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Great Question, for me its a a few reasons

back home i was a role model to alot of kids and i wanted to show them virginity is something special but not loosing it to just anyone.

I have been in mostly long distance relationships so the opertunity was often lossed

im still young and love last a long time so i havnt been in love with alot of peaple.

I just dont think about sex all that often.

I promised frinds and family i whould not give it up for anything less then love, my intregaty is important and i always keep my word.

and probably my antisocial behavure whould have an effect.

I have a few reasons;

1. Against what I believe in--I'm saving myself for after marriage
2. I don't really find it that appealing
3. I get a very overwhelming sense of guilt from things that aren't nearly as sexual, already D= Like kissing too much at once gets me feeling guilty
4. I don't want to mess up my future
5. I know I'm not ready to handle the emotional baggage that should come along with sex
6. Quite frankly, I'm scared of the concept/the pain it will potentially cause the first time

I'm going with Dragosan here. I don't have any objections to sex before marriage. But if I get it off for the girl who's passed out, I feel like I'd be cheating myself. Get what I mean?

I'm just not really interested and think that it's not worth the risk and time to lose it early. biggrin I'm proud to be one of the few virgins out of my friends. I always seem to date a virgin (before I know they are ones xd ) and so I never feel alone and it gives me the feeling that if I marry that person it will be a special moment for both of us.

Why do I stay a virgin...

Well, there's a bit of a religious aspect to it. I do want to be a virgin on my wedding night.
Oddly enough, my catholic mother is against me staying a virgin up until my wedding day. XD
She's for me experimenting before I go into one relationship having sexual relations with only one person. XD

To be honest, although I am excited about one day losing it, I don't want to lose my virginity in a callous and careless manner. When I give myself to someone, I want to be able to give all of myself. When I fall in love, I want that person to have all of me or I might just never love again. XD

I want to idealize my love. It's very difficult to receive, as I'm a rather paranoid person. At the same time, I will trust fairly easily in keeping with my optimistic yet realistic beliefs.

I don't want to give it away to the first boyfriend I have. I don't want to lose my virginity to the first schmuck who tells me he loves me (I know that's harsh, but I can explain!), especially if I don't think of him that way.

I don't want to be easy, and I'm not.

I have morals.

Of course, there's also the fear of getting pregnant. I don't have a job, and I'm not in college yet. I can't support a kid on my own, and my family is stressing enough. Add a pregnant teenager, and I'm pretty sure my step dad would talk my mom into abandoning me on the streets for being so horrible. e_e
He would. I'm so effing sure of it.
Even so, I don't want to be that girl who gets pregnant and can't take care of her own kid.
That besides, my mom was a single mother when she had me at sixteen, but she had the support of my grandparents, her brothers, her godmother, my godmother, her aunts-you name it. She had the support of her immediate and even extended family. @_@;

She worked hard to keep us all afloat, and still try to be a good mom to me while attending high school in order to finish and then go on to college, where she earned a degree in travel.

I wish I had that, but I wouldn't have it. She's married now, so I'm stuck with my nuclear family, and the only one I feel any form of loyalty from is my mom. Even so, she's behind her husband, and I feel like I lack even that loyalty from her.

I feel that, if I were to be pregnant at an age where I wouldn't feel comfortable raising a kid on my own, I would be essentially abandoned to do it on my own.

I don't want to abort my first child. When I get pregnant, I want to have the child, but because I want to give birth should I get pregnant, I want to put off all possibilities of my being pregnant until I am secure in feeling that I will be able to raise my child in a way that I see fit, and that I will be ale to be a part of her life while also being financially secure, and just feel safe in as much as possible.
If I get pregnant, I want the guy responsible to be there to raise her. I don't want to marry a guy who would leave me. I would think I would be wise enough to choose a guy who wanted me for me but would want to raise a family as well.
I don't plan on marrying a bailer. XD
I want to have the education and job that will allow me to slowly acquire the funds to raise a child should the need arise.

I don't want to even think of having sex til I'm in my late twenties. @_@; of course, that's just because I don't want to get married until my mid or late twenties. However, if I were to meet my future husband when I was twenty, that would only give us five years to get to know each other *goes off on a wild tangent*

Long time, but I think I can manage. So far so good, but I'm just nineteen. XD

Well, I've only fallen in love once, and after three years the guy broke my heart, so I'm left to pick up the pieces to do it again.

If I were smart, I would never allow myself to love again.

But if I'm wise, I'll love again, and stronger than I did before, but I'll look for more signs.
I will refuse to give my body for anyone after until I can get something definite, as far as feelings and our bond goes. @_@;
(I feel like I'm going to get divorced because my husband won't love me anymore. XD I think if that happens, I'll let myself go... on a singles cruise, to the beach, to Rome, Italy, and other places that I wouldn't let myself go to while I was married to the p***k. XD)

Don't get me wrong. I want to love, but I would choose a sure yet passionate thing over a merely passionate thing. n_n;

I hate the entirely unstable, even though I adore truly random people. I admire them for their unwitting creativity. However, I would not be able to stay with a guy who tells me he loves me one day, and one week from then will tell me he hates me and never wants to see me again. ******** that.
I'm sorry, but really: ******** that.

I don't want to deal with all the stress of losing it to someone who is not going to be worth the pain, as I see fit. @_@;

I want to think that I will love myself enough to refuse someone who asks me to have sex with them, even if I think that I love that person a lot. Especially if I believe that I love that person, I would like to think that I will tell them 'no' for all these reasons, and logically rate their reaction over the span of the next couple of days.

It could either cement our relationship, or it will make it even more rocky. If that happens, it would be best if we just kissed and said good bye. sweatdrop


Sooo, uhh, yeeaah...

1) Want to be married before I have sex

2) Want to be financially secure before possibly having a child.

3) Want to marry someone I am genuinely in love with and who I can be friends with long into the marriage.

4) Do not want to have any possibility of having a child either out of wedlock or during a tumultuous time.

5) Want to give birth to the first embro that is created in my cursed womb. XD
No rape for me, please. n_n; I want a stable relationship.

So. I want to be able to give birth to my first child in a time when I can totally take care of him or her. This means I need to have the education and or the stable job that will allow me to raise the child without want as far as that is concerned. We only really need the basics after all. n_n I want my child to know all of her (or his) family, so I want to be married to a decent man when I get pregnant.
I don't want to get married until my late twenties, because I want to marry someone I've known for a while whom I could trust with my life, whom I could fall in love with, who would treat me with the love and the respect I deserve, who I could get along with, and whom I could honestly depend on.
Buuut that takes a while.
So if I don't want to be a struggling, single mother and I want to be married, that will take several years. n_n
Late twenties at the youngest. n_n

It's all just a biiig plaaan for me, isn't it? -_-
(I know, I know, but at least I have my reasons! >.<)

If you really want the truth, it's because I can't find a boyfriend. lol

I am a vigin because:
1. I have morals
2. It goes against my religion to have sex before marriage
3. I wanna lose it to someone who truly loves me
4. I don't want to lose it to some random person and later regreret it.