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Take0

PostPosted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 6:29 pm


a sociology question... why is it socially acceptable to give a smoker a hard time about smoking and it's okay to tell them off and s**t about smoking, but when it comes to telling an fat person to stop getting fat it's cruel and mean? i mean, both are extremely bad for you, but only one of them is okay to do.... i know you can't tell a fat person to stop being fat, but you can tell them to stop eating so much and to exercise a little. just wondering what you guys think.

i got this from a documentary i saw and am wondering what you guys think about it....
PostPosted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 8:17 pm


Didn't I dislike this post in ED already?

I was pretty sure we had all agreed that you should just stay the ******** out of other peoples business, especially when it only affects their own bodies.

Also, the documentary was Supersize Me.

Tzeentch The Mutator
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Take0

PostPosted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 8:28 pm


Leomund
Didn't I dislike this post in ED already?

I was pretty sure we had all agreed that you should just stay the ******** out of other peoples business, especially when it only affects their own bodies.

Also, the documentary was Supersize Me.


umm.... nope. didn't get your post... and god damn it, all you people are hopeless.... it's not about being fat and that. it's about bothering people for being unhealthy and their unhealthy habits..... *sighs* is everyone on gaia really this short-sighted? you're not getting the idea and apparently you didn't read all the posts since there are a lot of people that agree with me that it should be okay to bother fat people just like it's okay to bother smokers....
PostPosted: Mon Dec 04, 2006 1:41 am


Take0
Leomund
Didn't I dislike this post in ED already?

I was pretty sure we had all agreed that you should just stay the ******** out of other peoples business, especially when it only affects their own bodies.

Also, the documentary was Supersize Me.


umm.... nope. didn't get your post... and god damn it, all you people are hopeless.... it's not about being fat and that. it's about bothering people for being unhealthy and their unhealthy habits..... *sighs* is everyone on gaia really this short-sighted? you're not getting the idea and apparently you didn't read all the posts since there are a lot of people that agree with me that it should be okay to bother fat people just like it's okay to bother smokers....
It shouldn't be "okay" to bother smokers. It shouldn't be okay to bother anyone for what they do with their body. It's their body and their choice, and other people need to stay the ******** out of it regardless of what that choice is. Get it?

A smoker knows the risks. He or she has them thrown at him constantly. He or she is stigmatized in many places. He or she is restricted from smoking indoors entirely in public. He or she has a warning on the label of every package of cigarettes bought. The smoker is well aware of what's happening within his or her body, and either doesn't care, can't break the addiction, or has benefits that outweigh the risks. For whatever reason, it's none of your business.

An overweight person knows the risks. He or she is stigmatized by society and the media. He or she is insulted, and often has a hard time buying clothes. He or she may or may not have health problems, and likely has tried and failed to lose weight. Either he or she doesn't care about health risks, or is healthy despite his or her weight and sees no reason to change it. For whatever reason, it is not your body and not your choice. Worry about yourself and leave other people the ******** alone.

And in case you didn't get it:

Other peoples' habits, healthy or not, are none of your goddamned business. What they do with their bodies is not your business. Stay out of it.

In other words, grow the ******** up and get out of your little "Let's help them kick the habit/get in shape!" Disney mindset.

Calixti


Tzeentch The Mutator
Crew

PostPosted: Mon Dec 04, 2006 8:21 am


The Indubitable Katie-Kat


Other peoples' habits, healthy or not, are none of your goddamned business. What they do with their bodies is not your business. Stay out of it.


That's actually what I was aiming at in my post. Pretty concisely what I was thinking.
PostPosted: Mon Dec 04, 2006 6:46 pm


The Indubitable Katie-Kat
Take0
Leomund
Didn't I dislike this post in ED already?

I was pretty sure we had all agreed that you should just stay the ******** out of other peoples business, especially when it only affects their own bodies.

