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 Posted: Mon Dec 05, 2005 6:59 pm
Wow these last few months have given me much time to ponder this. What is love.
Who is deserving of it, and why is it so painfull when the ones you love refuse to love you back.
Any insight you can give me in my quest for understanding and knowledge of love is much appreciated.
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Posted: Mon Dec 05, 2005 8:34 pm
Tylithar Wow these last few months have given me much time to ponder this. What is love. Who is deserving of it, and why is it so painfull when the ones you love refuse to love you back. Any insight you can give me in my quest for understanding and knowledge of love is much appreciated. I think that love is a very individual experince. what's expected from it is just as different. Can someone really deserve love? or possibly those of us that have felt it must less have it should be eternally thankful to thier gods/goddesses/fate. Maybe the pain comes from ecpecting your love coming back at you and being let down.(which in love being let down is big) I hope I helped you man.
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Posted: Mon Dec 05, 2005 10:39 pm
True love is something that all deserve, few find, and fewer understand.
But it is also something that we all strive for, it is the one key in life that makes everything worth while, the only truely pure emotion, that is when truely expressed, as some decieve to get the ends they desire, and use love as the leverage to obtain that end.
In some odd sense we will all probably come across our "True Love" in every lifetime the fact of the matter is knowing how to recognize it, and seizing the point no matter the physical or mental pain it inflicts.
No I am not saying go out and forcfully grab the first one that catches your eye, what I'm saying is to take the initial steps, then and slowly work into the details, love is not something to be rushed, it can wait an eternity, it all depends on you and the one mate that you desire.
love is so strong of an emotion that some will do very stupid things to acheive it, and others will simply go insane if they do not aquire the "Holy Grail" shall we say, the ultimate prize, the one that will love you as long as you love it. Love is also the only the only thing that you can make as much of it as you want, whenever you want.
Just remember in the end most things will never turn out exactly to plan and must be coped with, but if successfull things will turn out all right in the end.
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Posted: Tue Dec 06, 2005 11:46 am
You guys are great. Some wise insight has been givenand i hope for more if any of you have it but to zzang and flazryu thank you.
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Posted: Tue Dec 06, 2005 8:02 pm
I think "one sided love" is not even real love its just stupid thats when you lust em.......because last time I started to believe in one sided love is when there was this guy madly inlove with this chick but later he just went pssshh whatever i got a new girl.....I laughed because I was right yay me...and i was really disapointed in myself for falling for it...believe in one sided love Psssh lol...
LUST ISN"T JUST SEX ITS WERE YOU WANT THEM REALLY REALLY BADLY WHICH CAN MEAN BOYFRIEND GIRLFRIEND LOVER HUSBAND WIFE FRIEND.....see...lol
lol
I LOATH YOU
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Posted: Tue Dec 06, 2005 8:06 pm
xp As you can tell Im not a big believer in love xp
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Posted: Tue Dec 06, 2005 8:53 pm
SaDiSTiC-DiNK xp As you can tell Im not a big believer in love xp well we are. as you should know Kyle and I are not like other guys and neither is Tylithar I've known him a link time so be nice Dink
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Posted: Wed Dec 07, 2005 8:01 am
"To love and to hold till death do us part."
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Posted: Wed Dec 07, 2005 11:02 am
~zzang~ SaDiSTiC-DiNK xp As you can tell Im not a big believer in love xp well we are. as you should know Kyle and I are not like other guys and neither is Tylithar I've known him a link time so be nice Dink I know you know Tylithar and I know I know him too but im not very fond of him at the moment so...yea....
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Posted: Wed Dec 07, 2005 11:16 am
Love sucks, it only comes when you are with a gay guy who is insensitive...I should know... it hurts and nothing you can do about it. Damn you love!
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Posted: Wed Dec 07, 2005 11:19 am
fudgemonkeygir Love sucks, it only comes when you are with a gay guy who is insensitive...I should know... it hurts and nothing you can do about it. Damn you love! warning this is not going to make any since but "Thats life but what you choose to do with it is love (or hate)"
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Posted: Thu Dec 08, 2005 2:27 pm
You say that you know me and you say that love my love is one sided. You know nothing of my pain or anguish in love. You say that it is only lust. HA. When you fall in love or have someone fall madly in love with you then maby you will understand what it is that I feel. To love somone and not have them love you back is the greatest pain ever. To watch them slip out of you fingers because you loved somone else before them is even harder. But the hardest thing is to know that your first love was never meant for you and when you let go have someone who was infatuated with you disown you emotionaly. Dink you may know me by name but you know nothing of my pain.
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Posted: Thu Dec 08, 2005 4:59 pm
Tylithar You say that you know me and you say that love my love is one sided. You know nothing of my pain or anguish in love. You say that it is only lust. HA. When you fall in love or have someone fall madly in love with you then maby you will understand what it is that I feel. To love somone and not have them love you back is the greatest pain ever. To watch them slip out of you fingers because you loved somone else before them is even harder. But the hardest thing is to know that your first love was never meant for you and when you let go have someone who was infatuated with you disown you emotionaly. Dink you may know me by name but you know nothing of my pain. hmmm......you say this to me like i've never ever felt misery before....you...man...really.....this is stupid....blah blah blah she doesn't love me blah blah blah.....you know what......you dont love her because you gave up on her....and..you'll never have her.....you'll only have her in your nightmares ....lol.....and you know why... nevermind your not worth my time
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Posted: Thu Dec 08, 2005 6:36 pm
You say that i gave up but you are incorect. I think i finally know why you are so angry with me. I did not give up but like you said she does not love me. So i decided to quit with the whole sit and wait thing. LOL. You think that i gave up but at the time that i told you that being with someone else was paramount to giving up in my mind it was. Since then i have realized that my only allies in ever being with her are hope,honesty, and patience. You may be jealous or not i realy dont know but to be jealous of me would be foolhardy. Up untill recently my life was a jumble of pain and growing. I do understand that you have probably felt much misery in your life. However The difference between us is that you enjoy to put others in misery if you can, and hurting people is one of my greatest fears. Just as i dont understand your pain you do not understand mine. I am sorry if i put you through any pain. I do love her and have rebuilt my beliefs on waht giving up are. Just because you only lust after others does not mean that all are the same as you. Which is something i am thankfull for every day.
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Posted: Fri Dec 09, 2005 12:58 pm
lol xp I'll see .....i'll...see just wait 20 to 50 years....oh and just to tell you im mad at you not because of jealouy.......thats just hillarous......a tid bit of information the world does not revole around you.......deal with it
And I dont get satisfaction out of other people misery but I do get satisfation out of justice for those who have done wrong you may mistake that for misery but I say it justice...
Also deary this just shows you know nothing about me....I cant lust for others for I am asexual
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