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 Posted: Tue Jun 30, 2009 6:38 pm
(I'm not sure if this subject has been brought up before, so I apologize if it has)
I think virginity is more then physical, its mental as well (Let me explain). I've been having discussions about this and a lot of people say "Well, I've done everything but have sex. So I'm a virgin" and I don't believe they are. Virginity is more then just not having sex before, Its the purity of the mind. Not knowing what its like to be with a man (or a woman) or to have done anything sexual before, Purity of the body and mind. That is virginity to me. (Please remember this is just my opinion, It isnt ment to offend anyone)
So my question is, How do you define virginity?
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Posted: Wed Jul 01, 2009 8:53 am
I think virginity is vaginal (or a**l, as the case may be) intercourse between two partners. Lesbians... not sure how they define it honestly, but seeing as I'm not a lesbian, I don't really care. People's virginity is their own business.
I consider myself a virgin in the technical sense because I have not had vaginal or a**l intercourse. That being said, I've done just about everything else one can do with a partner, so I suppose I don't consider myself a pure and holy virgin, or whatever. To me virginity is less about purity and more about not having had a certain life experience. I think waiting until you love someone to have sex, or any sort of sexual contact, is very important, and I certainly waited for love for almost all of the sexual contact I've had.
Mkay, rambling. End.
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Posted: Fri Jul 03, 2009 2:08 pm
freelance lover I think virginity is vaginal (or a**l, as the case may be) intercourse between two partners. Lesbians... not sure how they define it honestly, but seeing as I'm not a lesbian, I don't really care. People's virginity is their own business.
I consider myself a virgin in the technical sense because I have not had vaginal or a**l intercourse. That being said, I've done just about everything else one can do with a partner, so I suppose I don't consider myself a pure and holy virgin, or whatever. To me virginity is less about purity and more about not having had a certain life experience. I think waiting until you love someone to have sex, or any sort of sexual contact, is very important, and I certainly waited for love for almost all of the sexual contact I've had.
Mkay, rambling. End. i agree with this razz im not so concerned about being "pure" as just afraid of the consequecnes of sex an whatnot razz im not pure. on the other hand id think it was weird if someone had done everything an not sex yet said they wern't a virgin, i think a huge part of the virginity thing is the physical virginity thing, more so for a women i think with the breakin of the hymen etc. i think the majority of people now just see virginity as a life experiance rather than a purity thing. there's a pressure on people to have sex now which there wasnt like 50 years ago. however (this not meant to offend anyone) It makes me wonder why humans attach such importance to virginity, animals (to my knowledge razz ) dont seem to value it an since sex is a vital part of carrying on the human race (not that im going to hav children but some ppl might razz ) it seems perculiar that humans attach such importance to it, remebering their first time, how it has to be with someone you love, saving yourself for your wedding night for example..
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Posted: Fri Jul 03, 2009 10:47 pm
I think as long as you havent done "it" then your a virgin but as for the mind thing idk cuz u can have a dirty mind but not mean anything by it like you hear a comment that sounds a bit wrong and say eww but that doesnt mean much you know? sorry if i made it confusing sweatdrop
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Posted: Sat Jul 04, 2009 6:08 pm
Wish_on_a_Cloud freelance lover I think virginity is vaginal (or a**l, as the case may be) intercourse between two partners. Lesbians... not sure how they define it honestly, but seeing as I'm not a lesbian, I don't really care. People's virginity is their own business.
I consider myself a virgin in the technical sense because I have not had vaginal or a**l intercourse. That being said, I've done just about everything else one can do with a partner, so I suppose I don't consider myself a pure and holy virgin, or whatever. To me virginity is less about purity and more about not having had a certain life experience. I think waiting until you love someone to have sex, or any sort of sexual contact, is very important, and I certainly waited for love for almost all of the sexual contact I've had.
Mkay, rambling. End. i agree with this razz im not so concerned about being "pure" as just afraid of the consequecnes of sex an whatnot razz im not pure. on the other hand id think it was weird if someone had done everything an not sex yet said they wern't a virgin, i think a huge part of the virginity thing is the physical virginity thing, more so for a women i think with the breakin of the hymen etc. i think the majority of people now just see virginity as a life experiance rather than a purity thing. there's a pressure on people to have sex now which there wasnt like 50 years ago. however (this not meant to offend anyone) It makes me wonder why humans attach such importance to virginity, animals (to my knowledge razz ) dont seem to value it an since sex is a vital part of carrying on the human race (not that im going to hav children but some ppl might razz ) it seems perculiar that humans attach such importance to it, remebering their first time, how it has to be with someone you love, saving yourself for your wedding night for example..
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Posted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 2:20 pm
freelance lover Wish_on_a_Cloud freelance lover I think virginity is vaginal (or a**l, as the case may be) intercourse between two partners. Lesbians... not sure how they define it honestly, but seeing as I'm not a lesbian, I don't really care. People's virginity is their own business.
