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In my hours of useless ponderings, sometimes I come up with gems of realization. I's like to open this discussiong with something I realized about a year ago: It seems to me, most guys either are attracted to or become attracted to girls they know. (As a side note: Girls, do NOT tease your guy friends, it's serious to them, and then when you reveal you're not serious it is very upsetting.) This is usually infatuation caused by becoming comfortable around that person. I've come to this conclusion by evaluating my own thoughts and actions and observing those of others.

So, girls, I'm going to reveal something you may not know: your guy friends have most likely fantasized about having sex with you. I know I've done it, and I think less about sex than most guys.

However, there is one person that our relationship has gone beyond this. Whenever I think about her all I feel is love, but nothing romantic. When I think of her, all I think is that I want to be friends with her for as long as possible. When we were not very close, I could think of her in the normal fashion, but now that we are closer, that is more of a turnoff than picturing Rosie O'Donnell naked ( burning_eyes !)

So, anyway, does anyone else have a relationship like this? How long did it take to get to this point? Have you been jerkin' your gherkin to thoughts of your friends? Do you have any friends?

Before I went steady with my fiance, so I'm seventeen, sue me; I dated every girl I met. I would actually go to a movie and wait for a group of hot girls to walk in. I would take the hottest, but if they were all hot; I'd take 'em all.

Sometimes I would just go up to someone at my school and set up a date. I rarely, if ever, got rejected and that was only for a good reason. I'm not bragging, it's not something I'm proud of. But what can I say? I was a smooth talker.

Once in a while I would go out with a friend. Again, I was one shallow b*****d, so all my friends that were girls were hot, so if I wanted to date them they'd look good. I'm not proud at all of my history with dating.

I never cheated, but how can you do that if you're not in a relationship? I was in a few actual, one or two month xD, relationships with friends, but we never lasted. We always did remain friends though.

They get under my skin. enough said, And my only guy friend is gay. I have no guy friends.

most girls are annoying and whiny and mean and demanding.

thats why im not a lesbian.

i feel bad for my boyfriend sometimes. rofl

Mufufu. I'm gay, so it's all good.
Girls are too whiny. :/
All the ones I know, at least.

This is an interesting discussion. I think I'll add my two cents as well.
Hugs for Purple.

Have I ever fantasized about screwing some (okay, most) of my guy friends? Heck yeah.
There are three guy friends that I've wanted to have a relationship with, but didn't quite work out.
First, there's my best friend in the whole world. I'm sure it evolved from me being emotionally unstable through my childhood and him being the only one who stood up for me during that time (not counting the time he body-slammed me). I think it's called hero worship. *shrug* Some how he found out; don't remember whether I told him or not. He respected my feelings, but told me he saw me more as a sister. Looking back at him now, I'm kinda glad we never got together. He's a sex maniac, while I'm not very "sexual" at all.
Second, a good friend from high school. He almost asked me to senior prom, but I couldn't go. It almost worked out, but the number I gave him was disconnected soon after, and I never saw him after that day. *sigh*
Third, funnily enough, a guy I net here. But it's way too long-distance (differend sides of the US) and my sister, the annoying weasel she is, managed to ruin us without me even knowing. Maybe, if I get a car, we can try again. I'd like to.

And in a somewhat unrelated topic, I've found it easier on my sanity to think about really cute professors (good thing I don't sleep during class).