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 Posted: Wed Nov 23, 2005 10:33 pm
The world we live in is often a very unbearable world at that. The day to day trials that we face everyday can become overbearing, so I thought I would make a place where people who are having problems can come to seek spiritual comfort and help.
Although God is always there for His people as Peter5:7 says" Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you." it is often nice to talk to other people about our troubles as well as to God.
So here ya go talk about whatever is troubling you at the moment or just come and give comfort and advice to those who may need it.
PLEASE BE CONSIDERATE OF EVERYONE'S FEELINGS!
~Thanks~
*~Nicole~*
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Posted: Thu Nov 24, 2005 6:14 am
Hmm,Im sure everyone has stuff thats going on,so i wont complain,but im glad to help anyone that needs it
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Posted: Fri Nov 25, 2005 8:52 pm
Heh... I'd like opinions and help on this....
I can't find a church, cause of a few reasons.
1. I'm 16, and almost 23 weeks pregnant. But I often look only 15. I don't wear makeup, I don't wear dresses, and I often wear baggy mens clothes. I dress that way because something happened when I was 4, and although I don't really remember it I'm scared it will happen again so I make myself look like a guy. Anyway, As soon as most people in my area see me, they see I'm pregnant, see the way I dress, and somehow manage to label me a slut. I'm not a slut, I had a jerk of a boyfriend, and couldn't bring myself to abort cause it's too much like throwing gods work back in his face.
2. I have burns, and cuts, on my arms because I was depressed. I used to cut myself and burn myself with cigarettes at school and things like that, because I lost my dad, and was going through a bad time where I needed a dad. Anyway, when I go to a church, they see the marks and scars, and are revolted and disgusted. They turn away and tell me I'm not worth God's love because I'm a slut and a whore.
What am I supposed to do? I want to go to church cause I love God, even though I have only recently returned to my faith. But I keep getting kicked out, and I'm scared that if I don't attend church, I won't get to heaven.
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Posted: Fri Nov 25, 2005 9:22 pm
xXxcrimson_tearsxXx Heh... I'd like opinions and help on this....
I can't find a church, cause of a few reasons.
1. I'm 16, and almost 23 weeks pregnant. But I often look only 15. I don't wear makeup, I don't wear dresses, and I often wear baggy mens clothes. I dress that way because something happened when I was 4, and although I don't really remember it I'm scared it will happen again so I make myself look like a guy. Anyway, As soon as most people in my area see me, they see I'm pregnant, see the way I dress, and somehow manage to label me a slut. I'm not a slut, I had a jerk of a boyfriend, and couldn't bring myself to abort cause it's too much like throwing gods work back in his face.
2. I have burns, and cuts, on my arms because I was depressed. I used to cut myself and burn myself with cigarettes at school and things like that, because I lost my dad, and was going through a bad time where I needed a dad. Anyway, when I go to a church, they see the marks and scars, and are revolted and disgusted. They turn away and tell me I'm not worth God's love because I'm a slut and a whore.
What am I supposed to do? I want to go to church cause I love God, even though I have only recently returned to my faith. But I keep getting kicked out, and I'm scared that if I don't attend church, I won't get to heaven. ok you go to a screwed up chruch to tell u that. where u live and i could fine a good church for u. as for everything else tell them it is not or man to judge me but for my father god to do so
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Posted: Sat Nov 26, 2005 3:13 am
Bluegender Fan45 xXxcrimson_tearsxXx Heh... I'd like opinions and help on this....
I can't find a church, cause of a few reasons.
1. I'm 16, and almost 23 weeks pregnant. But I often look only 15. I don't wear makeup, I don't wear dresses, and I often wear baggy mens clothes. I dress that way because something happened when I was 4, and although I don't really remember it I'm scared it will happen again so I make myself look like a guy. Anyway, As soon as most people in my area see me, they see I'm pregnant, see the way I dress, and somehow manage to label me a slut. I'm not a slut, I had a jerk of a boyfriend, and couldn't bring myself to abort cause it's too much like throwing gods work back in his face.
2. I have burns, and cuts, on my arms because I was depressed. I used to cut myself and burn myself with cigarettes at school and things like that, because I lost my dad, and was going through a bad time where I needed a dad. Anyway, when I go to a church, they see the marks and scars, and are revolted and disgusted. They turn away and tell me I'm not worth God's love because I'm a slut and a whore.
