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Oh my what a lovely story this is.

I must start it with a little backround information.
I am in a relationship with a lovely gentleman who is currently in the college I am planning to attend. He is quite a bit older than me but I shall leave that up to speculation, it doesn't really have much to do this particular story. At any rate, the most important thing to emphasize is how positive our relationship is, we have been together for... quite awhile. We got together basically the day after I learned my ex had been cheating on me for 6 months (which explained why he wouldn't talk to me for months at a time). Because before then we were extremely flirtatious and whatnot, you could almost say I had been cheating on my ex for a short period of time as a desperate outcry for some sort of affection since he was showing me absolutely nothing. But regardless, I have been with my current boyfriend since before the last summer, so more than half a year. The interesting part of this equation is that he is a notorious homosexual personality at anime conventions and the like, so it surprised even me when we ended up together. And becaue of the age differance and people's habits to start drama at cons we kept it as a bit of a secret.

I did at one point tell two people about it. One was my friend since I was a freshman in highschool and the other a congoer who I had gotten very close to and trusted. If you followed the things she said and did you started to get a feeling that she was an extreme drama whore, though. Her life sucks but she has a habit of causing more than half of it to herself and yelling at the world about it every day. Sometime ago she became more aquainted with my bf who is a kind person and was sympathetic to her at first like most people. After sometime she started mentioning him in like every single one of her journals, I was skeptical and annoyed. This pattern continued for some time.

Not to long ago she sent me a myspace message that basically professed how she had fallen in love with him, slept with him twice at a con, and another girl who me and my bf know had slept with him this one weekend I was over there when I slept on the couch and she was in his room. It was dripping with so much bullshit but I was still shaken by it. I called my bf and all the lies wer emore than evident, as was the strength of our relationship for the millionth time. The next few days afterwards talking to him and such I gained a pretty clear idea that she was pissed at him for not visiting her, ignoring her for being obnoxious, and because she blamed him for her almost getting banned from 2 cons. She found out about the weekend simply because of the shittery of one of my friends who was mad at him for making him not able to run panels at a local con, because he is a fat disgusting b*****d who didn't appreciate the fact that my bf let him room with him for a few months not having to py rent or anything. To thank him he talked behind his back. In the end my "friend" the girl I trusted and the other girl who she said slept with him are all in league against him and trying to turn a bunch of people against him, so tht and alot of things combined are why he is not attending cons anymore (he doesn't even like anime that much anymore, which goes for me as well hence me considering stop going as well).

The culmination of this however, is how pissed off at my "friend" I am, because I trusted her and listened to her b***h and moan the past couple years to have her lie to me and my bf who had listened to her b***h and moan and then basically told her to shut the ******** up and ignored her, which I am doing as well now. In the end all she has done has isolated herself from us and done nothing to hurt me and my bf's relationship. I know someday she will write angry blogs about how all her old friends don't talk to her about us now, because she writes those kinds of blogs all the time. After this whole situation I can only sit here and say "I WONDER WHY". So she can keep making herself miserable forever while I sit and be happy with my dear gentleman. I happen to be visiting him this weekend for what I predict will be a splendid time.