Also, the documentary was Supersize Me.


umm.... nope. didn't get your post... and god damn it, all you people are hopeless.... it's not about being fat and that. it's about bothering people for being unhealthy and their unhealthy habits..... *sighs* is everyone on gaia really this short-sighted? you're not getting the idea and apparently you didn't read all the posts since there are a lot of people that agree with me that it should be okay to bother fat people just like it's okay to bother smokers....
It shouldn't be "okay" to bother smokers. It shouldn't be okay to bother anyone for what they do with their body. It's their body and their choice, and other people need to stay the ******** out of it regardless of what that choice is. Get it?

A smoker knows the risks. He or she has them thrown at him constantly. He or she is stigmatized in many places. He or she is restricted from smoking indoors entirely in public. He or she has a warning on the label of every package of cigarettes bought. The smoker is well aware of what's happening within his or her body, and either doesn't care, can't break the addiction, or has benefits that outweigh the risks. For whatever reason, it's none of your business.

An overweight person knows the risks. He or she is stigmatized by society and the media. He or she is insulted, and often has a hard time buying clothes. He or she may or may not have health problems, and likely has tried and failed to lose weight. Either he or she doesn't care about health risks, or is healthy despite his or her weight and sees no reason to change it. For whatever reason, it is not your body and not your choice. Worry about yourself and leave other people the ******** alone.

And in case you didn't get it:

Other peoples' habits, healthy or not, are none of your goddamned business. What they do with their bodies is not your business. Stay out of it.

In other words, grow the ******** up and get out of your little "Let's help them kick the habit/get in shape!" Disney mindset.


okay now, before i get offended i need to know if you actually mean "me" specifically or the people that live by the disney mindset?

Take0


Calixti

PostPosted: Tue Dec 05, 2006 12:30 am


Take0
okay now, before i get offended i need to know if you actually mean "me" specifically or the people that live by the disney mindset?
Let's see, judging from your OP, you're one of the morons stuck in the Disney mindset, so it's very much directed at you.

Get offended. Go ahead. Then realize you have no ******** business telling people what they can and can't do with their bodies.
PostPosted: Tue Dec 05, 2006 8:51 pm


The Indubitable Katie-Kat
Take0
okay now, before i get offended i need to know if you actually mean "me" specifically or the people that live by the disney mindset?
Let's see, judging from your OP, you're one of the morons stuck in the Disney mindset, so it's very much directed at you.

Get offended. Go ahead. Then realize you have no ******** business telling people what they can and can't do with their bodies.


you're so short sighted.... why are you assuming that i want to tell off fat people? all you bitches think that that's the point i'm trying to make.... bunch of dumb bitches..... if a person wants to ******** up themselves that i don't care.... the thing i'm trying to say is WHY are smokers bothered but fat people aren't???? nevermind..... there's no hope.... you're all retarded. just burn in hell.... and for the last time.... i have nothing against fat people so get that out of your little ignorant assuming conclusion jumping little ******** mind.... stare

Take0


Calixti

PostPosted: Wed Dec 06, 2006 10:43 pm


Take0
The Indubitable Katie-Kat
Take0
okay now, before i get offended i need to know if you actually mean "me" specifically or the people that live by the disney mindset?
Let's see, judging from your OP, you're one of the morons stuck in the Disney mindset, so it's very much directed at you.

Get offended. Go ahead. Then realize you have no ******** business telling people what they can and can't do with their bodies.


you're so short sighted....
I'M short-sighted? You're the one why says overweight people aren't stigmatized.
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why are you assuming that i want to tell off fat people?
Go reread your OP.
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all you bitches think that that's the point i'm trying to make....
I fail to see the relevance my mom's dog has. She's the only b***h around here. She's ceratinly not the one talking to you, and doesn't seem to have an opinion on smoking. So nope, no "bitches" here.
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bunch of dumb bitches.....
Wow, my finger is REALLY itching to hit the report button. Flaming's a violation of the ToS, honeycakes.
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if a person wants to ******** up themselves that i don't care....
And yet your OP seems to say differently. Also, I belived I already addressed how they may not be "******** themselves up."
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the thing i'm trying to say is WHY are smokers bothered but fat people aren't????
Do you live under a rock? You must, to think there's no stigma attached to being overweight.
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nevermind.....
So you concede and admit you're an idiot, then?
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there's no hope....
Nope. Not for you, definitely.
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you're all retarded.
Actually, I'm quite intelligent, but I fail to see the relevance.

