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 Posted: Sun Mar 14, 2010 6:29 pm
Okay so back story...Not going too much into detail here, because it's not important anymore. Anyway my ex boyfriend made outwith someone that used to be my friend at a school dance two years ago. Flash Forward My current boyfriend called me all upset, and the next one of my friends told me that he kissed another girl. Okay. What makes this worse is that I'm finding this out three days after our one year anniversary of being together, but whatever... and then to take it one more step into the red zone, he kissed the same girl that my ex boyfriend did. Apparently she paraded around and told everybody but me, and then got mad at my friend for telling me. Anyway a lot of people that I know think that I should "Dump his a**" because I "don't need to keep going through s**t like this." But for the next three nights after it happened he called me on the phone crying, and he was like that for a good 45 minutes. One of my friends and I think that he is generally sorry. He said "I kissed her in the heat of the moment. it wasn't planned and it wasn't expected. i liked it but i love u and ur kisses so much more im so sorry for doing it i regretted it wen it happened." My question is HE WAS AT THE MALL WITH HER, WHAT COULD THEY POSSIBLY BE DOING THAT LEADS UP TO THIS?! Also... He Sid that he would have regretted not doing it, and he told me that he had at least a weeks worth of stuff to feel bad about (I still don't know what this is... Do I even want to know?)... I don't know what to do. I think he is sorry, I think he means what he says, but I also have a strong feeling it will happen again. This one hurts a lot more than the last one, because I ACTUALLY REALLY LIKED THIS ONE... And well, this keeps happening to me. Who knew my best friend really wasn't such a "decent guy." Well to anyone who cares enough to read this, what do you think I should do?
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Posted: Sun Mar 14, 2010 6:42 pm
If he said he would have regretted not kissing her that is a big red flag. And having a weeks worth of regret is another huge red flag. This girl is obviously a slut so let him have her. She probably has an STD. And I'm not joking. He is most likely acting so he can control and keep you. No one deserves that. And if you think it will happen again then it most likely will. It's sad, but it is very hard to find a good man.
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Posted: Sun Mar 14, 2010 8:08 pm
Aakosir If he said he would have regretted not kissing her that is a big red flag. And having a weeks worth of regret is another huge red flag. This girl is obviously a slut so let him have her. She probably has an STD. And I'm not joking. He is most likely acting so he can control and keep you. No one deserves that. And if you think it will happen again then it most likely will. It's sad, but it is very hard to find a good man. No. What's sad is that he was my best friend before I ever told him I liked him. None of his friends or my friends expected this from him.
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 12:14 pm
zee33 The Jedi Ninja Aakosir If he said he would have regretted not kissing her that is a big red flag. And having a weeks worth of regret is another huge red flag. This girl is obviously a slut so let him have her. She probably has an STD. And I'm not joking. He is most likely acting so he can control and keep you. No one deserves that. And if you think it will happen again then it most likely will. It's sad, but it is very hard to find a good man. No. What's sad is that he was my best friend before I ever told him I liked him. None of his friends or my friends expected this from him.
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 2:23 pm
Aakosir zee33 The Jedi Ninja Aakosir If he said he would have regretted not kissing her that is a big red flag. And having a weeks worth of regret is another huge red flag. This girl is obviously a slut so let him have her. She probably has an STD. And I'm not joking. He is most likely acting so he can control and keep you. No one deserves that. And if you think it will happen again then it most likely will. It's sad, but it is very hard to find a good man. No. What's sad is that he was my best friend before I ever told him I liked him. None of his friends or my friends expected this from him. I guess we'll see what happens.
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 9:10 pm
zee33 The Jedi Ninja Aakosir zee33 The Jedi Ninja Aakosir If he said he would have regretted not kissing her that is a big red flag. And having a weeks worth of regret is another huge red flag. This girl is obviously a slut so let him have her. She probably has an STD. And I'm not joking. He is most likely acting so he can control and keep you. No one deserves that. And if you think it will happen again then it most likely will. It's sad, but it is very hard to find a good man. No. What's sad is that he was my best friend before I ever told him I liked him. None of his friends or my friends expected this from him. I guess we'll see what happens.
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Posted: Tue Mar 16, 2010 3:31 pm
Aakosir zee33 The Jedi Ninja Aakosir zee33 The Jedi Ninja Aakosir If he said he would have regretted not kissing her that is a big red flag. And having a weeks worth of regret is another huge red flag. This girl is obviously a slut so let him have her. She probably has an STD. And I'm not joking. He is most likely acting so he can control and keep you. No one deserves that. And if you think it will happen again then it most likely will. It's sad, but it is very hard to find a good man. No. What's sad is that he was my best friend before I ever told him I liked him. None of his friends or my friends expected this from him. I guess we'll see what happens. Yeah... She had a girlfriend. (Who dumped her recently.) Why did she need to go after my boyfriend in the first place?
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Posted: Tue Mar 23, 2010 4:40 pm
hes worth it if hes sorry or not doesnt matter he did what he did and its not worth the stress
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Posted: Tue Mar 23, 2010 6:01 pm
Because she's a skank... that's what skanks do. xD
So is he. I would suggest dumping him.
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Posted: Thu Mar 25, 2010 10:46 pm
wow man thats so messed up. But what I would like to know is who kissed who first... A weeks worth of stuff to feel bad about that set off a HUGE red flag. And I dont know if hes sorry or if hes sorry that he got caught.Any ways what you should do I would follow my heart. If you love the guy and are hell bent on staying with him then do that but if you are having doubts about him then leave take a break =/
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Posted: Sat Mar 27, 2010 9:26 am
Seems like that b***h is out to sabotage you. >.<
I know a year long relationship is a lot to throw away, but if he said he would have regretted kissing her, who's to say he won't regret not kissing the next girl he's hanging out with alone? or the one after that?
Idk, if it was me, I wouldn't be so trusting but that's just me.
(Actually if I was in your shoes I'd now be ready to open a giant can of whoop-a** on that little skank because sounds like she needs it).
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