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Depression and raising kids

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Mujouken Aijou

PostPosted: Sat Jul 16, 2005 6:31 am


I started a thread about this in the parents' guild, but I am interested to find out what those of you who can actually relate have to say. I am a 26 year old mother of 4 and I am really afraid of my kids being scarred by my problems. I have never been formally diagnosed although I did go to a doc after my first panic attack and all he did was throw a pill bottle at me and say "have a nice day". I was really just wondering if any of you have kids and what you do to help them so that they don't end up hating you or something.
PostPosted: Sat Jul 16, 2005 7:27 am


I don't have kids yet, but I want to have a child someday. I do worry about them being scarred by my problem. I also worry about my ability to take care of a child, and the possibility that I might pass my illness on to them. I'm interested to hear what parents have to say about these fears, and how they've played themselves out while raising kids. You might want to check out our previous thread about Genetic Counseling in which some of the above issues are addressed.

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krimsonnox

PostPosted: Sat Jul 16, 2005 7:52 am


i am a stay at home mom, i have a 7 m son and i worry about the same sort of things.
i worry that merely watching my crazy mood swings will mess him up. and frankly i have larger fears due to the nature of my problems. I tried to join the parents guild but was denied for some reason..still cant figure out what. I cant imagine haveing 4 kids to worry about..you are a brave woman. feel free to pm me if you anna talk. I havnt found much suport online for parents with mental illness frankly.
PostPosted: Sat Jul 16, 2005 8:51 am


I know what u mean, the people in the Parents guild were pretty harsh when I asked the same question. They called me selfish and stuff just because I dont feel that medication is the choice for me.....I would love to talk tho, I can relate and I know how important friends are to coping with our sort of problems

Mujouken Aijou

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