At least I know where the "Shift" and "Enter" keys are, sweetheart.
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just burn in hell....
No such thing, silly boy! biggrin
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and for the last time....
Thank your nonexistant diety.
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i have nothing against fat people
Your OP certainly disagrees.
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so get that out of your little ignorant assuming conclusion jumping little ******** mind.... stare
Reported. I don't like being flamed, kiddo.
PostPosted: Thu Dec 07, 2006 9:43 pm


The Indubitable Katie-Kat
Take0
The Indubitable Katie-Kat
Take0
okay now, before i get offended i need to know if you actually mean "me" specifically or the people that live by the disney mindset?
Let's see, judging from your OP, you're one of the morons stuck in the Disney mindset, so it's very much directed at you.

Get offended. Go ahead. Then realize you have no ******** business telling people what they can and can't do with their bodies.


you're so short sighted....
I'M short-sighted? You're the one why says overweight people aren't stigmatized.
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why are you assuming that i want to tell off fat people?
Go reread your OP.
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all you bitches think that that's the point i'm trying to make....
I fail to see the relevance my mom's dog has. She's the only b***h around here. She's ceratinly not the one talking to you, and doesn't seem to have an opinion on smoking. So nope, no "bitches" here.
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bunch of dumb bitches.....
Wow, my finger is REALLY itching to hit the report button. Flaming's a violation of the ToS, honeycakes.
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if a person wants to ******** up themselves that i don't care....
And yet your OP seems to say differently. Also, I belived I already addressed how they may not be "******** themselves up."
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the thing i'm trying to say is WHY are smokers bothered but fat people aren't????
Do you live under a rock? You must, to think there's no stigma attached to being overweight.
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nevermind.....
So you concede and admit you're an idiot, then?
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there's no hope....
Nope. Not for you, definitely.
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you're all retarded.
Actually, I'm quite intelligent, but I fail to see the relevance.

At least I know where the "Shift" and "Enter" keys are, sweetheart.
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just burn in hell....
No such thing, silly boy! biggrin
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and for the last time....
Thank your nonexistant diety.
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i have nothing against fat people
Your OP certainly disagrees.
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so get that out of your little ignorant assuming conclusion jumping little ******** mind.... stare
Reported. I don't like being flamed, kiddo.


aww, so sad crying . can't take an insult? weren't you the one that wanted to offend me??? i don't see how i gave you the hint th at i wanted to insult fat people. and how about instead of talking about my petty cuss words you actually place an argument on the issue at hand. you made it personal, so i added the insults, but just like most people on gaia, you fail to see the argument i made past the little technicalities. flaming is a violation my a**.... like anyone really cares? only a real big baby would report getting flamed. you're so childish. of course, my arguments would be easy to refute when you take them sentence by sentence instead of all of it at once. and so now i ask you, so that hopefully you'll say something about the topic, why shouldn't i bother smokers or fat people?