I consider myself a virgin in the technical sense because I have not had vaginal or a**l intercourse. That being said, I've done just about everything else one can do with a partner, so I suppose I don't consider myself a pure and holy virgin, or whatever. To me virginity is less about purity and more about not having had a certain life experience. I think waiting until you love someone to have sex, or any sort of sexual contact, is very important, and I certainly waited for love for almost all of the sexual contact I've had.
Mkay, rambling. End. i agree with this razz im not so concerned about being "pure" as just afraid of the consequecnes of sex an whatnot razz im not pure. on the other hand id think it was weird if someone had done everything an not sex yet said they wern't a virgin, i think a huge part of the virginity thing is the physical virginity thing, more so for a women i think with the breakin of the hymen etc. i think the majority of people now just see virginity as a life experiance rather than a purity thing. there's a pressure on people to have sex now which there wasnt like 50 years ago. however (this not meant to offend anyone) It makes me wonder why humans attach such importance to virginity, animals (to my knowledge razz ) dont seem to value it an since sex is a vital part of carrying on the human race (not that im going to hav children but some ppl might razz ) it seems perculiar that humans attach such importance to it, remebering their first time, how it has to be with someone you love, saving yourself for your wedding night for example.. i know lol, i feel like i spend half my time on here just quoting what you write, agreeing with it then adding some of my own ramblings lol
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Posted: Tue Jul 07, 2009 9:44 am
Wish_on_a_Cloud freelance lover Wish_on_a_Cloud freelance lover I think virginity is vaginal (or a**l, as the case may be) intercourse between two partners. Lesbians... not sure how they define it honestly, but seeing as I'm not a lesbian, I don't really care. People's virginity is their own business.
I consider myself a virgin in the technical sense because I have not had vaginal or a**l intercourse. That being said, I've done just about everything else one can do with a partner, so I suppose I don't consider myself a pure and holy virgin, or whatever. To me virginity is less about purity and more about not having had a certain life experience. I think waiting until you love someone to have sex, or any sort of sexual contact, is very important, and I certainly waited for love for almost all of the sexual contact I've had.
Mkay, rambling. End. i agree with this razz im not so concerned about being "pure" as just afraid of the consequecnes of sex an whatnot razz im not pure. on the other hand id think it was weird if someone had done everything an not sex yet said they wern't a virgin, i think a huge part of the virginity thing is the physical virginity thing, more so for a women i think with the breakin of the hymen etc. i think the majority of people now just see virginity as a life experiance rather than a purity thing. there's a pressure on people to have sex now which there wasnt like 50 years ago. however (this not meant to offend anyone) It makes me wonder why humans attach such importance to virginity, animals (to my knowledge razz ) dont seem to value it an since sex is a vital part of carrying on the human race (not that im going to hav children but some ppl might razz ) it seems perculiar that humans attach such importance to it, remebering their first time, how it has to be with someone you love, saving yourself for your wedding night for example.. i know lol, i feel like i spend half my time on here just quoting what you write, agreeing with it then adding some of my own ramblings lol
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Posted: Tue Jul 07, 2009 5:10 pm
Wow. Everyones views are so interesting. ^_^
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Posted: Wed Jul 08, 2009 10:26 am
Chemical_Love_95 Wow. Everyones views are so interesting. ^_^
While I see virginity as merely the lack of a basic life experience, I do think it's something to value. I believe in waiting for love and a long term, committed relationship.
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Posted: Sun Oct 18, 2009 12:56 am
Being in the state of having non-penetrative sex. I think a**l counts.
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Posted: Sun Oct 18, 2009 12:58 am
I too also wonder how lesbians determine virginity loss. I'm guessing through oral or toy penetration by another girl.
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Posted: Sun Oct 18, 2009 1:17 pm
I don't relate virginity and pureness, but I'd still like to stay pure as long as I can.
Viginity for males: If your p***s has been in someone else's; Mouth, a**s or v****a, then you aren't a virgin. And if you've had one in your a**s or mouth, you aren't virgin.
Virginity for females: If you've had a p***s in your a**s or mouth or v****a, you're not a virgin.
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Posted: Mon Oct 19, 2009 10:03 pm
 
My personal belief (which has changed, so feel free so call me a hypocrite) is vaginal/a**l is what matters.
I used to strongly advocate that oral counts too, but like I said, I changed my opinion. (coincidentally I also have done oral)
But anyways, I still feel like a virgin and I still feel pure having done oral, and I still consider myself a virgin.
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Posted: Mon Nov 09, 2009 8:40 pm
Any sex in general. Oral and a**l count to me.
Stuff like masturbation and using tampons does not count to me, though.
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Posted: Thu Nov 12, 2009 2:48 pm
Paper Heart Revolution Any sex in general. Oral and a**l count to me. Stuff like masturbation and using tampons does not count to me, though. i would be seriously peeved if i lost my virginity to a tampon! razz
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