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 Posted: Tue Jun 07, 2005 7:57 am
YEah i know this should be posted in Life Issues but too many flamers there. But anyways My friend Vin im really worried about him. I spent all last night holding him while he cried ...alot. He was upset how everyone else seems to have a boyfried or girlfriend but him and how he feels he's going to be alone forever. He's even told me he has a crush on me not long ago but i already have a boyfriend. What triggared his anger was friends and i were over at his house another couple was all over eachother. My boyfriend tried to close to be but i new Vin was upset so i kept pushing him away. Later after everyone left he started crying and when i started hugging him and trying to comfprt him. He was telling me how im the only thing keeping him alive, and he doesnt know what he'd do without me. I know how he feels thats why i feel so bad. Also he doesnt want to be set up with anyone, he said it would make him feel worse. Is there anything i can do to make him feel better? Anyway he can just be myfriend and not love me?
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Posted: Tue Jun 07, 2005 7:26 pm
He can just be your friend. Just make sure you tell him that you're not interested in him being anything more than a friend! I know it's hard for him, but he needs to learn to be his own person without having someone to date. It's part of life, and it's part of growing up. Just be there for him as a friend, but clear that you are just a friend! Hopefully he'll learn to be happy with himself soon.
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Posted: Wed Jun 08, 2005 7:48 am
Smart Alex He can just be your friend. Just make sure you tell him that you're not interested in him being anything more than a friend! I know it's hard for him, but he needs to learn to be his own person without having someone to date. It's part of life, and it's part of growing up. Just be there for him as a friend, but clear that you are just a friend! Hopefully he'll learn to be happy with himself soon. I hope so. Ill try and talk to him more. Thanks
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Posted: Wed Jun 08, 2005 1:32 pm
What I would do is just support him as best you can and let him know that even if you're not, like, a couple that you still care about him and that friends are just as important if not more than a girlfriend is. I actually will say that because I have a wonderful boyfriend who helps me through my problems but it dfoesn't replace my need for friends that I don't have...sometimes there needs to be other sorts of relationships in your life. Yeah, also, I would encourage him to just ignore other couples and think about something he likes or whatever. Also, if you have the time, Maybe you could hang with im one on one, like as friends, but so that he knows you're still there for him...dunno, just suggestions...good luck!
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