What am I supposed to do? I want to go to church cause I love God, even though I have only recently returned to my faith. But I keep getting kicked out, and I'm scared that if I don't attend church, I won't get to heaven. ok you go to a screwed up chruch to tell u that. where u live and i could fine a good church for u. as for everything else tell them it is not or man to judge me but for my father god to do so
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Posted: Sat Nov 26, 2005 5:52 pm
xXxcrimson_tearsxXx Heh... I'd like opinions and help on this....
I can't find a church, cause of a few reasons.
1. I'm 16, and almost 23 weeks pregnant. But I often look only 15. I don't wear makeup, I don't wear dresses, and I often wear baggy mens clothes. I dress that way because something happened when I was 4, and although I don't really remember it I'm scared it will happen again so I make myself look like a guy. Anyway, As soon as most people in my area see me, they see I'm pregnant, see the way I dress, and somehow manage to label me a slut. I'm not a slut, I had a jerk of a boyfriend, and couldn't bring myself to abort cause it's too much like throwing gods work back in his face.
2. I have burns, and cuts, on my arms because I was depressed. I used to cut myself and burn myself with cigarettes at school and things like that, because I lost my dad, and was going through a bad time where I needed a dad. Anyway, when I go to a church, they see the marks and scars, and are revolted and disgusted. They turn away and tell me I'm not worth God's love because I'm a slut and a whore.
What am I supposed to do? I want to go to church cause I love God, even though I have only recently returned to my faith. But I keep getting kicked out, and I'm scared that if I don't attend church, I won't get to heaven. Wow, I am so sorry for what you are going through at the moment. I wish I could help you find a church where no one would look down on you, but there will always be people who will judge you only by your outward appearance. I would suggest going to the preacher or other leaders of a church and talking to them about your problems before attending. I do not know all the details of your problems, but it sounds like you have been hurt greatly by people you love and because of it you have done things that you maybe shouldn't have and even may now regret. Explain this to them as well as how you are sorry for what has happened and how you are not what you appear to be. I do not believe that you have to go to Church inorder to go to heaven, if it is not possible, because it is God who has already chosen us and nothing we do on earth that brings us to heaven. I do believe it is important to go to a church that preaches the truest manifestation of the truth and not jsut one that will change the word of God so that people will hear what they want to hear. The church I go to has a website www.prca.org you can check it out if you want to. Always remember that all things work together for the good of God's own people, and even though it doesn't seem like it right now God never leaves His people or forsakes them. Romans 8:28 "And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose."
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Posted: Sat Nov 26, 2005 8:53 pm
xXxcrimson_tearsxXx Bluegender Fan45 xXxcrimson_tearsxXx Heh... I'd like opinions and help on this....
I can't find a church, cause of a few reasons.
1. I'm 16, and almost 23 weeks pregnant. But I often look only 15. I don't wear makeup, I don't wear dresses, and I often wear baggy mens clothes. I dress that way because something happened when I was 4, and although I don't really remember it I'm scared it will happen again so I make myself look like a guy. Anyway, As soon as most people in my area see me, they see I'm pregnant, see the way I dress, and somehow manage to label me a slut. I'm not a slut, I had a jerk of a boyfriend, and couldn't bring myself to abort cause it's too much like throwing gods work back in his face.
2. I have burns, and cuts, on my arms because I was depressed. I used to cut myself and burn myself with cigarettes at school and things like that, because I lost my dad, and was going through a bad time where I needed a dad. Anyway, when I go to a church, they see the marks and scars, and are revolted and disgusted. They turn away and tell me I'm not worth God's love because I'm a slut and a whore.
What am I supposed to do? I want to go to church cause I love God, even though I have only recently returned to my faith. But I keep getting kicked out, and I'm scared that if I don't attend church, I won't get to heaven. ok you go to a screwed up chruch to tell u that. where u live and i could fine a good church for u. as for everything else tell them it is not or man to judge me but for my father god to do so i just don't understand people
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Posted: Tue Nov 29, 2005 4:05 pm
xXxcrimson_tearsxXx Bluegender Fan45 xXxcrimson_tearsxXx Heh... I'd like opinions and help on this....
I can't find a church, cause of a few reasons.
1. I'm 16, and almost 23 weeks pregnant. But I often look only 15. I don't wear makeup, I don't wear dresses, and I often wear baggy mens clothes. I dress that way because something happened when I was 4, and although I don't really remember it I'm scared it will happen again so I make myself look like a guy. Anyway, As soon as most people in my area see me, they see I'm pregnant, see the way I dress, and somehow manage to label me a slut. I'm not a slut, I had a jerk of a boyfriend, and couldn't bring myself to abort cause it's too much like throwing gods work back in his face.
