This is not a joke, please do try to take me seriously when I say that establishing a few ground rules is a very useful in helping to establish a long-term relationship. 1. Never get a bed larger than a queen, preferably a full. The closer you are, the more it promotes cuddling, sleeping close together, and overall well-being in the bedroom. 2. Don't argue over piddly things. Don't get your knickers in a twist about a decoration for the living room, and don't argue about the living room television. 3. Don't claim a space in the house as a no-spouse zone. Having a man-cave or a private office is one thing, but don't try to push your significant other out all the time. Spending time together in your partner's safety zone will give you a keener insight into their personality. 4. Find someone that you can respect and love for all of their qualities, both good and bad. If you get into a relationship to try to fix someone, you'll only end up either pushing them away, or getting hurt yourself. 5. For the love of God, sex isn't everything. You have to have more in common than compatible genitalia. Having a shared hobby is always a good thing. For example, my girlfriend and I play games together, mostly RPGs. She gets story and drama, I get fanservice. Ok, that's a lie. I cried when Aeris died, too. 6. Compromise is key. Find a good balance on major decisions, and don't be afraid to speak your mind. This way, everyone can get what they want. No harm, no foul, no sleeping on the couch. Honestly, that's all I can think of now, folks. Later.
Squall_the_Stampede · Thu Aug 14, 2008 @ 01:41am · 0 Comments |