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 Posted: Tue Jul 28, 2009 4:34 am
Ok now when I joined I was an virgin but...my teenage hormones got the best of me and you know its not the greatest thing to have sex, I mean it's fun but, not really that awesome I'm glad I waited as long as I did but sometimes I wonder if it would have been better to just have gotten it over with...anyone feel the same?
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Posted: Tue Jul 28, 2009 9:22 am
I'm glad I waited as long as I did. It was just the right time for my boyfriend and I, we were both comfortable, and I felt ready and sure of my choice. if I had done it any time before that, I probably would have regretted it. I'm glad I waited until I was comfortable and until I found someone I loved.
That's simply because of how I view sex. I see it as a deep and meaningful expression of love reserved for long term committed relationships. If I had just gotten if over with, it probably would have been with my FwB I had in high school, who ended up being a douche. I'm glad I didn't give him more than I did because in the end I realized he cared about me a lot less that I had initially thought.
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Posted: Sun Sep 13, 2009 12:30 am
I have the same viewpoint as freelance. She's right. I had been going out with a guy for 8 months, and I was seriously considering it, but I didn't, and I'm glad that I didn't because I feel like I could have regretted it. He was a douche as well- as it turned out.
I'm saving myself, and I know when I give up my virginity it won't be a regret.
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Posted: Sun Sep 13, 2009 12:28 pm
ok so...i belive this guild is called virgin PRIDE for a reason....and that reason is that the virgins who are here are proud of being so and think waiting for wichever reasons they might have be it religious,moral, political(?) is the right thing and so do i im 21 and virgin not cuz i cant get laid but because i dont want to, and i dont feel like its something i should get over whit and thats it, i has many members of the guild think in making love not having sex is the right thing to do, at least for your first time
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Posted: Mon Sep 14, 2009 7:05 am
Mauricios ok so...i belive this guild is called virgin PRIDE for a reason....and that reason is that the virgins who are here are proud of being so and think waiting for wichever reasons they might have be it religious,moral, political(?) is the right thing and so do i im 21 and virgin not cuz i cant get laid but because i dont want to, and i dont feel like its something i should get over whit and thats it, i has many members of the guild think in making love not having sex is the right thing to do, at least for your first time You forget, though, many people look at the Virgin in the name and not the Pride. Many individuals in here are virgins but are ashamed or feel left out. I am proud myself, but one of the major causes in my depression is that I look back and see that I'm not a virgin because I said no, but because there wasn't really anyone to say yes...
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Posted: Mon Sep 14, 2009 2:32 pm
Jarc_The_Mighty Mauricios ok so...i belive this guild is called virgin PRIDE for a reason....and that reason is that the virgins who are here are proud of being so and think waiting for wichever reasons they might have be it religious,moral, political(?) is the right thing and so do i im 21 and virgin not cuz i cant get laid but because i dont want to, and i dont feel like its something i should get over whit and thats it, i has many members of the guild think in making love not having sex is the right thing to do, at least for your first time You forget, though, many people look at the Virgin in the name and not the Pride. Many individuals in here are virgins but are ashamed or feel left out. I am proud myself, but one of the major causes in my depression is that I look back and see that I'm not a virgin because I said no, but because there wasn't really anyone to say yes... i agree, i am proud that i've waiting an that im not a slag XD but really no-ones ever asked me either, sure ive had bfs an if i was really desperate for it i could have probs got them to have sex with me XD but i havnt, now however it isn't really a major choice, just a phobia of the consequences XD lol im not ashamed by any means to be a virgin, however no-one in my circle of friends knows that i am a virgin (hypocrite i know razz ) sometimes i think in society these days its easier to just let people think you are having sex than to correct them that you're not. when i first went to college i told a girl i was a virgin an she was absolutly shocked (probs cos im also very dirty minded but pfft razz ) so ive found it easier just to let ppl think what they like. i guess that doesn't make me sound very proud lol sweatdrop
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Posted: Mon Sep 14, 2009 9:37 pm
Hey, you had sex when you thought it was best for you. I don't see anything to regret or feel ashamed of.
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Posted: Sun Sep 20, 2009 3:51 pm
Well I'll tell you now and I've have several girlfriends and I'm glad I did not give them my v-card because of who they turned out to be when I really thought about it.
the girl now, Izzy, I wish we were together so I can give her the presents I've been holding onto for her, one of which is the card a few people desire.
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Posted: Mon Sep 21, 2009 11:40 am
Wish_on_a_Cloud Jarc_The_Mighty Mauricios ok so...i belive this guild is called virgin PRIDE for a reason....and that reason is that the virgins who are here are proud of being so and think waiting for wichever reasons they might have be it religious,moral, political(?) is the right thing and so do i im 21 and virgin not cuz i cant get laid but because i dont want to, and i dont feel like its something i should get over whit and thats it, i has many members of the guild think in making love not having sex is the right thing to do, at least for your first time You forget, though, many people look at the Virgin in the name and not the Pride. Many individuals in here are virgins but are ashamed or feel left out. I am proud myself, but one of the major causes in my depression is that I look back and see that I'm not a virgin because I said no, but because there wasn't really anyone to say yes... i agree, i am proud that i've waiting an that im not a slag XD but really no-ones ever asked me either, sure ive had bfs an if i was really desperate for it i could have probs got them to have sex with me XD but i havnt, now however it isn't really a major choice, just a phobia of the consequences XD lol im not ashamed by any means to be a virgin, however no-one in my circle of friends knows that i am a virgin (hypocrite i know razz ) sometimes i think in society these days its easier to just let people think you are having sex than to correct them that you're not. when i first went to college i told a girl i was a virgin an she was absolutly shocked (probs cos im also very dirty minded but pfft razz ) so ive found it easier just to let ppl think what they like. i guess that doesn't make me sound very proud lol sweatdrop The only times I've been asked were from girls who didn't even know me that well. Hell, one I had just met! But those were few and far between, and I don't count them since they didn't know me. I want someone I know to ask me, I dare someone I know to ask me, because none of them will. All those girls know me...so why would they waist their time? Lol, but your story reminded me of the girl I'm currently after, Brittney. She has one of the dirtiest minds I have ever seen! I mean, I'm bad, but she awes me at times. She was raised by a bunch of men who are as sick as can be and she picked it all up. I mean, my supervisor never stops talking about sex, and she makes him look like a four year old. Funny thing about all this is she's also a virgin. She's actually so used to all the joking that sex has become a joke to her. Hell, her jokes can get really bad, but she has a personality that makes it seem a lot lighter than it really is. Only person I've ever met that I can be around and never not be completely happy...and I'm really depressing!...
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