2. I have burns, and cuts, on my arms because I was depressed. I used to cut myself and burn myself with cigarettes at school and things like that, because I lost my dad, and was going through a bad time where I needed a dad. Anyway, when I go to a church, they see the marks and scars, and are revolted and disgusted. They turn away and tell me I'm not worth God's love because I'm a slut and a whore.
What am I supposed to do? I want to go to church cause I love God, even though I have only recently returned to my faith. But I keep getting kicked out, and I'm scared that if I don't attend church, I won't get to heaven. ok you go to a screwed up chruch to tell u that. where u live and i could fine a good church for u. as for everything else tell them it is not or man to judge me but for my father god to do so Gurl wink , when I hear what you are going through I can tell you one thing...God has never left you, he sees your problems and he knows what you are going through. If you remeber all the things that happened to you in the past , all those issues that you never thought you would make it through...who was there to tell you that your suffering was over!! When those people at church judge you then you need to gather the strength God gave you...walk up to your pastor or preacher and ask him to make it know what you are going through....if your pastor doesn't allow it, you do it yourself. The best thing to do is not stress. Jesus are savior went through the worst times ever. But never once did he complain talk2hand . Some christians may believe that what you do and how you act will change Gods Judgement of you. Those people don't know the lord as well as they think....He made you he knew these things would happen to you even before you were born...This is his plan for you..So live the plan and don't let anyone or anything tell you God will hate you or not waste his time with you....HE NEVER SAID ANYTHING IN HIS WORDS ABOUT HATING HIS CREATIONS sorry I got carried away but yeah....oh yeah I am a junior pastor....hehe
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Posted: Fri Dec 02, 2005 5:29 am
I have fallen in love with a christian girl, and i wish to ask her to marry me, but I don't know what to do. should I reamain faithful my religion and her or convert completely to presbaterian? I don't know what to do and i do not wish to lose her, some one please for once in my life... HELP ME.
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Posted: Sat Dec 03, 2005 10:31 pm
Rev. Malice I have fallen in love with a christian girl, and i wish to ask her to marry me, but I don't know what to do. should I reamain faithful my religion and her or convert completely to presbaterian? I don't know what to do and i do not wish to lose her, some one please for once in my life... HELP ME. it says in our bilbe not to get yolked with unbeilevers. so yea converting could help. and its not a dramadic change in your life.
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Posted: Mon Dec 05, 2005 6:47 am
Bluegender Fan45 Rev. Malice I have fallen in love with a christian girl, and i wish to ask her to marry me, but I don't know what to do. should I reamain faithful my religion and her or convert completely to presbaterian? I don't know what to do and i do not wish to lose her, some one please for once in my life... HELP ME. it says in our bilbe not to get yolked with unbeilevers. so yea converting could help. and its not a dramadic change in your life. How would it not be a dramatic change in my life?
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Posted: Mon Dec 05, 2005 6:48 pm
Rev. Malice Bluegender Fan45 Rev. Malice I have fallen in love with a christian girl, and i wish to ask her to marry me, but I don't know what to do. should I reamain faithful my religion and her or convert completely to presbaterian? I don't know what to do and i do not wish to lose her, some one please for once in my life... HELP ME. it says in our bilbe not to get yolked with unbeilevers. so yea converting could help. and its not a dramadic change in your life. How would it not be a dramatic change in my life? Good point. you may not be able to do it. but try as hard as you can to do it. bro i'd love to break bread with you in heaven
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Posted: Tue Dec 06, 2005 7:04 am
I love her and would be willing to do anything for her but should I betray the ones who are my friend after all I did take an oath.
Man I am so confussed as to what to do.
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Posted: Tue Dec 06, 2005 3:36 pm
Brother you shouldn't have to change your religion if you do not want to. There is nothing in God's word that says you should switch what you believe in order to please others. But, if you feel as if you should convert go ahead but its not a good idea....no pressure
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Posted: Tue Dec 06, 2005 8:02 pm
Rev. Malice I love her and would be willing to do anything for her but should I betray the ones who are my friend after all I did take an oath. Man I am so confussed as to what to do. bro be with your brothers and show them the light ((you can pray for forgiveness, lord knows without it i'd be so screwed))
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