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Tatti Rae
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PostPosted: Sat Sep 08, 2007 8:55 pm


So, nowadays, self-mutilation is kind of a common thing around teens. We all know about it. We call kids who cut 'emo' and whatnot, but that's not always the case. They cut to make themselves feel better, or... I don't know. I can't really say why exactly they do it. I'm not the kind of person that's done the act. I've had thoughts about it in times of deep sadness, but I'm the kind of person that's very against that.

So.
Have you cut/burned/other form of self mutilation?
What are your thoughts on it?
Have you ever thought of doing it?
PostPosted: Sun Sep 09, 2007 7:08 pm


I've never cut or thought of cutting...well I mean, I've thought of what it would be like, but I never thought of it as a way to make myself feel better. But I've had loads of friends who've been cutters. I've never understood it myself, but they say it makes them feel better. I suppose it makes them feel alive. I think it's just a way out of dealing with your problems, kinda like drinking or getting high.

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PostPosted: Mon Sep 10, 2007 4:33 am


Yeah, I agree. I kind of think maybe it's way to distract them... Like, you know how in elementary school, you'd complain about your arm hurting or something, and someone would come up and punch your leg and be like, "Well, now your leg hurts to distract you from your arm."
Well, maybe cutters cut to distract themselves from their emotional pain.
PostPosted: Mon Sep 10, 2007 9:45 am


Yeah. That could be. It's still an unhealthy way to deal with problems.

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PostPosted: Wed Sep 12, 2007 3:15 pm


I've never thought about doing it. If you ask me, most of it is for attention, which is why it's done on the wrists, not on the thighs. But the people who aren't doing for attention are dumb. They're doing it wrong.
PostPosted: Wed Sep 12, 2007 4:20 pm


You know what, I think that too. Sometimes. Or I have thought that..or whatever. Like some people are just like...look I cut myself again, pay attention to me!! If they were really upset enough, you're right, they would most likely just commit suicide.

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PostPosted: Fri Sep 14, 2007 3:40 pm


DeviantDreamer
Yeah. That could be. It's still an unhealthy way to deal with problems.

That's very true, but some people are just so lost in their pain, maybe they don't care how healthy or unhealthy it may be. They're just looking for a way to numb that pain then and there...
Also, on the attention part, they might not get any attention from people close to them, and them cutting is like, "LOOK, I'VE DONE SOMETHING DANGEROUS. PLEASE CARE. CARE ABOUT ME."
PostPosted: Sat Sep 15, 2007 7:06 am


That's just an excuse. I don't condone cutting in any way shape or form, and I think people who do are just wimps who are unable to deal with the hardships of life. Most people don't have an easy life, or at least, the life they woulp prefer to live, but they find ways to endure it that do not involve freakin cutting.

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PostPosted: Sat Sep 15, 2007 8:52 am


I don't approve of cutting too, which is why I don't cut. And like... I try to get people out of cutting. I agree with you, it's not the healthiest way of handling things, but people don't care what we or anyone else thinks, or else they wouldn't do it in the first place. D:
PostPosted: Sun Sep 16, 2007 7:56 am


Well then, if they don't care what we think, why do they tell us?

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PostPosted: Mon Sep 17, 2007 6:25 pm


Exactly. Why do cutters tell people if they don't care? Because they want the attention. And if they want attention so bad, you know what they could do? Talk to someone. Wow. I'm a freaking genius. There's no way to justify cutting. And for those of us who say things like, "OMG GUYZ I hav teh razr in mah pokit 'n itzz nooot teh fooonnnee!" You're retarded. And you get on my nerves. Because when you cut you're a coward. Pain does not solve pain. So stfu and deal. I'm sure there are people who have it harder than you.
PostPosted: Mon Sep 17, 2007 7:13 pm


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"OMG GUYZ I hav teh razr in mah pokit 'n itzz nooot teh fooonnnee!"

ROFL if someone said that to me I would be like...

EPIC PHAIL!!!!! *walks away giggling*

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PostPosted: Wed Sep 19, 2007 4:34 pm


DeviantDreamer
KingMasterLillie
"OMG GUYZ I hav teh razr in mah pokit 'n itzz nooot teh fooonnnee!"

ROFL if someone said that to me I would be like...

EPIC PHAIL!!!!! *walks away giggling*

ROFLMAO. Lillie. That was awesome.
I guess, so. I'm just giving views from every side. D:
PostPosted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 7:14 pm


personally i hate people who self inflict. its mostly for attention but they say its for their "problems" but face it....WE ALL HAVE THEM!! WE GET OVER IT!! DONT HURT YOURSELF JUST HANG WITH UR BEST FRIENDS AND YOULL FEEL BETTER IN NO TIME! AND FOR ALL U PEOPLE WHO DO CUT....GET A LIFE!

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PostPosted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 8:48 pm


(omg someone else finally posted)Hate is a very strong word. I wouldn't go as far as saying I hate cutters, I more or less lose respect for them.
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