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Before you misunderstand that I'm a stalker .. I'M NOT D:
I merely clicked the journal link and pops up recent entries and your journal entry happened to pop up and therefore I felt the need to respond to this. ♥

Adding friends on facebook is not a huge thing... nor is deleting friends on facebook a huge thing either. I don't intend to sound mean but think about it, those 300 friends that you have on facebook ... do they ALL mean something special to you? It's more like, oh I know that person so I might as well just add/accept her/him.

However, if you pm messaged him for something with a "hi", you should still recieve a message back whether he knows you or doesn't. It's common sense to recieve a "hi" back or some sort. Perhaps he doesn't go on facebook frequently, but you can usually tell if he is active or not from his recent activities on facebook. If he doesn't reply, obviously he's not trying to put in an effort to do so.
... so he used to use you and hate you but now lately he's cool with you? Are you talking about the same guy? I'm confused ... kinda. If you still want to find a way to approach him, I reccomend you to talk to him whenever he's online on facebook or when you happen to see him coincidentally at some place or somewhere and just struck up a conversation with him. Thats seriously not weird since you guys used to know eachother and it would be more weird if you guys just walked past eachother when you knew eachother.

I'm sorry I went all out with this comment and I hope you know what I mean.
"Never chase anyone. A person who appreciates you, will walk with you".

Thank you so much :]

I don't think they all my friends are my facebook really mean something to me, but I do know them ALL. Surprisingly, I either went to school with them, or have met them at work and we became friends.

It is a hard situation to explain and I don't want to go into detail because it is FAR to complicated to be understood.
I knew him, at least i think it is him. We were kinda friends I think, but at the same time he used me a lot. If I could explain the situation more, it would make a lot more sense. It's more like me, thinking we were friends, and being delusional, when he might not have even liked me, but just used me to get things. I really don't know.
I do know, however that I want to talk to him. I had a message already to just send him and I am chicken s**t so I never sent it.
It went something like this:

"Hey, I don't know if you are the Brandon I use to know when I was kid. If you are then I think we use to be friends, or something. We lived in the same park anyways...
I actually didn't think it was you, I was going through my friends and deleting people and there you were. I was like "WHO THE ******** IS THIS" so I went and looked at your profile and you look familiar. Facebook is a glitch b***h and adds random people to my Facebook if I have a friend on common with them. You know Melissa Coburn, who is related to my brother in some way.
ANYWAYS I am rambling...back to the point.
If you are that guy I use to know, it would be nice to talk and catch up or something. I mean only if you want to. I don't want you to feel obligated to actually message me back. I am really good at taking hints.
I wish you all the best, you are lookin' good.
Have a good one. :]

-Megan "




So that is what I was going say to him. I just don't know and I really need advice, because well I really did like him as a kid and would have done anything for him, which is why I don't see him as using me, but me actually wanting to do. We got in so much s**t when I was kid. Though it was mainly me. LOL