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 Posted: Tue Jul 10, 2012 11:29 pm
So a good friend of mine that I've known for about 10 years kind of started giving me hints that he was starting to like me.
I was being blind, and stupid...I thought it was friends, but all of a sudden he started to hold my hands, opening car doors for me and just doing all of this amazing sweet things to me. So one day I fell asleep on his bed and he held me but his hands were starting to go for my boobs. I was kind of shocked but I just let him and I didn't say anything..The second time it happened it seemed like he wanted to kiss me but I couldn't come to my senses to kiss him. I was nervous and really shy and all he could say was sorry...now. Stupid me, about a few weeks later I'm figuring it all out, and I'm starting to fall for him hard. Problem is I think he gave up...another reason I didn't do anything was because
1. He just got out of a 5 year relationship and I've been out of a relationship for 5 years
2. I was recently mistreated by a guy..which shouldn't affect the way I feel about the guy I like but it just does.
3. As much as I want to be in a relationship the thought of loving someone kind of scares me. But that's something I should get over.
4. I feel like I just lost my shot with someone I care about more than ever.
I don't know what to do anymore. He won't answer my texts and I don't want to seem obsessive by calling him. I'm stuck and I feel like crap. I want him in my arms again more than ever.
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Posted: Thu Jul 12, 2012 9:03 pm
miss_cool_danielle So a good friend of mine that I've known for about 10 years kind of started giving me hints that he was starting to like me. I was being blind, and stupid...I thought it was friends, but all of a sudden he started to hold my hands, opening car doors for me and just doing all of this amazing sweet things to me. So one day I fell asleep on his bed and he held me but his hands were starting to go for my boobs. I was kind of shocked but I just let him and I didn't say anything..The second time it happened it seemed like he wanted to kiss me but I couldn't come to my senses to kiss him. I was nervous and really shy and all he could say was sorry...now. Stupid me, about a few weeks later I'm figuring it all out, and I'm starting to fall for him hard. Problem is I think he gave up...another reason I didn't do anything was because 1. He just got out of a 5 year relationship and I've been out of a relationship for 5 years 2. I was recently mistreated by a guy..which shouldn't affect the way I feel about the guy I like but it just does. 3. As much as I want to be in a relationship the thought of loving someone kind of scares me. But that's something I should get over. 4. I feel like I just lost my shot with someone I care about more than ever. I don't know what to do anymore. He won't answer my texts and I don't want to seem obsessive by calling him. I'm stuck and I feel like crap. I want him in my arms again more than ever. I think you either need to call him or meet him in person and just tell him like it is. If he still has a thing for you and or really cared for you, he might just be like, "Your totally worth it" Or something maybe more respectable.
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Posted: Thu Jul 12, 2012 11:24 pm
And that's the thing I'm so nervous about telling him..I called him today asked him if he would be willing to do a road trip in a few months and that was it. My mind couldn't comprehend losing him...and I'm a type of girl who just goes and says it like it is. which is really really bad. It's gotten me in trouble quite a few times.
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Posted: Sat Jul 14, 2012 2:47 pm
miss_cool_danielle And that's the thing I'm so nervous about telling him..I called him today asked him if he would be willing to do a road trip in a few months and that was it. . And what was his answer on this? Inviting him to something may give him a hint or a sign that you may have a deeper interest in him. I think that was a good idea on your part. Maybe towards the end of the trip, you could ask him?
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Posted: Sat Jul 14, 2012 9:28 pm
Ya, I thought so too. I mentioned going out to eat something today. But he's a night owl because of work at the hospital and doesn't wake up til three and I had to go to work at three...so that was a problem...boo.
We don't talk everyday because he's constantly busy and so am I...but I still think it's worth it.
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