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hey....soo...much has..happened!! im gonna say this journal is kinda like a soap opra....cuz well im in 8th grade and as if dat isnt hard enuff....my bff is pregnant...@ 13....!! she dated this guy 4 6 months he pressured her and she of course, fell for it....now a month and a half L8a...she is in da middle of deciding if she should tell her mom now or hide thte pregnanacy for as long as possible...!! its kinda like the show Secret Life Of The American Teenager....!
as if this wasnt enuf tio ruin her rep, she also got caught smoking and her BF dumped her the week after she did it with him! i feel so bad for her she will definetly be the cutest pregnant person i have eva known cuz she is super skinny and then she will just have a beach ball in her shirt....!
she isnt the first of my teen frends to get pregnant..@ 13! actually if i was to list them all i would be here 4 ever but the story im about to tell is special cuz she is my best frend and this all happend in one summer vaca and so far im one of the 3 ppl who know about the pregnancy...
so anyway...like i said it is only a month and a half since the day of the conceiving and im gonna take u back a month and a half ago so u can know the whole story...
okay so this girl was going out with her boyfriend for like 5 months when he started pressuring her to have sex with him. she spent every waking moment with him and he was all she ever talked about and i was happy for her.... in the mornings she would walk to his house so they could be alone and thats when they had their time to make out and have their fun!
i remember one morning when i met her in the front of the school and she said that her BF was mad @ her cuz she refused to do it . he started ignoring her and she wanted to do it soooo...bad but she knew it was wrong so that day she asked me for advice and i told her she shouldnt do it and she should talk to her BF. then she told me that she was going to do it and she didnt care about the consequence. she went to his house the next day and when she came to school thte next day i knew by the look on her face excactly wut she had done...she said it was the most fun in her life and she didnt regret making her BF happy...then she told me the condom had fallen off and i was telling her i bet ur pregnant but she kept regretting it thinking it couldnt happen to her since she was only 13. well then the next day she did it again and came to school and when she told me i was thinking omg u whore.!!
okay so then about a week l8er she decided she would take a pregnancy test and it came back negative so she thought i have nothing to worry about, well the truth was, she probably had taken the test to soon or it was defective but now about 2 months l8er she is staring 2 herself in the mirror thinking omg im so fat and she has definetly got a baby bump.!!
she is scared and has no idea wut to do and she doesnt have the money for another pregnancy test @ least not for a while...and she cant tell her mom! well evventually she is gonna have to but right now she isnt gonna cuz her mom had no idea hse even had a BF!!
so there u go a pretty interesting story about a 13 year old girl who has just realized that the best fun she ever had is turning into her moms biggest nightmare!! AND ITS ALL TRUE!!

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