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 Posted: Sat Feb 17, 2007 7:06 pm
Friends A, B, and C go to a mall. Friend A likes hobby, comic, and book shops while B and C don't care for them as much. Friends B and C like to window shop, look at guys, and chat a lot, while friend A does so to most of the time. While shopping friend A buys a cinnimon roll and brings a fork to offer some to friends B and C but forgets to mention it. Friend B dips a pocky stick into the white stuff they put on cinnamon buns and friend A says please don't do that. Friends B and C say that why doesn't friend A share the cinnimon bun and get somewhat... defensive (?) about it. Friend A said she brought and extra fork and B and C say you never mentioned it. Proceding this friend A does give a bit of cinnamon bun to each person. Next friends B and C start pointing at guys saying if they're hot or not. Friend A does not pick up on this and asks what they're doing. Friends B and C don't really explain nor do they invite Friend A into the conversation so Friend A starts to read a book. Later friend B wants to go home so friend A tries to get a hold of her dad. Friend B continues to get pissed off at the fact that she wants to get home and doesn't want to take the bus because she is slightly clausterphobic and fears the bus will be busy. So while waiting for Friend A's dad to call back friends A, B, and C all go to a shop. Then to another one. Soon friend A's dad calls back and says he will be there in 20 minutes. Friend B is still shopping and friend A says that they should go. While Friend A wants to start nagging to go friend C says "Don't. You do not want to piss friend B off" While saying this Friend A is offended and feels really bad because she does not want to be late for her dad.
Later in a MSN conversation friends A and C have a fight. I am friend A.
Basically this is what happened. I felt really frustrated at the way C was treating this whole thing. She treated B a little better (in my opinion which may be biased) because she didn't want B to be really pissed off as in her words "B is hell to hang with when pissed off". I, on the other hand, wouyld rather have her pissed off at me then treating her a bit better because of this. I feel that B can be a bit of a brat. I mean she kept complaining that she wanted to get home and we did everything we could to get her there. Later on MSN me and C are talking and we had a bit of a fight. I felt that she treated B differently because she didn't want her mad at her but is some way disregared my feelings completly. C said that reading rather than hanging out with them was rude. My reply was that you guys were talking about some game that you didn't explain and confused me to no end so I gave up on trying to understand and play so I read. That may have been a bit rude but I felt they excluded me from their conversation and never really tried to bring me into it. Later I was reading in the store because I was bored and had no interest in waiting in line with them. Plus friend B really had only asked friend C to help her (or so my hearing heard and I've been told I have bad hearing so maybe it was that). So me and C got into a fight about all this.
In your opinion who was right or wrong? Did I have any reason to be mad/frustrated?
The ending lines of are convo were:
Me: I'm going to go. I'm crying and I'm not thinking clearly.
C: yeah.
Me: Bye
C: I feel like s**t now does that help any?
Me: No
Basically that was it. I really needed to say something and I really hope you guys will give an honest opinion.
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Posted: Sun Feb 18, 2007 9:24 am
i think both sides made errors, however I think you are perfectly justified to feel the way that you do/did (its not good to feel outcasted when your with your friends. trust me, i know what thats like just because i'm the only female friend out of 7 male friends, its not lways easy to fit in with so many differences).
I have a friend were its basically like walking on egg shells just to try and not upset him because he has a way to bring the mood down to a depressing level when hes upset or starts to lose at something (which generally means losing to him on purpose whenever we play something together, or never critisizing his driving even though you're terrified for your life and he tail gates like crazy -_-; )
I guess what I'm getting at with that story was that sometimes sacrifices have to be made just to keep things going smoothly and happily, So I can see what your friend C meant when she said what she did about leaving B alone before she got angry (I don't think she meant to treat you differently, i think she jsut wanted to preserve what was left of a good time, even if it meant being a little late).
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Posted: Thu Feb 22, 2007 7:17 pm
Thanks Lark. You're right on many things. Friend C did want to have a good time but we all kind of mucked up xD Every thing's cleared up and we're all good. Thanks for your opinion. I really appreciate it ^^
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Posted: Thu Feb 22, 2007 8:58 pm
you're welcome, I'm glad i could help in some way, and I'm so glad everything worked itself out ^^
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Posted: Fri Apr 13, 2007 7:17 pm
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