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OkamisDream

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 22, 2008 10:33 am


would you call a couple who swings and f**ks whoever they want sluts? bc a friend of mine, who im in an online relationship with ((im getting out soon)) but shes saying that ppl that are swingers are sluts

my opinion is that shes quite immature and doesnt seem to understand
PostPosted: Sat Mar 22, 2008 4:29 pm


Ask your friend to define slut. I generally find that it means 'anyone who gets more sex than me'. I know many women who are proud to be sluts.
I see nothing wrong with 'swinging', so long as all parties involved enjoy it.

On the other hand, I don't particularly enjoy being told who and how I may ******** by a third party. She's free to think it's slutty, but she has no right to stop it from happening.

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 23, 2008 8:49 am


If two people are committed to each other, is there really anything wrong with anything they do together sexually?
PostPosted: Sun Mar 23, 2008 10:43 am


Erebus_Rex
If two people are committed to each other, is there really anything wrong with anything they do together sexually?
There is, if one of them doesn't want it. Consent is vital, really.

Also, if three or four people are committed to one another, and everything is consensual, I don't see anything they could do together that would be object-able.

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 24, 2008 5:53 am


If EVERYONE involved agrees, then by all means go have a fun and dandy time (with the proper protection that is!)
PostPosted: Mon Mar 24, 2008 7:56 pm


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If EVERYONE involved agrees, then by all means go have a fun and dandy time (with the proper protection that is!)
Safe, Sane, and Consensual, eh?

If they'd rather not use protection of the non-baby sort, that's up to them, but doing something like a suspension with weak bolts would be ridiculous, completely unsafe, but that's their choice, and they have the freedom to be stupid.

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 29, 2008 3:32 pm


I don't know. I think that if you don't find what you do wrong, then it isn't. Girls only call other girls sluts if they think that it's wrong. I don't find it wrong to sleep with someone, or someones. What is wrong is being in denial about the simple human drive to pro-create. (Which can thankfully be dealt with up to 99.9% of the time wink )
PostPosted: Sat Mar 29, 2008 5:53 pm


Thanks, Shy.

Nice to see you posting here, BTW. Where've you been?

If whoever does it likes it, than it's fine.

Zurah

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Orvil Pym

PostPosted: Sun Mar 30, 2008 1:41 am


Whoever said that being slutty was a bad thing anyway? If slutty means having more sex than the next person - well, claim it proudly for yourself. Am I a pervert? By most peoples standards I guess I am. And I am very happy with it. smile

So, let's all be sluts and have fun with it, eh?

(Edit: Ok, lets all who would have fun with it, be sluts... and, er, well, you know, have fun. 3nodding )
PostPosted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 7:15 pm


Orvil Pym
Whoever said that being slutty was a bad thing anyway? If slutty means having more sex than the next person - well, claim it proudly for yourself. Am I a pervert? By most peoples standards I guess I am. And I am very happy with it. smile

So, let's all be sluts and have fun with it, eh?

(Edit: Ok, lets all who would have fun with it, be sluts... and, er, well, you know, have fun. 3nodding )
Yay!

We agree on something. Finally.

It's a pretty damn good thing to agree about, too.

Zurah

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Orvil Pym

PostPosted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 1:26 am


Zurah and I agree! Yay!
*kicks off his shoes and dances happily in the street*
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