Take0


Calixti

PostPosted: Thu Dec 07, 2006 10:19 pm


Take0
aww, so sad crying . can't take an insult? weren't you the one that wanted to offend me???
Yes, on the basis that in my experince people who are offended eventually think about how stupid they are. You obviously don't. And I didn't report you for flamine me, I reported you because your pitiful little flame seemed directed at anyone who opposes you.
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i don't see how i gave you the hint th at i wanted to insult fat people.
Let's see... "Why isn't it acceptable to insult fat people?" Pretty clear.
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and how about instead of talking about my petty cuss words you actually place an argument on the issue at hand.
I did. Go back and read it, if you're capable of that. Or did I offend you when I told you to mind your own business? rolleyes
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you made it personal, so i added the insults, but just like most people on gaia, you fail to see the argument i made past the little technicalities.
Here you are failing at logic again. You never even responded to my arguements, never even ATTEMPTED to, you resorted straight to flaming.
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flaming is a violation my a**....
Yup, a violation of the ToS.
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like anyone really cares?
I do, when people ignore my arguements in favour of flaming me. The mods do. So, yeah.
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only a real big baby would report getting flamed. you're so childish.
Argumentum ad hominem. Attacking me instead of my arguement. Generally, this is a sign that you have no response, and it's usually better to concede so you don't look like a fool.
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of course, my arguments would be easy to refute when you take them sentence by sentence instead of all of it at once.
I'm an EDer. Do you know what "debate" is? It's when you take someone's arguement and refute it. Point. By. Point. 'Kay?
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and so now i ask you, so that hopefully you'll say something about the topic, why shouldn't i bother smokers or fat people?
Because, as I already said, they're informed of the risk and it's none of your damned business what they do with their bodies. But that's not the original question, which was, "Why is it okay to bother fat people and not smokers?" to which my answer, which you ignored, was it's not okay to bother either and you're a moron stuck in the Disney mindset if you actually think fat people aren't stigmatized by society.
PostPosted: Fri Dec 08, 2006 11:17 pm


The Indubitable Katie-Kat
Take0
aww, so sad crying . can't take an insult? weren't you the one that wanted to offend me???
Yes, on the basis that in my experince people who are offended eventually think about how stupid they are. You obviously don't. And I didn't report you for flamine me, I reported you because your pitiful little flame seemed directed at anyone who opposes you.
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i don't see how i gave you the hint th at i wanted to insult fat people.
Let's see... "Why isn't it acceptable to insult fat people?" Pretty clear.
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and how about instead of talking about my petty cuss words you actually place an argument on the issue at hand.
I did. Go back and read it, if you're capable of that. Or did I offend you when I told you to mind your own business? rolleyes
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you made it personal, so i added the insults, but just like most people on gaia, you fail to see the argument i made past the little technicalities.
Here you are failing at logic again. You never even responded to my arguements, never even ATTEMPTED to, you resorted straight to flaming.
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flaming is a violation my a**....
Yup, a violation of the ToS.
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like anyone really cares?
I do, when people ignore my arguements in favour of flaming me. The mods do. So, yeah.
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only a real big baby would report getting flamed. you're so childish.
Argumentum ad hominem. Attacking me instead of my arguement. Generally, this is a sign that you have no response, and it's usually better to concede so you don't look like a fool.
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of course, my arguments would be easy to refute when you take them sentence by sentence instead of all of it at once.
I'm an EDer. Do you know what "debate" is? It's when you take someone's arguement and refute it. Point. By. Point. 'Kay?
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and so now i ask you, so that hopefully you'll say something about the topic, why shouldn't i bother smokers or fat people?
Because, as I already said, they're informed of the risk and it's none of your damned business what they do with their bodies. But that's not the original question, which was, "Why is it okay to bother fat people and not smokers?" to which my answer, which you ignored, was it's not okay to bother either and you're a moron stuck in the Disney mindset if you actually think fat people aren't stigmatized by society.


okay.... you still haven't given me a reason not to make fun of fat people? and you're still just making assumptions from questions that i want too. who said i want to? i just want to know why you think i shouldn't, or why it's wrong for me.... or why i shouldn't be allowed to.

