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 Posted: Sat Jul 02, 2011 3:41 pm
What I'm about to say is my fault and now I'm clueless about how to fix it.
I'm 14 and a friend(?) of mine I know likes me. On the last day of school the teachers basically turned us loose and turned on a bunch of different movies to keep us occupied. I wanted to get him to admit he liked me so I went to his homeroom and asked him flat-out. He said we were just friends. (I did not believe him.)
I stayed and watched the movie that was on and we ended up sitting next to each other and we kept scooting closer and we ended up holding hands. This happened at various times throughout the day although he never actually said he likes me. Then school ended and now I don't know what to do.
I don't know if I like him "that way" but now I'm positive I did the wrong thing and really should have thought that through more as the thrill of the chase was not worth it.
So now I've been sitting here for the first two weeks pulling my hair out about what to do, if I should do anything, and I decided posting this here is better than going bald. Any thoughts?
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Posted: Sat Jul 02, 2011 4:24 pm
Well, it doesn't sound like this kid was totally led on, thinks you're an official couple now, and calls you every day or anything like that. So it doesn't sound like you did anything wrong or like you have to do anything about it now.
It's ok to hold hands with people, even if you're not an official couple or even if you don't like each other in a romantic way. I used to hold hands with a couple of my guy friends in high school, even though we were nothing more than friends.
It's ok to ask someone if they like you too. Obviously there are times when asking may not be appropriate or when it might make things awkward, but there are certainly times when it's ok and when it can clear things up.
If he does end up calling, coming over, or acting like you're couple when you go back to school in the fall, then just be honest. Let him know that you don't like him like that, or that you need time to think about it, or however you feel. Just be nice about it. Otherwise, I see no reason to worry or beat yourself up over it.
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Posted: Sat Jul 02, 2011 4:40 pm
Thanks a bundle! What you said was right, he isn't calling me or anything really. Sorry for freaking a little, and thanks again! heart
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Posted: Sun Jul 03, 2011 8:01 pm
I did something like this with my current Girlfriend.. We've been together for six months.. longest relationship too.. I acted like I wasn't interested and she tried too as well, but I knew she wanted me. I slowly allowed things to become more personal and walla... When I act like I am not interest or I really am not.. the ladies then seem to come after me... It's the only effective way for me to hook up with someone..
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Posted: Mon Jul 04, 2011 12:23 pm
Heh. A friend of my does the same thing. (Only she's a girl.) For her it's more of he gets her to like him. Well, then maybe it's not the same...
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Posted: Tue Jul 05, 2011 9:04 pm
SK233 Thanks a bundle! What you said was right, he isn't calling me or anything really. Sorry for freaking a little, and thanks again! heart Glad to hear it worked out in the end. biggrin
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