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 Posted: Fri Sep 30, 2005 4:15 pm
As my world crashes around me.....
My life is going horrible here is what is happening:
-My mom tore down my room every poster is gone
- My mom banned me from 90% of my friends, even off the phone
- My mom has me on constant grounding
- She's always yelling at me
- I wake up in the middle of the night every night and have night terrors due to all of this!!!
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Posted: Fri Sep 30, 2005 10:26 pm
I sympathise for you. I dont know your mother and what she is like, so I suggest this. Try to not let her see that it is affecting you. If the friends she is still allowing you to contact are close enough to talk to, I suggest talking to them about it and see if they have any suggestions for you, as they would know you bettre than me. Well, I'm hoping this helps but if you want you can talk to me.
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Multifunctionomical Boner Crew
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Posted: Sat Oct 01, 2005 1:03 pm
More has just happened. My mom called my exboyfriend and asked him what kinda guy my current boyfriend is like. And he said "He's terrible he does all the drugs there is and hits girls". And this is all lies. And so I'm sick of it....... I'm sick of love, I'm sick of friendship. I'm withdrawing myself from everybody. That way there will be no more problems. The only friends I will accept are online friends.
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Posted: Sat Oct 01, 2005 7:15 pm
Tell her to stuff it. :[ Just show some resistance. If my parents would ever do that I'd do a fight back kind of thing. And if your mom hits you or something if you show resistance, you should tell the police and get her in jail. ;P
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Posted: Sun Oct 02, 2005 3:04 am
You cant shut yourself off from the real world. Real people can give you the comfort that online people could never give. Running away from the problem will not make it better. You probably dont want to talk to your mother, so talking to her now would not help anybody. Just wait until you are ready and if you cant sort all of this out at least explain that your ex-boyfriend is lying and your current boyfriend is actually a pretty good guy (assuming that he is).
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Posted: Sun Oct 02, 2005 7:00 am
Now my mom said she didn't get the info from my exboyfriend but from somebodys parents. And I asked her who and she wouldn't reveal to me or my dad who they are. I think she's lying plus he's not a really popular guy so how would people know him.
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Posted: Sun Oct 02, 2005 9:00 pm
Hmm... i dont know what to say to this. my mom is a nice person. but its not worth it to with draw your self from every body around you. i did something like that. not fun. i kinda made every body around me angry and i didnt talk for A very long time... but i solved that problem a while back. well i wish you the best of luck! biggrin hope every thing goes well for you.
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Posted: Fri Oct 14, 2005 1:24 am
Well, if your mother wont even tell you who told her about your boyfriend you couldnt let her use that as evidence. For all you know she could have made it up (which is what you were saying). I'm not in a very good thinking mood at the moment, there must be something you can do but I just cant put my finger on it. What does your father think about all this? (By the way, sorry I havent replied sooner)
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Posted: Sun Oct 16, 2005 6:15 pm
Waoh that seems horrible why don't you talk to you mom?
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Posted: Tue Aug 22, 2006 3:34 pm
if you withdraw yourself, all you are is running away from your problems... this could make you worse, without the comfort theremaining of your friends can give you, who knows what you do... you may end up becoming a muderer or commit suicide... you must go up to your mom and demend what you what in this sitution, say you want fairness and justice, if worse comes to worse, you can call the police
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Posted: Tue Jan 09, 2007 5:37 pm
As the others have said, only having online friends doesn't solve anything. But I doubt that talking to your mother would do much, since, judging by what you say she does to you, she doesn't really care about what you have to say. But if she goes too far, like serious abuse, then you should definitely call the police. She has no right to do those things to you.
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