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 Posted: Tue Apr 10, 2012 12:58 am
so every off and on for the past two weeks I've been having dreams about my ex. I really liked this guy when we first met and if anyone remembers about my post many years ago, you might remember when I said that he took off with my best friend.
They did break up, because he found out she only wanted to marry him for money. (he's still in the military.) So he turned around got married to someone else and expecting their first child. But before he married this girl about 2 years ago maybe day before Valentines Day he calls me, and apologizes for putting me through all the pain. I accepted this apology because I needed to move on, not only that, he never ever admits that he's wrong. He told me that I was very special and that I needed to find someone who wouldn't treat me like s**t and treat me how a girl friend is supposed to be treated....after that we went our own ways.
After two years later. My dreams about him started to come up, but the thing is they always pertain to something. He was in submarines when we were together and I dreamed that he was back on one. They next day I saw this post on yahoo.com about women being able to go on submarines, and it reminded me of some conversations we used to have about it.
Then maybe 3 months later I started to dream about him again except, All I could hear was his voice, telling me about his new life. I didn't feel angry I just sat down and listened and enjoyed on what he was telling me, two nights ago I dreamed that we were laying in bed together. There was nothing sexual about it but he kept talking to me and again I didn't feel angry or upset. But towards the end of it all, it made me miss him.
So I checked his facebook, and looked at his new life and he looks happy. (really really chunky now) but happy.
And with someone new in my life, I'm trying my best not to compare him to anyone. Especially my ex, there might be just a smudge of my ex in him but I see right through it. I want Justin to be my Justin...were still working on getting into a relationship since both of our cars are out of service. So it kind of turned into a long distant relationship in the same town (dumb I know, I want to do something about that.)
But what do I do about these dreams? The last thing I want to do is go and try and get a hold of my ex and make my dreams into reality. (don't worry I'm not going to do that.) But I'm so lost. sweatdrop
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Posted: Tue Apr 10, 2012 10:10 am
I have dreams about people all the time. Some of them are sexual or romantic dreams about exes, or about people that I haven't seen in years, or even about close relatives. It certainly doesn't mean that I am in love with those people, that I want to have sex with them, that I should bring them back in my life, etc. Dreams can just be random, weird, and seemingly meaningless sometimes. Although if you're stressed out, thinking about something a lot, or weirded out by a dream, you're more likely to keep dreaming about it! So I wouldn't do anything if I were you. I would just chalk it up to a random dream that probably sort of repeated since it got you thinking about it.
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