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Posted: Tue Mar 08, 2005 1:22 pm
Whatever you need advice on, please come to the whomping willow for advice and we'll all try to help you out the best that we can.
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Posted: Wed May 04, 2005 6:49 pm
Well, here goes nothing: I am still in high school about to go to collage and there's really only one thing "wrong" with my life - lack of one. I'm never invited to parties and have few friends. While in comparison with some other people this may seem like a petty problem, I think it's a petty problem too! That doesn't make it hurt any less, however, when I get hurt and have no one to talk to.
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Posted: Sun Jun 19, 2005 4:24 pm
Sweet Insanity Well, here goes nothing: I am still in high school about to go to collage and there's really only one thing "wrong" with my life - lack of one. I'm never invited to parties and have few friends. While in comparison with some other people this may seem like a petty problem, I think it's a petty problem too! That doesn't make it hurt any less, however, when I get hurt and have no one to talk to. I guess I can relate to you on that one -- I don't have many friends, but I still live a decent life because I stick to those few. Just because it's a petty problem doesn't mean it doesn't hurt -- size isn't a matter sometimes! All I can say is that if you don't have many friends and you feel like you're left out, then live life your own way! Maybe if you try breaking the ice and talk to those people, it will work out. Instead of waiting for them to talk to you, try asking them if you can join them. Of course, don't forget those few friends you have! That's just my two cents - I was bored.
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Posted: Tue Jun 28, 2005 10:29 am
TVBfan125 Sweet Insanity Well, here goes nothing: I am still in high school about to go to collage and there's really only one thing "wrong" with my life - lack of one. I'm never invited to parties and have few friends. While in comparison with some other people this may seem like a petty problem, I think it's a petty problem too! That doesn't make it hurt any less, however, when I get hurt and have no one to talk to. I guess I can relate to you on that one -- I don't have many friends, but I still live a decent life because I stick to those few. Just because it's a petty problem doesn't mean it doesn't hurt -- size isn't a matter sometimes! All I can say is that if you don't have many friends and you feel like you're left out, then live life your own way! Maybe if you try breaking the ice and talk to those people, it will work out. Instead of waiting for them to talk to you, try asking them if you can join them. Of course, don't forget those few friends you have! That's just my two cents - I was bored. Thanks for your advice, but it seems against my nature. Oh well, maybe I'll make more friends later in life.
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Posted: Fri Aug 12, 2005 11:43 am
Sweet Insanity Well, here goes nothing: I am still in high school about to go to collage and there's really only one thing "wrong" with my life - lack of one. I'm never invited to parties and have few friends. While in comparison with some other people this may seem like a petty problem, I think it's a petty problem too! That doesn't make it hurt any less, however, when I get hurt and have no one to talk to. You say you're going in to collage soon so I reckon that you should just be confident and bubbley and you'll make lots of new friends in no time.
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Posted: Thu Feb 09, 2006 7:28 pm
Well here goes.
I've been having a hard time with all my relationships. I guess I've been miserable for quit a while. I've been losing friends left and right, and I say I don't give a ********, but I do. I just...want someone to give a s**t, and it seems like nobody does. All I ever have is me.
People constantly say I'm selfish. But I'm far from it. I give more than I take, I only take when someone else is giving to me. I can't take what's not given. But it seems everyone else has the ability to take and never give. Perhaps they're the selfish ones afterall.
People continue to hurt me. All emotionally of course. They always tell me theres something wrong with me. Too obsessive, too possessive, too everything. I'm too loving, too caring. People don't ever mention those last too though. That's because the love and caring that I give out, isn't always what people want. You can't always have what you want I guess right?
I'm lonely beyond belief. There's people I wish I still had in my life to make the pain go away. But I can't rely on anyone anymore.
So what do I do, when all is lost, and what I want, cannot be found. Love can't be found. Someone who cares, someone who wants to pay me attention. Someone who gives a s**t about how I feel. Like I use to have, but I ruined that a long time ago, because I've changed. I'm not the same person I use to be. So I ask you, what do I do, when I have nobody but me, and nothing but pain to breathe?
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Posted: Sat Mar 25, 2006 10:35 am
Somechick_73 (slightly edited for word choise) Well here goes. I've been having a hard time with all my relationships. I guess I've been miserable for quit a while. I've been losing friends left and right, and I say I don't give a filp, but I do. I just...want someone to give something, and it seems like nobody does. All I ever have is me. People constantly say I'm selfish. But I'm far from it. I give more than I take, I only take when someone else is giving to me. I can't take what's not given. But it seems everyone else has the ability to take and never give. Perhaps they're the selfish ones afterall. People continue to hurt me. All emotionally of course. They always tell me theres something wrong with me. Too obsessive, too possessive, too everything. I'm too loving, too caring. People don't ever mention those last two though. That's because the love and caring that I give out, isn't always what people want. You can't always have what you want I guess right? I'm lonely beyond belief. There's people I wish I still had in my life to make the pain go away. But I can't rely on anyone anymore. So what do I do, when all is lost, and what I want, cannot be found. Love can't be found. Someone who cares, someone who wants to pay me attention. Someone who cares about how I feel. Like I use to have, but I ruined that a long time ago, because I've changed. I'm not the same person I use to be. So I ask you, what do I do, when I have nobody but me, and nothing but pain to breathe? Thought One: Make new friends - simple, yet true. "How do I go about this?" you ask yourself. By joining teams, and clubs, book groups, etc. You might not be able to play a sport or get out much (for whatever reason), but you may be able to find a book group that meets every month or so. Or, you might be able to help out at a retirment community by talking with the resdents. If you're not religous, then you might want to think about going to the meeting place of the faith that you feel comferable with - you'll meet lots of people of all kinds, and get involved in a huge community. Thought Two: You say you've lost a lot of friends reasently. Why not try and talk to those people? You say that people say that you're selfish - however, that could be a smoke screan. People sometimes make exucses like that when they are hurting for a reason that may or may not consern you. Considering that I'm speaking as a person that only knows you over the web, these thoughts may or may not be useful. I hope that they are, and you find what you're looking for.
