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Tristan-TK-Kingsley

PostPosted: Sat Aug 30, 2008 2:55 am


So, several times in the past few months alone, I've realized too late that a girl was flirting with me [yes, I'm a lesbian.] Are there any signs that you guys know of that I should look for when talking to a girl?
PostPosted: Mon Sep 01, 2008 9:03 am


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How was it too late?

Well for me, when it comes to guys, Im dense.
Pretty much because I DONT want them flirting with me, so either Im ignoring it, or not even looking for it.
I dont know where this happened, school, whatnot..
But I find that if youre in a group of people, this person pays more attention to you, talks to you first, or more.
Kinda creepy sounding, but you find them staring at you at random times.
They do things for you, give you things.
They make it a point to touch you when talking to you, shoulder, arm.
Theres more, but its early for me for a day off. xD
This dont apply to all people, were all different and we flirt differently. xD

Were you already friends with this girl?

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PostPosted: Mon Sep 01, 2008 9:53 pm



Flirting is subjective, and is never the same for one person.

I could be complimenting someone, or giggling around them, and they could take that as flirting when I'm not.

Or if I'm with Katie, I'll do stuff that counts as flirting..although I never remember what I do.. sweatdrop

Do I flirt, Katie?
PostPosted: Tue Sep 02, 2008 12:32 am


Well, it was too late because when I realized that I liked them and they were flirting with me before, they had gotten over me. XD Yeah. I'm THAT dense.

But, I tend to think into things a little too much. So, either I think they like me and I don't know how to respond, or I think they show signs of liking me, but over think it even more and convince myself they're not into me. XD

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PostPosted: Tue Sep 02, 2008 1:52 pm


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So then next time, just go for it.

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