But they do exist. Things in your life can get better, and they can get worse. Life is about changes and opportunities. I hope you get some new chances to make friends soon.
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Posted: Wed May 11, 2005 10:50 am
x_Snoops_Suga_Mamii_x its pretty hard to bleive anyone cares when al your friends have just ditched you for basiclly no reason, and everyday tha thing your most scared of is that tha one person that feels sorry for you and lets you hang out with them isnt at school, leaving you to find someone to hang out with that doesnt like you, and thats likey to ditch you as well. i have exactly 2 friends that actually go to my school ,and im not allowed to change schools to go to a school with my friends, cause my moms dont want to pay for tha bus for me, and the reason i dont have many peopel to hang out with at my own school si casue i got into one fight, that i didnt even start, and tha princiable said im not allowed ot hang out with them anymore sad Hey, I went through a similar thing, and I know it feels really awful at first. But I'm now used to thinking as school just for work and not for socialising, and socialising in my free time. Go out with your friends when you get back from school. It's sad you can't go to a different school. How many years have you got left there? Your princiable sounds like a dickhead. xp And don't worry about people feeling sorry for you, people who make friends with you because of that are usually easy to spot - you meet them when you look miserable and they speak to you non-stop that day but two days later they just say 'Hi'. So there isn't enough time to form anything painful to break.
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Posted: Wed May 11, 2005 10:59 am
lvngembrs It's a vicious cycle and it takes a lot of self control to stop. I used to, i never cut though. Instead I inflicted bruises on myself. It wasn't very pretty. I stopped a few weeks later because the fear of my mom finding out was much greater. It's good in a strange way that you were scared. It's really addictive. I used to hit my head on walls, and though I haven't acutally gone smack into one like I used to in over a year, I still want to sometimes. A girl at my school carved the word 'Hate' into her arm. It made me very sad. sad A scar I have from hurting myself has gone really faint so you can barely see it now! biggrin
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Posted: Wed May 11, 2005 12:04 pm
A lot of my scars are fading. But for some reason I'm sad to see them go...
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Posted: Thu May 12, 2005 6:18 am
x_Snoops_Suga_Mamii_x its pretty hard to bleive anyone cares when al your friends have just ditched you for basiclly no reason, and everyday tha thing your most scared of is that tha one person that feels sorry for you and lets you hang out with them isnt at school, leaving you to find someone to hang out with that doesnt like you, and thats likey to ditch you as well. i have exactly 2 friends that actually go to my school ,and im not allowed to change schools to go to a school with my friends, cause my moms dont want to pay for tha bus for me, and the reason i dont have many peopel to hang out with at my own school si casue i got into one fight, that i didnt even start, and tha princiable said im not allowed ot hang out with them anymore sad hey hun...its when ppl turn against you that you can find help here...PM me if you want a few good sites and stuff that ppl are just chilled and love to help and love to listen to you vent without making you feel stupid.... we are here for you... believe it or not if anythin this whole experience will make you a better person in the end
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Posted: Thu May 12, 2005 9:03 am
Ares A lot of my scars are fading. But for some reason I'm sad to see them go... That's strange. What is it that you link them with? I thought the scar I was refering to had gone at first, and as I have always seen it as a mark of my stupidity, I felt as though I am no longer stupid. Now I feel as though Iam still stupid, but I'm getting somewhere. xp I just want to say (though it's fairly pointless) that "Life is about changes and opportunities" is something I've recently realised I strongly believe and that those that don't have a much harder time.
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