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Posted: Fri Jun 09, 2006 10:20 pm
I try making new friends, but I lose more than I gain these days. I don't have the strength to keep doing this. It's not working for me when nobody wants to stick around. I'm starting to seriously hate people. It's like everyones assholes. crying
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Posted: Sat Jul 08, 2006 2:31 pm
Well, everyone is out for themselves and only themselves. OTher then what I have said before, I don't know what to tell you, but I hope that everything works out.
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Posted: Sun Jul 09, 2006 12:48 am
Grammar Freak Well, everyone is out for themselves and only themselves. OTher then what I have said before, I don't know what to tell you, but I hope that everything works out. It's finally working out, more or less. Though I did lose a friend a couple nights ago, whcih I'm disappointed about, but I'll get over it.
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Posted: Sun Jul 09, 2006 8:13 am
YAY!!!! There is finally some people in here.
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Posted: Sun Jul 09, 2006 5:17 pm
Somechick_73 Grammar Freak Well, everyone is out for themselves and only themselves. OTher then what I have said before, I don't know what to tell you, but I hope that everything works out. It's finally working out, more or less. Though I did lose a friend a couple nights ago, whcih I'm disappointed about, but I'll get over it. That sucks about losing your friend, but are you sure that they're gone for good? Well, if they are, then it's no big loss - at least some things are looking up! heart Don't worry, all will try out well in the end. sweet_nikki2 YAY!!!! There is finally some people in here. Yeah, I know - it's a miracle right? eek Hopefully, if we can keep the guild active, more people will join and others will be more active too! whee
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Posted: Tue Jul 11, 2006 1:04 pm
Somechick_73 Grammar Freak Well, everyone is out for themselves and only themselves. OTher then what I have said before, I don't know what to tell you, but I hope that everything works out. It's finally working out, more or less. Though I did lose a friend a couple nights ago, whcih I'm disappointed about, but I'll get over it. It's working out? Congrats then ^^
Ah, I've been lurking a lot on the Internet, so I wasn't so active. But I was reading this and I thought I'd just put congratulations down ...
... I mean, I'm no good with giving advices. Especially if I'm in a bit of a ... mess ... myself. But my mess is just a small, teenage-angst sorta mess. It goes away and comes back anyway.
Stinks that you lost a friend though - but mostly friends come and go. I mean, if they are really your friend [one of those that actually stick without you putting tape on them, figuratively], they'll come around eventually. ::shrugs:: People need the time to sit and think and come around, if they choose to ... well I hope yours do ^^
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Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 5:05 pm
After posting this (see quote) in one of the other forums, I realized that I had a problem on my hands. I know that Chirstmas is long time in coming, I should get have some idea of what I want ot give him, that way I have plently of time to make something, or save money, or whatever.I My boyfriend plays guitair. He's good, but he's self-taught, so there's still a lot he doesn't know. Do you think I should get him a book on it for Chirstmas? Maybe music would be better - I don't want to give him a book that's way above his head, or one that's really simple... Gah - gift giving is confusing... So, about my boyfriend: We met while we were both on a high school robotics team. He's at uiniversity to be an engineer. We have a long distance relationship thing goin' on. He has blue eyes, creamy clear pale skin, and a shaggy mop of dirty blonde hair that curls at the end. He love cats, ferrets, hadgehogs, and fat dogs that act like cats. He acts like a playful, yet lazy kitty at times. (I'm thinking of getting/making some cat toys as a gag gift, but I need a real one too.) He love games like Half-Life and Civilization. He loves to drink tea in big, cermanic mugs. He plays gutair. Won't read anything but Ray Bradbury (and he has all the books!).
For my part, I can: Draw a little. Knit. Make stained glass. Black and white photography. (I was thinking about taking some pictures of where we had our first date, and framing them in a crazy glass frame.)
Ideas?
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Posted: Mon Sep 28, 2009 3:41 am
Grammar Freak After posting this (see quote) in one of the other forums, I realized that I had a problem on my hands. I know that Chirstmas is long time in coming, I should get have some idea of what I want ot give him, that way I have plently of time to make something, or save money, or whatever.I My boyfriend plays guitair. He's good, but he's self-taught, so there's still a lot he doesn't know. Do you think I should get him a book on it for Chirstmas? Maybe music would be better - I don't want to give him a book that's way above his head, or one that's really simple... Gah - gift giving is confusing... So, about my boyfriend: We met while we were both on a high school robotics team. He's at uiniversity to be an engineer. We have a long distance relationship thing goin' on. He has blue eyes, creamy clear pale skin, and a shaggy mop of dirty blonde hair that curls at the end. He love cats, ferrets, hadgehogs, and fat dogs that act like cats. He acts like a playful, yet lazy kitty at times. (I'm thinking of getting/making some cat toys as a gag gift, but I need a real one too.) He love games like Half-Life and Civilization. He loves to drink tea in big, cermanic mugs. He plays gutair. Won't read anything but Ray Bradbury (and he has all the books!).
For my part, I can: Draw a little. Knit. Make stained glass. Black and white photography. (I was thinking about taking some pictures of where we had our first date, and framing them in a crazy glass frame.)
Ideas? All of those things you can do sound like good ideas. Can draw him a picture, can take pics of the place you had your first date and all kindsa stuff.
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