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 Posted: Fri Mar 09, 2007 3:52 am
my boyfriend's exgirlfriend keeps sending me threatening phone calls..... and apparently she is going to kick my a** tomorrow (saturday) but i'll be at a seminar stephen hayes is putting on at my dojo. (irnoic?) well my dad says to ignore it, my brother thinks i shoudl fight her, and i think i should tell my martial art teacher and get his opnion. this isn't some guy fight either. this is a GIRL fight over A MAN. alot more serious. it's like hte astronaut lady. women will do insane htings for guys. Quote: ok, so i guess people got the question wrong. what i want to know, is how to avoid a fight int eh first place, and get her to leave me alone. how do i do that?
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Posted: Fri Mar 09, 2007 9:28 am
If she attacks you, kick her a**.
But don't start it.
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Posted: Fri Mar 09, 2007 5:14 pm
Remember! You must always fight defensively! Let the fight come to you. Dont go to fight! If she attacks you, unleash the Shinden Fudo Ryu! (My fave).
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Posted: Sat Mar 10, 2007 11:48 am
talk to your master, but she approaches you, don't wait for her to hit you first go nuts, if you actually think she will attack you, you have every right to start it, you don't need to wait to be injured before you can defend yourself
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Posted: Sat Mar 10, 2007 12:53 pm
Swiftt talk to your master, but she approaches you, don't wait for her to hit you first go nuts, if you actually think she will attack you, you have every right to start it, you don't need to wait to be injured before you can defend yourself Attacked first≠injured I'm sure she's perfectly capable of a defence, especially if she's expecting a blow. Also, in a legal standpoint, if you let them hit first, you aren't liable for damage you then apply to their body.. cool
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Posted: Sat Mar 10, 2007 7:41 pm
Magenterange Swiftt talk to your master, but she approaches you, don't wait for her to hit you first go nuts, if you actually think she will attack you, you have every right to start it, you don't need to wait to be injured before you can defend yourself Attacked first≠injured I'm sure she's perfectly capable of a defence, especially if she's expecting a blow. Also, in a legal standpoint, if you let them hit first, you aren't liable for damage you then apply to their body.. cool hitting her first will escalate the situation. but i will talk to my teacher.
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Posted: Sat Mar 10, 2007 8:45 pm
Well, its Saturday night. How'd it go? Did you even see her?
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Posted: Sat Mar 10, 2007 10:32 pm
Magenterange Swiftt talk to your master, but she approaches you, don't wait for her to hit you first go nuts, if you actually think she will attack you, you have every right to start it, you don't need to wait to be injured before you can defend yourself Attacked first≠injured I'm sure she's perfectly capable of a defence, especially if she's expecting a blow. Also, in a legal standpoint, if you let them hit first, you aren't liable for damage you then apply to their body.. cool actually in a legal situation, if you believe they will try cause you bodily harm you can initiate and still not be liable for the damages you cause, BUT KEEP IN MIND because you are a martial artist if it does get taken to court you will be judged a bit harder, so the legal amount of force for you would lower then it would be for someone untrained
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Posted: Sun Mar 11, 2007 6:21 am
Swiftt Magenterange Swiftt talk to your master, but she approaches you, don't wait for her to hit you first go nuts, if you actually think she will attack you, you have every right to start it, you don't need to wait to be injured before you can defend yourself Attacked first≠injured I'm sure she's perfectly capable of a defence, especially if she's expecting a blow. Also, in a legal standpoint, if you let them hit first, you aren't liable for damage you then apply to their body.. cool actually in a legal situation, if you believe they will try cause you bodily harm you can initiate and still not be liable for the damages you cause, BUT KEEP IN MIND because you are a martial artist if it does get taken to court you will be judged a bit harder, so the legal amount of force for you would lower then it would be for someone untrained right. as long as you say "i was in fear of my life" than tahts how you can get out of somethign like that.
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Posted: Wed Mar 14, 2007 11:41 am
kikkaku Swiftt Magenterange Swiftt talk to your master, but she approaches you, don't wait for her to hit you first go nuts, if you actually think she will attack you, you have every right to start it, you don't need to wait to be injured before you can defend yourself Attacked first≠injured I'm sure she's perfectly capable of a defence, especially if she's expecting a blow. Also, in a legal standpoint, if you let them hit first, you aren't liable for damage you then apply to their body.. cool actually in a legal situation, if you believe they will try cause you bodily harm you can initiate and still not be liable for the damages you cause, BUT KEEP IN MIND because you are a martial artist if it does get taken to court you will be judged a bit harder, so the legal amount of force for you would lower then it would be for someone untrained right. as long as you say "i was in fear of my life" than tahts how you can get out of somethign like that. Still, preemptive action is risky.
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Posted: Wed Mar 14, 2007 4:36 pm
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Posted: Thu Mar 15, 2007 5:12 am
the fight? not really. i'm trying to avoid it as much as possible.
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Posted: Thu Mar 15, 2007 10:42 am
kikkaku the fight? not really. i'm trying to avoid it as much as possible. Good for you! smile
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Posted: Thu Mar 15, 2007 2:24 pm
Magenterange kikkaku the fight? not really. i'm trying to avoid it as much as possible. Good for you! smile thank you, unlike these guys, to me ninjutsu is about winning without fighting or hurting yourself.
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Posted: Thu Mar 15, 2007 4:45 pm
I agree. The best way to win a conflict is to avoid the problem.
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