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Morgann your going through what a lot of people refer to being through a break up as "not handling it". I mean, okay....I'm gonna make a point for a second (being selfish making a point about me sorries) but when I first went out with Bradley....I broke up with him after a while because it seemed like he was cheating on me, and he always said I love you, and we just started going out and I didn't know if he was serious or not. But to the point when we were split up I felt different and I felt like I wasn't going to get over it, but then....another guy came along and he really loves me I'm mean "REALLY" and he doesn't seem like the type to want to hurt me. And Morgann you've got the same thing...just because you don't talk with him as much as you'd like doesn't mean he hates you and doesn't love you...You shouldn't just act like Well....I can't talk to him Oh well...but to the real point "There IS a guy there for you and he can help you get over it, but you can't live in the past and then again move on to the future when you have someone who actually loves you still there for you and wants you." The fact of the matter is, love is pain, but everyone moves on whether we want to or not. It's just up to you on whether you can do it or not, but when your hurt and someone comes along to help you and mend you but you just act like their not there.....then it's like....I don't know how to explain it....BUT to make all this make sense because I know it doesn't....but I'll make it make sense Ignore all of that if you don't get it


In the end, even when we hurt, things tend to work out okay and mend themselves back together in the end