Take0


Tzeentch The Mutator
Crew

PostPosted: Sat Dec 09, 2006 5:34 am


Take0
The Indubitable Katie-Kat
Take0
aww, so sad crying . can't take an insult? weren't you the one that wanted to offend me???
Yes, on the basis that in my experince people who are offended eventually think about how stupid they are. You obviously don't. And I didn't report you for flamine me, I reported you because your pitiful little flame seemed directed at anyone who opposes you.
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i don't see how i gave you the hint th at i wanted to insult fat people.
Let's see... "Why isn't it acceptable to insult fat people?" Pretty clear.
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and how about instead of talking about my petty cuss words you actually place an argument on the issue at hand.
I did. Go back and read it, if you're capable of that. Or did I offend you when I told you to mind your own business? rolleyes
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you made it personal, so i added the insults, but just like most people on gaia, you fail to see the argument i made past the little technicalities.
Here you are failing at logic again. You never even responded to my arguements, never even ATTEMPTED to, you resorted straight to flaming.
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flaming is a violation my a**....
Yup, a violation of the ToS.
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like anyone really cares?
I do, when people ignore my arguements in favour of flaming me. The mods do. So, yeah.
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only a real big baby would report getting flamed. you're so childish.
Argumentum ad hominem. Attacking me instead of my arguement. Generally, this is a sign that you have no response, and it's usually better to concede so you don't look like a fool.
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of course, my arguments would be easy to refute when you take them sentence by sentence instead of all of it at once.
I'm an EDer. Do you know what "debate" is? It's when you take someone's arguement and refute it. Point. By. Point. 'Kay?
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and so now i ask you, so that hopefully you'll say something about the topic, why shouldn't i bother smokers or fat people?
Because, as I already said, they're informed of the risk and it's none of your damned business what they do with their bodies. But that's not the original question, which was, "Why is it okay to bother fat people and not smokers?" to which my answer, which you ignored, was it's not okay to bother either and you're a moron stuck in the Disney mindset if you actually think fat people aren't stigmatized by society.


okay.... you still haven't given me a reason not to make fun of fat people? and you're still just making assumptions from questions that i want too. who said i want to? i just want to know why you think i shouldn't, or why it's wrong for me.... or why i shouldn't be allowed to.


Okay, you're still confused, we keep saying you don't have the right to ridicule ANYONE ever. Be they smokers, fat people, gays, midgets, or anything else. Ever.
PostPosted: Thu Dec 21, 2006 11:41 pm


Take0
a sociology question... why is it socially acceptable to give a smoker a hard time about smoking and it's okay to tell them off and s**t about smoking, but when it comes to telling an fat person to stop getting fat it's cruel and mean? i mean, both are extremely bad for you, but only one of them is okay to do.... i know you can't tell a fat person to stop being fat, but you can tell them to stop eating so much and to exercise a little. just wondering what you guys think.

i got this from a documentary i saw and am wondering what you guys think about it....

Fat is PART of you. It's not something you put on in the morning and take off at night. It's not even classifiable as a behavior, because "getting fat" and "being fat" are two different things.

Smoking on the other hand, is something you do that's not attached to you. If you were to pull the cigarette out of a smoker's hand, you'd be pulling away an object, not a PART OF THEM.

Additionally, many smokers don't get badmouthed or treated poorly because they smoke.

So, don't simply say "omg fat people are horrible and should know about it" simply because fat people KNOW that they're fat, and they have to live with that for their whole lifetime of fatness.

People who smoke? When they're not smoking, no one knows that they're smoking unless they reek of tobacco, and during the cold season, even that can be hidden because of stuffy noses.

A smoker will always be accepted if he or she is not smoking.

A fat person will still be stigmatized and treated badly.

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PostPosted: Wed Dec 27, 2006 12:19 pm


It's really just the way the human mind works. We all know smoking is bad for you. And honestly, stupid people make those choices to smoke,a nd continue smoking. But on the other hand, portly people, don't really have a choice in the matter. Some do, but most don't. Some people are born that way. And it is indeed rude to call people fat, obese, etc.
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