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For a couple of years I had been harrassed off and on by one person. I'm posative it's the same person each time. First of all the person used the name arseboy or arsepig and I don't remember what the other one was. This person left comments on my fictionpress/fanfiction.com account and my media miner accout. Those are story posting sites. They were all removed, except one, which the people at the site keep ignoring my e-mails about.

Anyways. This went on for a few months and stopped. Then the person would come into the chatroom, well it's furcadia.com. kinda like a game, but chat is the main part. Anyways the person is from there and I finally decided who it was and it was someone on there I knew. It still goes on off and on, maybe once every 2 months. It was more often than that for awhile. I can't seem to do anything about it on that chat site, except ignore the person sending the message and then they change their name I've tryed sending log files and they couldn't find anything. Ugh. It's never entered my e-mail and untill just a minute ago it never entered my IMs. So I clicked the warn button and the ignore button and left it at that.

I know that some people would probably just brush it off each time, especially if it only happens once in awhile, but My anxiety just reaches a hight of almost 10 when this happens and it's not what this person says at all that's bothering me. It's the fact that they're trying to get to me. It's scary. I worry what this person will try next. This is all the stuff that's ever happened from the begining like for 2 years now, so i shouldn't worry about account hacking or anything. But every possible or should i say impossible thing enters my mind. Will they hack me and mess with my friends? Will they continue to harrass me even more? Will I receiver threatening letters? Will the person try to locate me irl and kill me? etc

I need help my anxiety is out of control, now. crying Sorry for the long message.

Well, I've made it so only people on my list can message me and to talk to me on IM, you have to give me your user name first now. I don't really want to change my username, because I like it so much. Plus then you have to explain to everyone on your list who you are.

But I think i'm really over dramatizing this. This person can't find me. This person has only been harrassing me on rare occasions, now and if that's all this person is doing, I should just relax and not let the person's comments get to me.

Glad to hear you're feeling better about things, Darialan.

Heh not that simple to ignore them. They change names. I've basicly quit going for the most part and the only reason i even go on anymore is to keep my name from dying due to inactivity.

username is Darialan

Well, I've kinda lost interest in it and gained more intrest in Gaia, so I probably won't, besides I like my name and I don't see myself coming up with another name that I like just as much.