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angelus(always)
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Its 100% Official
I GOT DUMPED!!!


I crashed and burned badly but I did have a fun story to tell you about this weekend but its pretty redundant now to be truthful. Well for all of you that are worried about me don't be I am a little down and a little depressed but we decided not to date for all the right reasons even if I don't understand them well I do but i don't I will get to them shortly.

Needless to say I did have a really good weekend and it was a lot of fun even if the outcome didn't turn out the way I wanted it to. sweatdrop

Even though I am pretty low right now I know I will get over it in a day 2 because I have an awesome holiday on Thursday with some of the best people you will ever meet and I love you all. You know who you are even if i don't talk to you a lot you still mean a lot to me. 3nodding

But maybe you can help me out with the reason. Why do girls not like polite people I was told I was to kind and to gentlemanly, I mean so what if I open doors for a partner or any girl why is that a bad thing? And whats wrong with saying thank you and asking how someone is?. Or even something simple like fetching a drink for them. The list does go on but I think you get idea. So to my female friends I ask you is this really wrong to do am I really a dieing breed and girls just don't want that anymore? A part of me wishes I stayed a b*****d but then I don't think I would of had my American friends witch would suck and doesn't bare to think about.

I was told that I deserved someone who appreciate all the little things I do and thats something she could never do. So you see why I see the reason and I agree with it but I don't get it. So if someone has an answer please tell me.

Anyways now that the bad s**t is over and if your still reading you deserve the funny story.

I did a typical Ange I went 4 days with no sleep practically and then spent 3 hours going to Durham. I haven't really been eating very well too. I know its wrong but to be honest my head has been trying to fit everything in before I go away. So along comes Saturday and I am shattered so I drink lots of coffee while I am going around Newcastle with Jody and her friend Ruth. Then we get to Jody's Dad's were we all start drinking. Which as you know I don't really do anymore due to having a fragile stomach due to ******** it up years ago. I only had one because I really didn't feel to good. Then you guessed it Ange gets the shits violently and there is only one roll of loo paper. The rest you can fill in for yourself. But I seriously didn't think this stuff could happen for real I mean I pissed myself when I saw it happen in Along Came Polly, I wasn't laughing on Sat i can tell you. But I kinnda look back now and laugh because it is textbook me really. xd

Anyways there is my weekend. And I think the sentence for this weekend should be. What the hay!

Some you win some you loose I just hope I have a win around the corner xp





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S e n o r D r a c o
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comment Commented on: Mon Jun 18, 2007 @ 03:03am
personally i enjoy the bastards

they are sexy sexy beasts

like mmmicheallll (my bosssssssssssss)


and HAND (JOB) SOLO


i am not trying to break your little heart
i am speaking da truth

tabi is stoopid fo sho
and we will find you american c**t
then you can go back and get an english romance


comment Commented on: Mon Jun 18, 2007 @ 03:37am
Problem:

Ange, da reason why the girl cannot appreciate you for being polite is because when a girl likes you a little, she wants to be able to be (to her friends)
"omg I totally like him, but like he totally doesnt like me omg I dont know what to do, help me impress him"
and then the GF goes
"omg no worries youre dead sexy he is nonsense if he thinks otherwise, OMG lets go shopping get you new dress"

Not neccesarily that exact situation, but they wanna work for something, if youre an a*****e, they wanna tame you, make you be nice. If you start out nice they do not feel special, they say to themselves
"he is sweet, really sweet, we just met, he is probably like this to every girl in the world. "

So in trying to show them you are nice and worthy of affections by soliciting your own, you effectively turn yourself into a handout, and everyone automatically assumes- if I'm getting this for free, what's wrong with it, I can probably get better, and everyone else is capable of getting the same thing. And when you give your kindness so easily you are opening them to a whole array of premature infidelity suspicions.


Solution:

You do not really have to be a jerk, and handouts are okay, but not the whole package. Give them a free sample, and only after you've gotten them interested in trying you out.

Also to make them feel special, unique, and like no other girl in the world could replace them, instead of saying something like "I haven't had a GF in a while, and I'm totally innocent", be like "Yeah, I don't really date, not too many people interest me anymore....... but you're an alright girl".

Let them feel it's a equal trade, my friendship (or more) for yours, they aren't doing to a favor, nor you them.



Because youy are totally awesome, Ange, and some girls have trouble recognizing worth unless it's not theres, and you are totally worthy.


<3 Tabatha



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comment Commented on: Mon Jun 18, 2007 @ 05:31am
She's just... different. Girls normally like gentlemanly types O.o I don't know what was up with her. You don't need to be a b*****d, you just gotta start going for nice girls. :/

Which Newcastle? Because my English friend lives in Newcastle Upon Tyne... If you met her, I'mma scream and tackle you after my performance xD


comment Commented on: Mon Jun 18, 2007 @ 07:28am
Gentlemanly guys give me the creeps

And that's why I'm the little gentleman

And Ryan is the fair lady with red curls.


But fer reals, I'm sorry it didn't work out, we'll have the make the summer extra awesome to make up for it.



sporky_walton
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Captain_Cynic
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comment Commented on: Mon Jun 18, 2007 @ 07:36am
People are weird like that. Sometimes what you had in your head turns out different once it hits the realityness.

But oh well. Ye going to have fun for the summer's remainder. You be stuck with me.


comment Commented on: Mon Jun 18, 2007 @ 11:37am
Thanks guys you all rock, And yeah what you all said makes alot of sense especially Tabatha's comment. Thanks for helping me understand you guys all rock blaugh



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