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 Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 8:57 pm
Said horrible things about you behind your back, regarding your virginity?
There is this one girl at my school, who hates me with a passion, just because I don't like one of her friends. She constantly calls me a slut. People tend to believe her, and so many people actually believe that I'm some sort of whore.
I know that I'm not a slut. I've never been kissed! If that's slutty, then wow, times have changed. Sometimes she can make my life a living hell. But, most of the time, I just don't let her get to me.
So,
Has anyone ever said horrible things about you behind your back, regarding your virginity?
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Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 9:28 pm
Honestly nobody has talked bad about me behind my back regarding my virginity. But it has happened to some of my friends. I have been talked about (concerning other things) but since I know that the rumor is a lie and the people that I care about know its a lie then I don't really care about it.
About what is happening to you I would try a little harder to ignore her but if it gets too far you can always confront her and ask her why is she spreading rumors about you. You know just tell her, that if she has anything to say, to say it in your face.
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Posted: Thu Aug 16, 2007 6:23 am
Thanks. :]
I've known her since Elementary School. She wasn't this mean then. =/ I'm just glad that I'm starting a new school week after next. Gives me a chance to start over. She's going there too though...but, I'm not going to let her get to me.
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Posted: Thu Aug 16, 2007 8:02 am
Tani Loves Tape Thanks. :] I've known her since Elementary School. She wasn't this mean then. =/ I'm just glad that I'm starting a new school week after next. Gives me a chance to start over. She's going there too though...but, I'm not going to let her get to me.
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Posted: Thu Aug 16, 2007 4:46 pm
I delt with something like that. Basically a friend I once had liked me and liked being around me, so for some reason told all her friends that I slept with her. Then it spread throughout my entire school. Since I don't talk at like all, people like to gosip about me with whatever they can get.
And I'm not just saying that. When I turned in a report to my English teacher, he asked out loud why I didn't believe in the survace progect at the school. Next thing I knew, whenever I started a conversation with anyone at school, they'd ask me if that was true.
Just stick up for yourself, and don't let her get to you. Whenever she says something about you, tell everyone it isn't true and that she's just clawing her way into getting attention.
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Posted: Sat Aug 18, 2007 10:09 am
well I have been called every thing in the book Lol
but Im the type a guy that just turnes the cheek
and if that dosent work then I start throwing my fists Lol
unless its a girl !!!
I would never hit a girl Lol
I might kick her but other then that ...
Lol jk rofl
I love life way to much for that to get to me Lol
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Posted: Sun Aug 19, 2007 2:37 pm
yeah. ive been called a slut so many times before.
i think because guys always try to 'hit on' me.
but i refused
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Posted: Wed Aug 22, 2007 12:46 am
Obviously people have said things in regard to my virginity... if you know me at all... Im not ashamed I was raped... because Im stronger then to be ashamed of something that wasn't my fault and I shouldn't have to burden it...
but It was my own parents... I know they said it because they didn't know how to deal with the situation... but... I remember everyday what they said, hurts me more then the actual scenario... I tried to come up with a thousand explanations for what happened that day I was taken advantage of, but in the end messed myself over...
My dad said with my mom in the room... "Its your fault you were raped"
A knife... in my heart.... thus I was homeless.. I couldn't believe the cruelty of my own blood... my dad even corrupted my brother into saying it, but I don't hate him for that, and forgave him a while ago, since he is so protective and supportive of me now... ^^ hes helped me come a long way and is a really good person, and deals with my moodiness razz
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Posted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 9:03 am
Tani Loves Tape I know that I'm not a slut. I've never been kissed! If that's slutty, then wow, times have changed. Sometimes she can make my life a living hell. But, most of the time, I just don't let her get to me. I've never been kissed either so.. You're a total slut like I am smile I can feel you in that aspect though, what happens in the end though is that you can tell who your true friends are.
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Posted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 9:04 am
x.silver deserts.x My dad said with my mom in the room... "Its your fault you were raped" I can't understand how people can come to that conclusion. neutral
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Posted: Sat Sep 01, 2007 1:16 am
Actually they don't wait for my back to be turned. I just flat out get called a f*****t and a p***y by both my older brother and his friends. Due to my peaceful nature, I refrain from caving all their skulls in like I should and could. ninja
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Posted: Sat Sep 01, 2007 12:16 pm
FreeArsenal x.silver deserts.x My dad said with my mom in the room... "Its your fault you were raped" I can't understand how people can come to that conclusion. neutral Because they cant handle the actual situation, they have to push it off so they dont feel like they had anything to do with it... in reality it was only the guys fault... but in their mind if they accepted that, it would be their fault for poor parenting.
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Posted: Sat Sep 01, 2007 7:23 pm
x.silver deserts.x FreeArsenal x.silver deserts.x My dad said with my mom in the room... "Its your fault you were raped" I can't understand how people can come to that conclusion. neutral Because they cant handle the actual situation, they have to push it off so they dont feel like they had anything to do with it... in reality it was only the guys fault... but in their mind if they accepted that, it would be their fault for poor parenting. That would make sense with a person's natural defense mechanism.
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Posted: Sun Sep 02, 2007 4:04 pm
Lord_Sloth Actually they don't wait for my back to be turned. I just flat out get called a f*****t and a p***y by both my older brother and his friends. Due to my peaceful nature, I refrain from caving all their skulls in like I should and could. ninja :[ I'm sorry. *hugs* I have no patience what-so-ever...I probably would've killed them by now.
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Posted: Sun Sep 02, 2007 9:05 pm
Well, if anyone says stuff like this to me. I just knock them out. I don't fight for no reason. But, few things can set me off. like in the morning if I am hit or slapped or a friend messing around I just sock them. Not a morning person >_> So, when people say crap like this I tell them. "Dude I ain't in the mood I will knock your a** to the floor if you say it again. and 50% of the time they say it again and they never talk too me again. I am not saying hit them or something. But, atleast tel them "Leave me the #$%^ alone!" and make sure you use a cuss word. I mean they are not good to use. But, it does make the thing more convincing. I mean I am a guy so we do act tougher most of the time. But, this is just my thought.
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