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FReaKRaveR

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PostPosted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 1:38 pm


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Okay heres the deal....
I posted a profile on this dating site... met and chatted with a few girls.
Met and still chatting with a few girls here, on Gaia...
Anyways...
This girl contacted me, added me to MSN... We chatted and then all of a sudden she was like, "I HAVE to me you!" "I'm going to drive to your city this weekend" (Which is 1.5 hours away from where she lives)
I'm thinking; Whoa! Way too fast!
So she kind of pushed me into a date... in a city halfway between where we live.
And I don't really know how to deal with this... like do I go through with it? Do I cancel?

P.S. She is quite pretty.

P.P.S. I also have a crush on a nice young lady, yet she does not live in the same province as me icon_sweatdrop.gif

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PostPosted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 3:50 pm


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Told her i was uncomfortable meeting her so soon, and she blocked me!
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PostPosted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 10:37 pm


She sounds immature (at the very least) and you're probably better off not having met her in person. Good choice of action.
PostPosted: Fri Sep 10, 2010 5:17 pm


She sounded pretty immature to me, and/or someone who was desperate to be in a relationship. But whatever happens in the future, don't do something you are uncomfortable with. If someone ants to meet you and you think it is too soon, tell them that. If they get mad at you for that, then they aren't the right person for you.

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