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Malibu Island

PostPosted: Sat Nov 18, 2006 11:47 am


There is this girl on MSN called Sam and she is such a slut and totally not the type I would go for, but she seems to have some kind of irritating crush on me. Sometimes as soon as I sign in she talks to me, and sometimes I'll already be on, and she'll sign in, and I won't start up a conversation, then she'll "sign in" again, and again, and again, and then after about 20 seconds of the string of signing in she'll start up a conversation with me like "heya", and then asks me all these questions about my day, always using that annoying tongue-sticking out smiley where you key in : P ; know the one I mean?
Eugh I hate her, and she keeps leaving comments on my MySpace as well. The worst thing is I feel horrible to not be polite to her, so I'm plagued to have to tell her what I did in my day, and then ask her what she did in her day as if I care or something.

Discuss flirtation when you don't want it.
PostPosted: Sat Nov 18, 2006 11:53 am


Well...If she really annoys you that much why don't you block her?

Outside The In Crowd


Malibu Island

PostPosted: Sat Nov 18, 2006 12:12 pm


Trezcatcatl
Well...If she really annoys you that much why don't you block her?
I have done in the past, but I feel so mean for it. XD I'm too nice.
PostPosted: Sat Nov 18, 2006 12:19 pm


Malibu Island
Trezcatcatl
Well...If she really annoys you that much why don't you block her?
I have done in the past, but I feel so mean for it. XD I'm too nice.

well, stop

Forgotten_Martyr


Outside The In Crowd

PostPosted: Sat Nov 18, 2006 1:05 pm


Malibu Island
Trezcatcatl
Well...If she really annoys you that much why don't you block her?
I have done in the past, but I feel so mean for it. XD I'm too nice.
Well stop being so nice! If she really is as much of a slut as you say she is you are better off without her bugging you all the time. And she won't know. Unless she has blocker alert...
PostPosted: Sat Nov 18, 2006 4:09 pm


What you're doing is wrong. neutral You need to tell her how you really feel about her. You say you're such a nice guy, but you're doing the wrong.

Golden Wisp


Forgotten_Martyr

PostPosted: Sat Nov 18, 2006 5:18 pm


wii the people
What you're doing is wrong. neutral You need to tell her how you really feel about her. You say you're such a nice guy, but you're doing the wrong.

nintendo's right; be honest 3nodding
PostPosted: Sat Nov 18, 2006 9:43 pm


i know exactly what that's like, except i feel this way towards most people. not just girls that flirt with me, but just people that just get on my nerves, but because of my being drilled with Manners and all that, i can't just "tell them." i have to "be [********] nice." so... you should.... become a hermit eventually.

Take0


Multi-Coloured Cake

PostPosted: Sun Nov 19, 2006 12:43 am


I hate people who won't leave you alone on MSN. They make me unhappy. sad Anyways... I just block them. And then when you ask why you're never online, I tell them I got banned or something. Works like a charm.

And in my opinion you arent doing anything wrong. You just don'tfeel that you know how to cope with this girls attentions. Just block her. You don't have to tell her anything.
PostPosted: Sun Nov 19, 2006 2:55 am


I think I agree with most people said. Sometimes in order to be nice, you have to be mean. I know your trying to be polite, but it would be better to put her our of her misery and tell her your just not interested, or just block her.

I had this guy who would leave his MSN on all day. Everytime I logged on, he would talk to me, but he would ask some questions and then ask the same questions five minutes later scream It drove me insane, so I just blocked him, he then asked and I said that I don't use MSN anymore. Then, he asked the same question again and I just replied "Cause your frikkin' annoying..." and haven't heard from him since.

I also sign in as "Appear Offline", so there is people I don't want to talk to, I can block them then appear online, or just log off and do something else.

At the end of the day, you can't let some people control of you, you have to control your own actions as well.

Alienkabalien
Crew


cookiemun5tr
Crew

PostPosted: Mon Nov 20, 2006 5:43 pm


I would say the same as everyone else, but you being too nice, why not just tell her? It would be horrible if you just waited, it makes her think you like her back, then, just to find out that you don't. Can't you imagine how horrible it would be for her?
PostPosted: Mon Nov 20, 2006 5:44 pm


How old is she? Seems as if she has a childish crush on you, and is looking for your attention. Either that or she's just childish. Either tell her to back off or block her, simple as that.

And you forgot the Chesire cat. I'm not happy about that. mad

Kitty390


Cougar Draven

PostPosted: Tue Nov 21, 2006 5:59 am


I don't do MSN. I rarely do AIM anymore, because I have the same type of problem with my ex-girlfriend. I occasionally enjoy her company, but very now and them, the "stupid whore" gene starts up, and it drives me nuts.

I recommend heavy clubs.

Or just telling her to shut the hell up, and blocking her. If you need help with either of these, a quick drink of alcohol has been known to lower inhibitions, and as such, bolster confidence.
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