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 Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 6:09 pm
Ok, so, ever since I've read Shugo Chara book 1&2, I've been trying to be my would-be-self(?) or wished self(?), a happy, outgoing person to see if people would like me more and now I am disliked and shunned from the crowd more then ever. I have lost lots of friends to, including the person I've liked for 4 years... He just stopped talking to me plus he told me out of no where I was annoying...? And my best friend moved back home since she was a foreign student and I'm trying to visit her but my mom and dad don't know because she lives in Mexico and its a lot of money.... My other 2 friends are always busy... Now I don't even now if I wish to be happy and outgoing anymore or if It was what I ever really wanted to be... I guess I have an X egg? ._., So could someone help me? ^^, (sorry about this)
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Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 6:23 pm
I would probably be going through the same thing, but I just moved, and I don't really have any friends to lose right now.
I've been trying to be my would-be-self too.
If it's who you really want to be, then they should support you, and if they don't, then it's them who have a problem, and they're not being very good friends.
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Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 6:32 pm
Natalia told me that too... She always supported my would-be-self and so have Mary and Jonelle. But I don't know If being outgoing is what I really want now... Because theres another (I think) self that I wish to be...? And I can't be both because there total opposites. (I talking weird I know...^^,)
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Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 6:35 pm
Well, what's the other self like?
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Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 6:44 pm
Side One- Outgoing, Happy, Peppy, Courageous, Imature. (Like a Ran-Yoru-KusuKusu-Yaya-Kukai mix x3)
Side Two- Alot like Amus 'Cool and Spicy' self with a bit of Miki~
(Hope you understand what I'm meaning)
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Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 7:01 pm
Well I dunno what else to say to help. ):
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Posted: Sun Jun 22, 2008 5:07 am
ChibiChara Ok, so, ever since I've read Shugo Chara book 1&2, I've been trying to be my would-be-self(?) or wished self(?), a happy, outgoing person to see if people would like me more and now I am disliked and shunned from the crowd more then ever. I have lost lots of friends to, including the person I've liked for 4 years... He just stopped talking to me plus he told me out of no where I was annoying...? And my best friend moved back home since she was a foreign student and I'm trying to visit her but my mom and dad don't know because she lives in Mexico and its a lot of money.... My other 2 friends are always busy... Now I don't even now if I wish to be happy and outgoing anymore or if It was what I ever really wanted to be... I guess I have an X egg? ._., So could someone help me? ^^, (sorry about this)
Amu: my heart unlocked. negative heart,lock on, open heart!!!!
ur 'X-egg' is returned to normal... heart
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Posted: Mon Jun 30, 2008 4:12 pm
well, if its the person you want to be, i don't think u should have become it so quickly. try little by little.
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Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 6:51 pm
Well, if the person you liked for like.. 4 years says your annoying doesnt really mean that you shouldnt be happy and outgoing already.. You have the same "wished self" like me.. I tried to be outgoing and happy, half my friends said that I;m annoying and liked me better when I was mean, bossy and all... and guess what I did? I stay the outgoing and happy self but occasionally became the mean/bossy girl when it was needed or when I'm really annoyed. The person, which i had a crush on, said that I was annoying I told him i didnt care.. and said that if he didnt like me for who I am than what kind of friend is he? He became nicer to me too.. My advice for you, Chibi, is be outgoing and happy, occasionally turn normal and/or cool and spicy with a bit of miki. I wish you the best of luck..
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Posted: Sat Sep 06, 2008 4:31 pm
well chanceing your self is like a volume dail on a speaker, if you turn it to high to fast, its bound to scare people, increase it little by little and only to a point were people can enjoy it.
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Posted: Fri Jul 31, 2009 6:32 am
Ok...*deep breaths* HERE I GO...!!
Atashi no Kokoro...Un...Lock...Charanari...Amuleto Heart!!
Who cares if your former x-friends don't like you anymore just because you're being your true self??
That just means that they can't accept the real you and aren't really your friends...
I think you should continue to be yourself...I'm sure you'd pick up REAL friends along the way...
AND AT LEAST YOU KNOW WHAT YOUR TRUE SELF IS...I DON'T KNOW MY TRUE SELF ACTUALLY...TeeHee...^_^
Ok...*deep breaths* HERE I GO ONCE AGAIN...!!
Negative hearto...Lock...On!! OPEN HEART!!
Hope your x-egg is purified...^_~
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Posted: Sat Aug 01, 2009 10:30 am
it's like when amu begins to act more like herself, and those boys say she's not as cool... even so, she makes new friends and she's much happier because she can just act how she wants to instead of worrying about acting a certain way.
basically, my advice to you is to try new things, and to not think about what you are expected to be like--just be however you want to be... and don't worry about finding your true self... like amu, you can have a lot of shugo charas~ even if you don't know what they are right now, you will figure them out one day, so don't worry! ^_^
i don't know my true self, but i think it's ok as long as you are happy and you don't give up hope on it
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Posted: Thu Aug 06, 2009 6:05 am
Hey...Tell me what happens next after reading these advices...^_^...
I'd be glad to hear from you...
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Posted: Fri Sep 11, 2009 1:49 pm
well they may not like the way you sort of changed... but i think thats a stupid reason to shun someone..... i try to be more outgoing at school but im too scared too though ^^" but ill be your friend! ^^
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