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 Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 5:04 pm
I havent told many people, that I know. For some reason I feel much more comfortable talking with complete strangers about my sexuality than my good friends. My best friend dosent know.... Im afraid that she wont treat me like she does now if she finds out. T-T but I kinda just want to be open about it.
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Posted: Sun Feb 04, 2007 7:37 pm
Most of my friends know. it wasn't very hard to tell them, since I was far from the first person in my group of friends to come out.
My family doesn't know, though they suspect it. I mostly haven't told them because I don't really know how to bring it up. ("Oh, by the way, mum, I like girls!" doesn't seem very tactfull) I'm probably going to wait until I actually have a girlfriend before telling them.
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Posted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 7:22 pm
Never underestimate the power of tactlessly throwing things out there. You can't proceed if you don't step (regardless of whether that step be a tap or a stomp).
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Posted: Thu Feb 08, 2007 7:41 pm
I have never came out. None of my friends nor my family knows about my sexuality. I probably won't tell them. Maybe some things are best kept untold.
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Posted: Sat Feb 10, 2007 7:32 am
I havent told my parents either. Some people know in my school and they hate me. Its very hurtfull but at least I have some people i talk with.
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Posted: Sun Feb 11, 2007 9:00 am
^^;; I don't think I'm going to come out in high school. I'm not *completely 100% sure* and besides that, I'm going to a highly biased and potentially unsafe school.
My friends know I'm bisexual,and because I still have occasional feelings for boys that what I'm considering myself, but I'm not so sure I could ever see myself in a lasting relationship.
The GLBT population of my entire high school is about 7. Out of.... 3000 or something. sucks. so, maybe in college.
My parents are still blissfully unaware but my sibings might be catching on. And my 8th grade science teacher knew before I did, I think. She has gaydar like WTF.
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Posted: Sun Feb 11, 2007 5:38 pm
Yeah, but I hadn't intended it.
My parents actually stumbled across my cellphone and I hadn't deleted the text messages I sent my girlfriend.
So yeah, rawr.
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Posted: Tue Aug 07, 2007 5:02 am
i im 1/2 out...all my friends now and most accepted me...
but cause im still in high skol and my rents will tink its jus a phase im not gonna come out to my fam..but does any1 hve tips on it cause i dont jus wanna be eating dinner one day and say "hey guess wat im gay...do yah wanna meet my gf!!" but im tryin to hide my letters to my friends about me being gay... sweatdrop
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Posted: Tue Aug 07, 2007 5:59 am
Uki21 i im 1/2 out...all my friends now and most accepted me...
but cause im still in high skol and my rents will tink its jus a phase im not gonna come out to my fam..but does any1 hve tips on it cause i dont jus wanna be eating dinner one day and say "hey guess wat im gay...do yah wanna meet my gf!!" but im tryin to hide my letters to my friends about me being gay... sweatdrop Gently Mention to you parents that you find guys ditasteful... then a few days later remind them about the conversation, and *nudge nudge* ask them their views on Lesbians and Bisexuals. If their response is a good, happy positvish one, then let it out in the open. If that responce is a good one, tell them that you have a girlfriend, and you would like them to meet her.
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Posted: Tue Aug 07, 2007 6:01 am
My very best friend knows, my mother found my cell phone also, and she flipped on me, so i had to get a fake b/f (who is my best friend that knows) and she still thinks i am 100% Les. but let her be that way...
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Posted: Tue Aug 07, 2007 8:49 am
I am out, and it is okay with most people other than my mom who keeps on trying to tell me its a phase.
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Posted: Tue Aug 07, 2007 9:40 am
My philosophy is that you can come out to anyone that cares about you unless they show homophobic tendencies.
Well, that's how I see it in my case. ^^; I'm only out to my siblings and close friends. My parents and other extended family wouldn't understand because the morals they grew up with are not the same as the morals the newer generation has grown up with. They have reformed in some ways, but on the subject of sexuality they are very strait-lace and conservative.
My friends and siblings are very open-minded and have expressed that they will accept me however I am, which I am very fortunate and grateful for. <3
I really wish I could come out to my parents because in me, I know I am keeping a part of me away from them, which isn't right because I'm very close to my parents. But if I do, I risk losing everything important to me and it isn't worth it.
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Posted: Tue Aug 07, 2007 10:08 am
Hhhmm, my mom suspects, my dad doesn't.
My sister seems to not like gay people at all. -_-'
The only ones that know are some of my friends.
But like my family doesn't know.
And I know they would be ok with it.
Because I hear my mom talk about it,
and she told me about my dad if he
would of had a gay son that he
would be disappointed but he would
love him no matter what.. though sometimes..
he does like to make fun of gay people.... -_-'
Lately I've been thinking that my mom could be bi. >.>
My sis, well, she says she thinks gays are disgusting,
and I say the same thing, just so they don't find out.
I don't want things to get awkward between my family....
errr.... its just too weird.
Since, I don't usually find a lot of bi, lesbian Mexicans....
And I don't want people my race to know either...
I dont know what Im afraid of, or if its just too weird...
but I want to be open about it, but every time I try..
the idea just scares me.
The only Mexican that I know thats bi, which is the one I fell in love with...
is one of my friends, which we aren't so much friends anymore cause some stuff happen... that sometimes I think I regret...
But anyway yeah, most of my friends know. >.>
My family doesn't but mom seems to suspect it.
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Posted: Tue Aug 07, 2007 10:57 pm
i first came out to my friend ana...
i was scared... i had been feeling things for girls for so long
and i needed to tell someone, since im known to not
keep secrets from my buddies it was tough...
i was talking to ana over the computer...
and i started crying. i told her everything and she was ok... she said we could talk at school...
the next day she didnt say anything until lunch when we went, alone, to talk... i told her i didnt know what to do and that i wanted to tell our other friends... she said ide always have her though... and that was good because if ide lost her, i would die...
next i told my best friends little sister because i wanted to know what my friend would think... she told me jo would be ok just scared maybe... i wanted to tell her myself but i couldnt so i had ana do it... after jo knew... i let the rest of my close friends know... im so greatful to them because they all still accept me...
there are a few friends i haave who i would never tell, because they are immature and judgmental...
i also told my cousin, and she doesnt think i am....
mymom found alot of hard evidence and everytime she asked if i loved a girl, i would ask, and what if i do? ide never tell her yes or no... because i wanted an answer...
what would she do if i was bi? tell the family? kick me out? blame herself or my (BASTARDihciignmzomunq) dad? not let me see my friends?
it was so hard but i told her i liked this guy... and that guy is now my boyfriend.... [insert sweatdrop] thank god for him he saved me big time...
but i have one more year of highschool left. (08 BABY!!!!!!!) and i want everyone i know to know me... the real me... i dont want to lie anymore... it totally sucks not being able to show myself for everything i am... including my bi-ness....
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 9:58 am
I haven't yet...I'm no good at talking about stuff like this. I think my mom suspects because I've expressed my dislike for the male-species (XD) on numerous occasions and honestly cuz I tend to stare at girls ^^;; I'm horrible lol. I was accutally thinking of telling my cousin the other day because I know she wouldn't care. I spent the night at her house a month or so ago when I was in Florida and she was talking about how HOTT Riku from Kingdom Hearts was:
her:"isn't he hot?"
Me:"whatever you say..."
Her:"is my cousin a lesbian? XD"
Me(I kinda choked):"I--uh..."
Her:"If you were I'd love you anyway"
heart heart she's my favorite cousin I love her ^^
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