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 Posted: Sat Apr 14, 2007 11:58 am
I was wondering when did you decide that you were going to remain a virgin until the time was right?
Did you decide since you were little?
Did you decide when you heard a story?
Did you decide when you heard of the deseases?
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Posted: Sat Apr 14, 2007 12:09 pm
i never actually decided i just am a virgin.
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DeletedChar11111111111 Captain
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Posted: Sat Apr 14, 2007 3:35 pm
Odd, story actually. my life as a kid was like a fantasty world created by videogames. I belived some of them where real sweatdrop . my Brothers where always being evil and they where older then me. the younger of the two liked to beat me up physcally while my oldes brother was a synical jack a** (still is). the point is they like the role of evil they had no reson to belive in morals and my parents never punished them they kept try to enforce their evil ways on me. So like the good knight I thought I was. kept true to my ways of being kind, and virtuous. I think thats way I stay a virgin, because my inner child is really strong.
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Posted: Sat Apr 14, 2007 8:10 pm
there wasn't really a decision point, per se, for me. i was raised that way. my morals just basically tell me i'm a virgin. i'm not mentally mature enough for that sort of thing anyways. *shrugs*
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Posted: Sat Apr 14, 2007 10:29 pm
I decided that when I was a little kid. I was a goody-two-shoes and wanted to do everything how I saw it as right. I still feel the same way and shall wait till marriage.
^__^
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Posted: Sun Apr 15, 2007 12:00 am
It is part of my faith. Also I'm a bit immature when it comes to sexuality lol. I still bring up the word "cooties" now and then just to bug my friends. I'm still uncertain of the whole disease thing myself >.<. ALso I notice that white weddings between two virgins seems more special than those that aren't.
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Posted: Sun Apr 15, 2007 1:23 am
Never avowed, and if it comes my way, I'll take it! But, unlike most, I don't push it. I made THAT vow after realising friendships went bad if you apply horneyness.
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Posted: Sun Apr 15, 2007 4:14 am
i think it was just a constant decision since i was little.
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Posted: Mon Apr 16, 2007 8:04 am
I had always thought that when I was younger I'd like to wait until I was married to have sex. I didn't know much about sex when I was young, and I preferred to keep it that way. Then at about 16 I got to a point where I didn't really care anymore because it seemed like everyone I knew was having sex so it didn't seem like a big deal anymore. I just decided that if someone I felt I loved came along, then we would have sex if I wanted to.
I was sort of being cast out of my group of friends at the time so I decided to hang out with a different group of "friends". I was stupid and naive. I went to a few parties with them and my boyfriend at the time. People were drinking and I became really pressured into drinking also (damn you underdeveloped pre-frontal cortex!!). Long story short, I happened to walk in on my boyfriend having sex with some other girl and I went to one of my guy "friends" looking for support, instead I was sexually abused by him.
I pretty much hated all guys after that. I went back to my old group of friends, but I never told them what happened. It wasn't until I met my current boyfriend that I trusted guys again. It is now a very big deal to me to stay a virgin until I want to have sex, which would be after marriage.
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Posted: Mon Apr 16, 2007 3:44 pm
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Posted: Mon Apr 16, 2007 3:58 pm
Probly started right when everyone in my class began sleeping around and getting prego.
I don't want that to happen to me.
I do not to ruin my life.
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Posted: Mon Apr 16, 2007 4:39 pm
CaptainJackSkellington i never actually decided i just am a virgin.
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Posted: Tue Apr 17, 2007 3:29 pm
2 reasons
1) I dont want to
2) To prove a point
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Posted: Tue Apr 17, 2007 3:55 pm
Well I chose because well yes I'm trying to make smart, conscientious decisions that I can look back on and be proud of myself for.
Also because the last thing I want is an STD... I'm not gonna lie sweatdrop
I also chose because it just feels right...out of all the things in my life..I feel like my virginity is the one thing I have a true grasp on.
...I guess I stopped questioning my decision when I entered high cuz things happened and friend's lost their's and 'til this day still regret it...I don't want to have look back and say that to myself..I wanna know I made the right choice.
When I have A...JUST ONE kid I want to be able to instill good values in them and in order for that to work I have to be able to make the right choices for myselfand have confidence in them..I learned that from To Kill A Mockingbird
It's a good book in my opinion
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Posted: Tue Apr 17, 2007 8:24 pm
I never actually decided. I'm just can't get wasted, ever, or high, ever, because addictions run in my family.
Therefore, that opportunity is closed.
Any other circumstance is not probable for me because I'm so bashful about any kind of sexual issues that involve myself.
3nodding
Anyway, I'm thirteen ******** years old. I have a potentially hard, but awesome future. I'm smart. I have a 4.0 average. I deserve better than teenage pregnancy and/or an STD.
Sex is just that, sex. That's it; it isn't worth my worry or time.
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