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 Posted: Wed Jun 14, 2006 7:36 pm
hey. my gf died a little while ago and i've geen struggleing to cope with it. I've started to cut myself and am having hard time stopping. I need some help.
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Posted: Wed Jun 14, 2006 7:43 pm
Dont cut. It doesnt slove or help anything. I'm sorry about your GirlFriend, but you will get over it in time. Never fully, you will always have that memory of her, but the pain of her death will go away.
Try doing other things to get your mind off of the deal. It realy helps to be surrounded with friends.
May I ask what she died from?
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Posted: Wed Jun 14, 2006 9:11 pm
Wow.. Man thats tough. Hell I think cutting urself is alright. But only if it stops u from killing youself. Which i find myself doing alot.
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Posted: Wed Jun 14, 2006 9:17 pm
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Posted: Thu Jun 15, 2006 7:26 pm
I am really sorry for your loss and offer my condolences. However, self mutilation is not the answer. I have no way to help you deal, but I have a suggestion for a way to stop cutting. Take a rubber band, place it around your wrist, and whenever you feel to urge to cut, snap it againt your wrist. Try it out and see if it works.
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Posted: Tue Jun 20, 2006 6:38 am
yea i agree with both of them but not the guy cause cutting yourself is very wrong and you should never do it but find other ways to take your mind off of it like when my sister died i started to draw pictures of different people and i did pictures of my friends too
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Posted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 5:10 pm
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Posted: Thu Jun 22, 2006 9:27 pm
Hey man, I'm sorry about that. I know it has to be rough. A friend of mine, his girlfriend committed suicide in April. This is how I'd look at it. Do you think she would want you to be sad and hurting yourself? I think she would want you to try and move on with your life and once again find happiness. I know its going to be rough for you to do, but it can be done. Despite what you may think, life will move on. Just take this and allow it to make you stronger. Whatever it is that you decide to do, just try not to hurt yourself anymore and don't bottle things up. It will most likely make things worse in the long run. Good luck.
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Posted: Sun Jun 25, 2006 9:43 pm
the rubberband idea REALLY works... im sorry about your girlfriend...loosing a loved one is always hurtful...but they would want you to be happy...right?
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Posted: Tue Jun 27, 2006 7:14 pm
Find something else to take up your time because that is very bad and unhealthy.
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Posted: Mon Jul 10, 2006 10:59 am
that's horrible... how long were you together? i know that if the man i loved (xbf and still best friend) died, i would be deperate for teh pain to stop. just go nuts if you feel like it. if you have some old clothes, put them on, and then rip them, destroy things that have no value to you. it'll make you feel better, but you'll probably end up disolving into tears. eventually, you'll feel better, and then you'll have the happy memories you made together. if it makes you feel better, get a necklace with a small charm that reminds you of her, or a ring that symbolizes what you had. i'm sorry. i offer my sincerest condolances.
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Posted: Mon Aug 21, 2006 7:54 pm
good luck.... be careful with the cutting... and i'm sorry for your loss...
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Posted: Tue Sep 05, 2006 11:40 am
Don't cut. No matter how much you want to, it's not gonna help. I'm sorry, but it will only get easier with time.
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