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Sai_Cheez-it

PostPosted: Fri Sep 17, 2010 9:27 am


Ok so everyone says i'm Lesbian but i'm Bi. The reason they say i'm Lesbian is cause I would never f**k a guy or Bj a guy. Basically nothing physical with a guy unless its Kissing. But i'm attractive to guys, like i would date a guy but nothing physical. Does that make me a Lesbian?
PostPosted: Fri Sep 17, 2010 10:09 pm


Well, that's where sexuality becomes confusing to us. All of us. For the most part, it can get frustrating not finally coming to terms with who we are, and that's where we really begin to question ourselves concerning our gender.

First of all, do you not like being called a "lesbian"? I myself don't really like using it to describe myself, since in my experience, it often comes with bad stereotypes by the ignorant people that surround me. >>"

But anyways, to answer your question, I think that you're Bi still, but more like.. 80% leaning towards girls and 20% towards guys. I mean, if you think that there's a chance that you would have a serious relationship with a guy, then I guess you could be Bi. There are some gay/lesbian people though, that wouldn't mind having a partner of the opposite sex if it was the "right" person.

Aaahh.. The confusions caused by sexuality. I probably didn't help much, did I? sweatdrop

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PostPosted: Sat Sep 18, 2010 10:09 am


Your a biromantic homosexual...I think. Since you wouldn't have sex with a guy, but you are attracted to guys.

I am a biromantic A-sexual. I would never want to have sex, but there are some people of both genders I think are SO sexy...
PostPosted: Sat Sep 18, 2010 10:49 am


Maki - it bother me a lil wen ppl call me a lesbian cause i don't want ppl to think i am and then if i end up dating a guy have them start rumors about me. that what happen to my Ex but she deserved it. but you did help me i'm glad you did. And it is all confusing cause idk who I am to.. Life is just frustrating crying

Pinapplepielady- whats Biromantic homosexual i never heard of that.!

Sai_Cheez-it


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 23, 2010 10:22 am


Honestly, I can understand your scenario pretty well. I'm basically the same way, cept I'm a guy. I have no problems mooning over hot guys or kissing one, but sex? Nuh-uh. Women, I approach normally.

It can be pretty confusing. But I guess I'm a biromantic hetero.

So nice to meetcha.

As far as dealing with people who love labels, as long as YOU know who you are, the rest is just spitting in the ocean to see if it comes back. So good for you to know where you stand.
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